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I'm so confused.
Okay well, I really like this guy. He's everything I want. Funny, intellegent, cute, long hair, sweet, kind and he skates. There's nothing more that I want then for him to like me back. The bad thing is that my friend likes him to. No one knows that I like this kid and I've been hiding it for a really long time. I don't think he has a clue and we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him.
I need help and FAST.
I'll rate for the advice you give. Just help. :{
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:} say him , hey you are soo cool , try to flirt with him or something =)
i hope i helped good luck!
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i think you should tell your friend how you feel.shell understand.if you are gonna tell him first ask if he likes anyone.dont just blurt out your feelings think about when and how you want to let him know how you feel its better to show a guy friend that you like him by being sweet and flirting rather than in words and find oppurtunities to do things you both enjoy together with NOONE ELSE
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What you could do is to help your friend find another guy who is attractive as well for her,try convincing her to talk to him,that he is the one for her so she won't be paying attention to the guy you like.Also it's fine that you don't want to ruin your friendship which is reasonable you should just be patient intill he decides to make a move on you or if you don't want to wait very long sent signs showing or that say you like him so he would start noticing that you are interested in him.Good luck!
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OMGOSH SAME THING- mine is the same guy but his name is jon <333
well i ammited to him that i liked him and i was serious about it... it gives u a good feeling that he thinks in the middle of the night "this girl likes me"
hes also by my locker so i look in the mirror *but really looking at him* and when he looks ill pretend im cleaning my face or fixing my hairs
Hes also in all of my classes- so its hard to present something in frount of class when hes there =X
enough about him, more about you.
I started flirting with him, sence skaters hate preps (i model for abercrombie and i wear it most of the time *its required*) he doesnt like me. but he would like me is i changes my fashion and modeld for pac-sun or something... dont change yourself over a boy... I didnt, i want a boy that likes me for myself.
Also- dont mind your friend if she likes him.. My friend whom is also in my classes.. always goes "YOU SIT BY JON YOU SIT BY JON YOUR SO LUCKY I WISH I DID!!" wish really pisses me off.. not to be mean but shes fat, ugly, and is poor compaired to me. So she probally doesnt hava chance.
Be yourself around him! that will make him wanna know more about the TRUE AND REAL you... notice that caps...
Maybe try going to the movies with him... but if your shy try talking to him and getting to know him more.. i havnt hunge out with the guy i like yet.. but hopefully i will soon
Also- invite him to your parties, sit with him at lunch (without your friend that likes him also) and thats a good time to tell him that you like him
Well jon kinda embaressed me infrount of class and we were reading a play and i had a act with him where i had to *but not going to until the REAL play* dance with him and act romantic.. so i just act myself during that part and not blush
but then when were about to dance he is like "THIS IS TOO REAL AND SHE LIKES ME!!! WIERD IT FEELS LIKE WERE DATING!!" and that was like the #1 gossip of the week!
well whatever you do dont embariss your self and be yourself and reveal that you like him with a little flirt here and there but not too often or that will show that you like him over obsessaly too much.
xOo
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Your problem is like two common ones wrapped up into a big mess. You dont want to hurt your friend, and you dont want to ruin your friendship with this guy. Make sure you talk it out with your friend FIRST. You are allowed to like the same guy. So then once u talk you should tell this guy how you feel. If your friends it wont be too hard to talk to him. But make sure you talk to your friend first because you dont want her to think your trying to steal him.
Hope that helps
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You already answered your question, let me quote you.
"we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him."
In short, dont tell him you like him. There is obviously no other way this problem can be solved, you so solved it yourself.
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If I were you, I'd be open about how you feel to him. Tell him the truth, it may help..and may not. He is most likely feeling the same to you, or he wouldn't be such good friends with you. If he's really what you want, let him know.
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show it. just go out of your wway to show that you like him. and do it fast. you never know he might be hiding that he likes you too.
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Go for it and tel him in a friend way like say what would you do if i liked you or play truth or dare with him and if he says truth ask do you like me? There are ways to tell him believe me. I know it won't be that weird and if he flirts with you really tell him. First talk to your friend first to see if she's okay with it then go for it. Don't miss a chance. Guys are slow they'll end up likeing you, but don't tell until a year later when your over him then.hope i helped!!!
~queencece~
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I really don't think you should make a move on him just yet because your friend will hate you. Remember, friends always come first. But that doesn't mean he can't make a move on YOU. If he one day admits he likes you, you should tell your friend and try to explain the situaton to her. See what she says. But if she doesn't want you to go out with him, you should respsect her decision and not do it. Hope I helped :)
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