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i like my ex's best friend....14/f


Question Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 7:06 pm

hey...ok well my b/f broke up w/ me a couple months ago b/c we live too far away. i totally kinda agree with it cause it was hard to keep a relationship going. plus his internet at his house doesn't work so he's hardly ever on to IM unless he's at a friend's house. well now i have a uh...HUGE problem! his best friend. well see his name's Kyle and he is like my bestest bestest love him to death guy friend, even if he is far away. (him and my ex live in the same 4 1/2 hour away place) well i talk to Kyle all the time, and we talk for a long time he's on to IM a lot, and so am i. we're going to also meet at a winter event for our youth groups for the weekend. well, to my problem: i like Kyle. and i mean i really like kyle. i have a feeling he likes me too, but he's smart and knows how his best friend and me's relationship worked out b/c of the distance. i wish we lived closer and so i could see him so much more, also...i wish he wasnt my ex b/f's best friend. 1. he wouldnt want to hurt his friend 2. i wouldnt want him to get in a fight w/ his friend.
HHHHHEEEEEEELLLLLLLPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!! pLz! thanx sry its long! xOxOx


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xoxcarissaxox answered Friday December 2 2005, 10:53 am:
well where to start...


i've been in the same situation it sucks...but i think for now try to find someone closer to you cuz im positive if you start a relationship wiht him and you too are so far away from eachother that he will cheat on you....im sorry to say but thats what is going to happen and plus you and your ex broke up becuz of distance? well that is really stupid to gout with his best friend and then be in the same situation.....i dont want to be mean but its the truth!


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Airie answered Thursday December 1 2005, 7:41 pm:
Ok, not to be mean or anything, but I don't really think it's going to work. After all, you broke up with your boyfriend because of the distance, right? So how is this any different? You guys may talk on im, bye it's not the same as seeing eachother in person. And plus, think about your ex. He'll be so mad! So don't go out with him. You guys could just be really really close. Do what I do: you know you guys both like eachother, so just act like you're going out, but don't make it official. It works. So I hope I helped ya.

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