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This Hot Kid In 6th PEriod Lunch !!
Ok Well theres this Amazingly Gorgeous kid in my 6th period lunch named, Joe and hes soo amazing like i almost passed out the first day i saw him.. no jokee!! and belive me if i think a guy is hitt hes majorly hottt.. because i dont think many r hott.. but moving on...
My friend chelsea is obsessed over himm... and hes always looking over to me and my (girl) friends tables.. soo like yea i looked at him and he looked at me and it was almost like we had a staring contest (laugh out loud) and than his friend like tapped him on the shoulder soo he turned his head..
but my friend Chelsea totally thinks he stares at her all the time.. but hes nott.. and hes in 11th grade and were in 9th soo its like were 14 hes 17 but what ever (laugh Out Loud) we got one of our 11th grade friends to talk to him..For chelsea and the 11th grade friend who was a girl.. never told chelsea what he said but she told me..
She said Chelsea was gross and wear way to much make-up and he'd only go out with her for some "booty".
So Chelseas always tlaking about how hot he was.. yesterday she said she was in love.. i feel soo badd.. i wanna get her mind off this kid because hes not interested.. what do i sayy to her?
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Honestly, don't say anything to her. Because even if you do, she'll think you're trying to alienate her and she'll be bitter with you even if it -is- the truth.
Some stuff she'll have to learn by herself and you can't make her see anything or you might loose her.
Also, older boys = definite caution notice. I'm not talking about all guys but I'm in the 12th Grade and guys prefer girls around their own age and if they're looking at girls -that- young, chances are that they can't get a girl their own age or they're after a booty call. Guys that old don't look for a serious relationship with a girl three years younger than her. When he goes off to college, he's not going to be waiting around for some chick who is still going to take two years to graduate.
Good luck.
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tell her he is a jerk or something.
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Why not say something to her on the lines of:
"You're my friend and I just wanted you to hear from me and not other people that there is a rumour going around that that 11th grade lad said ________________"
That way, she knows you care and it might leave you a little open way into getting that lad.
BUT - he'd only go out with her for some "booty", doesn't that give a little insight into his personality?
I'll let you decide, good luck!
x Steph x
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i guess just tell her the truth. if the guy doesn't like her he doesn't like her there's nothing you can do about that. she's not in love with him. she's in love with his appearance. but if you like him and he likes you back you should go for it.
gOOd LuCkk
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You telling her would be a good thing to do and you will be a good friend, but if you tell her that he doesn't like her, she might not belive you and she would probably think that you are jelous.
The best thing to do is have him tell her. He needs to tell her he isn't interested before she gets really attached. Trust me, you never want a friend to be attached to the same guy you like.
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If you tell her exactly what he said then she could be heartbroken. I would go more along the lines of, he says he would use you for some booty. Don't tell her about the gross and makeup part.
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I definetley dont think you should lie to her cuz a good friend is honest, but you should tell her something along the lines of "I really dont think he's your type" or "He seems like a jerk from what people tell me" .Something you can think of that will take her mind off of him without telling her what she said.
ps- Tell her that you think she wears too much makeup (in a nice way!) and help her out.
i hope i helped! &hearts &hearts
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just tell her he's taken. then she won't keep going on and on about how she wants him.
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