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okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.
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Don't show off or anything just be yourself (not the self that hates talking to boys but you know what I mean) Yeah if you talk to him face to face he might like you. It seems kind of akward but usually it will work. Just tell him that you like him face to face and don't tell one of your friends to do it. Try and conquer your fear of talking to boys and just go do it. If he says he doesnt like you, it might be akward to see him after that but just think to yourself you tried and thats all I can do. If you need more advice, talk to me again. Hope my advice works. Good Luck!
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ok well im sure that you have smoe guys friends that you talk to right? well just pretend that your talking to him.Have you ever talked to him before or anything? if you didnt just next time like at school or if he is any of the same classes as you just partner up with him or something like that it might be hard the first time you talk to the him but all you can do i try or what might work is this is what one of my friends did for me becasue the samething happen to me just i they are friends or talk to him often just ask then mabey at the end of the day just start talking to him and then you start too becuase mabey you have something in common that you dont know and that can strike up a convorsation!! hope i helped and if you need any more help just ask or im me at christin15698 and ill be happy to help you with anything!! Good luck but i know you dont need it becuase you will do awesome. so just go for it theres nothing to be afraid of. And who knows if you do talk to him mabey if you get to know him enought that mabey you guys could go out but start out small first just strike up a convo or have your friend do it for you and then chime in. but i promis that you will be ok!!
hope ii helped
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I'm like that at the minute. But, I think you should do a VERY quick smile then look away or stare back until he looks away. Try and sit next to him or if he's next to you in a line, say "sorry" so at least you might get a reply of "it's ok". Walk past him and show up where he does, he will notice you then! :)
Good luck, hun!
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Awe, lol. Instead of flirting you should maybe get to know him and hang out or something so that he actually notices you're there, lol. After you become closer to him it'll probably be easier to flirt around him. When you do flirt, he'll notice you like him, and it'll be easier for you.
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Hope i helped.
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basically if hes staring at you then he knows you exist. but he could be staring at something else? cause sometimes it looks like people are looking at you but their not and its weird. trust me some of my friends and i have expeirenced it haha. anywhoo. if you really want to get this guys attention really the only thing you can do is talk to him. you cant get a boys attention any other way. so when your in class and you have a spare moment look at him try to get eye contact n compliment him on something. if your eye dont meet say his name then do it. and i really dont believe people can suck at flirting. if you tell me what you do when you flirt i might be able to help and give you some tips. and about the getting nervous around guys..it happens to alot of people so dont feel bad about it! just tell yourself that your better then the guy and if he doesnt like/apreciate you then he doesnt deserve to know you! so really if you have any other questions just ask me again and ill help!
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hey you should just go up and talk to him, maybe thats what hes waiting for....
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ok so i think i already got asked this exact same question..but that's alright here it is again...
hey! did you ever think maybe this guy you really like is thinking the same thing? obviously if he's staring at you, there's something about you he likes. some things you could do to get him to really notice you would just be to make the first move and start a conversation. (guys love girls who make the first move) also, make sure you smile a lot and make eye contact. compliments are always really good, too. overall just make sure you have fun. dont worry everyone gets a little nervous, but once you two start talking you won't even be thinking about your nerves. = )
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To get a guys attention you have to talk to them. I know it might be hard for you because you are shy, but just make yourself. It's not hard. I mean once you start talking to them, it's just normal. They won't think that you're a freak or anything so don't freak out because of that. The guy you like, just talk to him and flirt. You can't go wrong in flirting. Just be yourself.
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lol well if he looks at you alot then he must have interest in you. i dont know really how to explain how to flirt lol , but you just get that feeling when you talk to that person and laugh. I dont know if that happens to every one but it happenes to me. maybe try talking to him. i dont know wat you would talk about but , maybe make up a quesiton , like wat is the homework or something like that lol. it takes time. I hope i helped!! ( he likes you )
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