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when i was 12 i noticed the hair on my arm was growing and there was more of it, so i figured i could get rid of it the same way i get rid of my leg hair, by shaving it. Well I did and I regret it now because the hair keeps growing back darker and thicker and I have to keep shaving them since its so dark. Is there anything I can do to stop the hairs from growing in as dark and thick as they are? Or am I screwed for life?

Well, you could wax. It kind of doesn`t make it thicker and darker each time you do it, and it lasts longer. It might be painful though. =/

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ok well i have acne. lots of it, i mean its like almost every wear on my body my back my face my chest even my butt. how do i get rid of it?

Thanx in advance!

That sucks, lol. I reccomend Proactiv.. I started using it just a little while ago, and it seems to be working. Some people say at first you get more acne, and then it works a lil while later, for some reason. =/ Fyi.

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are etnies sneakers considered prep punk gangster or goth?? im just curious to know.

They're skater shoes. But many different people wear Etnies.

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Hey i do not know if this is really a sex question but... Do you girls like having big butts? like does it attract boyz?? i have heard lotsa boys say they like big butts, not like obese butts tho. just a nice big lump. Boyz answer too,are you attracted to big butts (nice lumps on the back. not obese) and boyz would you rather have bigger boobs or bigger, nicer butt. and girlz do you like big butts? and would you rather have a big butt or big boobs.

Thanks lol

Hey. Most girls like having a big butt, simply because it attracts guys. I`ve always wondered whats so attractive about it.. lol. And for your last question, both. But not huge, thats just.. nasty. Lol.

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ok im 13/f and i really want to have sex and like its like i really need it. its weird cause i like get these erges to do it. is this normal for a 13 year old?

Yes, it`s normal. Just hormones. But I wouldn`t reccomend you having "it" until you know all the consequences. So please, dont.

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I really love your eyes. But how do you get the black around your eyes like the eyeliner.

if you could give step by step im really slow when it comes to makeup.
any certain liner?

Sorry if this is wierd.
thank you.

Hey, thanks :]

Here`s a website I found that might help ;
http://www.ehow.com/how_157_apply-eyeliner.html

Also, I reccomend LIQUID eye liner. It`s kinda hard to apply pencil eye liner, but that`s just me.

I use L`Oreal Paris: Line Intensifique eye liner. It works pretty good =]

Lol, no, not at all. Anytime.

i think i might be having some boyfriend problems. a few days ago i was like 1% considering that i should break up with this guy i've been going out with. then the next morning it was completely out of the question. i couldnt tell my friends my problem because i knew the moment they heard this, it would be all around the school. the thing is, he's really cute, smart, well-known, and sweet to me. the first time i talked to him on the phone, he seemed like he was myself in another sex! we just had soo much in common, like a lot of the little things. we also had a few things that made us different. i like heights, scary movies, and partying with my friends. he on the other hand, wouldn't dance even if he was paid, likes his feet on the ground, and perfers comdedies. i mean, i shouldnt judge him by those stupid things though right?

well anyway, we've been going out for 6 months which is pretty rare for 13 year olds. when i really thought about it, i knew i would regret breaking up with him in the end. i like the idea that he's loyal, honest, and walks me to my class whenever he sees me. now whenever he calls, we run out of things to talk about in less than 10 minutes. when my other guy friends call, im usually the one babbling on about the most random things. sometimes i even feel like i should make up an excuse to get off the phone with him. do i just have nothing to say because i really like my boyfriend and dont want to embarrass myself by saying something stupid?

its weird, but part of me wants to leave my options open. but then again, my boyfriend was the best one i've ever had in my life.

i planned a party for next week and he's invited. i think that will help us reconnect a little more because i've had parties like this before and they've always resulted with me watching him leave with butterflies in my stomach. he also invited me to come mini golfing with him this friday. but my god, do i suck at mini golf or what. what can i do to make our "date" not boring without making him feel awkward?

i hope you guys can answer my questions (the last sentence of each paragraph haha). please, im wishing i can get some good answers before friday...

Hello. =)

Like you said, you and him have alot in common. Those few random *little* things shouldn't matter at all. It's no reason to break up with him..

Actually, in my opinion, i think it's good that you suck at mini golf. That way you'll have something to keep you guys occupied, him teaching you how to play. Also, you two would have another thing you enjoy doing together (hopefully you have fun) and you two would get the opportunity to learn from each other which is a good thing in a relationship. Maybe the next time you go out you could teach him how to figure skate, or something you like to do, haha. Just a suggestion.. =_=;;
Anyway, on to my point, trust me, it won't be boring.

Oh, && the phone situation is completely normal. You're just running out of things to say. Try being random && try to learn more things about him.

I hope all goes well. If you need anything else, leave me one in tha inbox. =)

Good Luck!

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should your boyfriend/girlfriend come before your best friend?

please explain too ♥ thanks.

Yah best friends should come before a gf or bf because they might leave you but you'll always have your friends. :]

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whats the name of the song that goes "never had a dream come true, till the that i met you" i know it but i cant remember it...i rate 5's ♥

Never had a dream come true - sclub7

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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

Aw. Try sitting down and talking to her. Tell her you understand whatever she's going through and your there for her. Tell her you care about her and you really want her to stop because its dangerous. If that doesn't work i guess you can't really make her stop if she doesn't want to. The important thing is you tried to help her.

Hope i helped.
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Whenever anyone on this site asks what to do with their hair, it's inevitable that a columnist is going to answer "do a messy bun" at least once.

So what is it? How do you make one? Can anyone explain?

It's just like a regular bun except messy. Here's how to do it...
* Put your hair in a nice ponytail.
* Take your ponytail and tuck the end of it to the bottom of the base and get an elastic to hold it in place. You now should have a bun.
* Take your hand and mess up the bun. Twist it and scrunch it and when you're happy with the figure, put another elastic in to hold it in place.

Hope i helped.

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OK so I have this power of flirting with guys I like and then getting them to like me back. Well I really like this one guy and he really likes me back. The thing is, he's wayy too sweet. I'm all about having fun being hyper and going wild. He's all about romantic stuff and taking me out to dinner ALONE. I guess I'm just not ready for that yet and plus we aren't even going out! I wish he was more hyper and wild and well sexy. Can I make him that way? Or should I just brek it off? He really wants to see me this weekend and I don't know what to do with him... any suggestions? (suggestions for just me and him dates and for me him his freinds and my friends dates)

You could always talk to him about how you feel. Tell him your not ready for the romantic stuff & you'd like it if he was more wild.

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Okay, this is really really embarrassing but...I can't think of what else to do but ask it on here...because it's anonymous.
I have these little bumps around my nipples, in the areola kind of, and I was wondering if that was normal...? I'm only 16, so I don't think it would be breast cancer lumps or anything like that...

That's normal. No worries. =)

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is there a tracking device in an ipod nano? mine got stolen and i dont know who has it. we have a very big school too. =/
thanks ill rate

Nope, there's not. I guess the only thing you could try is to ask people at ya school. =(

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okay my boyfriend walked past me in the hall and i said hi and his friends were like theres ur gf and he looked back and kept walking...but then the next day he acts like nothing happend...does this mean he doesnt like me or wat

please help i will give anyone a 5

Maybe he was a little embarrased because all his friends were around. I'm sure he still likes you. No worries. :]

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hey. this seems like a sort of stupid question, but please, i need a opinion on an outfit for tommorow. 13.f

here's the plan :)
blue soffee shorts
red and white striped boys polo
gray tanktop underneathe
and boy nike shox

its actuallly really cute, but since two of the pieces are boy pieces, i just wanted to check. PLEASE!

Uhmm.. well hun.. i wouldn't like it in my opinion.. blue w/ red & white is odd.. so yeah.. but if you really like it and it makes you feel comfortable.. wear it. :]

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i have to meet my boyfriend's parents tomorrow. and tips on how to make a good impression?

*Be polite. Call them ma'am , sir , Mrs. ____ , Mr. ____*

*Wear appropriate clothes. Maybe some jeans (not tight jeans.. lol) and a long sleeved shirt..*

*Have good table manners if you eat dinner with them.*

*Don't try to be desperate for their attention and say stupid jokes.*

*Don't do anything nasty with your bf in front
of his parents.*

*Be respectful.*

*Don't reveal too much about yourself or your bf & you*

Good luck. :]

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I just downloaded limewire, and i'm like out of thoughts on what songs to download.

i like anything from rap to country to rock. anything mostly
can you give me sum ideas of songs to download, like cool songs.

thanks

*Here are some i thought of*

I'm In Love With A Stripper - T-Pain
Laffy Taffy - D4L
Hustler's Ambition - 50 cent
Bobble Head - D4L
Let Me Hold You Down - Bow wow
Superman - Eminem
Lean wit it, rock wit it - Dem Franchise Boys
Nasty Girl - Notorious B.I.G.
Only You - Ashanti
Unpredictable - Jamie Foxx
Wait - Ying Yang Twins
Dreams - The Game
Rodeo - Juvenille
Tell Me When To Go - E40
Shake That @$$ For Me - Eminem ft. Nate Dogg
Out Of Control - 50 cent
Oh - Ciara ft. Ludacris
Conceited - Remy Ma
Check On It - Beyonce
Betcha Cant Do It Like Me - D4L
Touch It - Busta Rhymes
Badd - Ying Yang Twins
Stay Fly - 3 6 Mafia
Ms. New Booty - Bubba Sparxxx
Be Without You - Mary J. Blige
Temperature - Sean Paul
So Sick - NE-YO
Heard Em' Say - Kanye West
Stupid Girls - Pink
My Humps - Black Eyed Peas
Hung up - Madonna
Dont Cha - Pussy Cat Dolls
(Sorry, i can't think of any country. I;m not a fan.)

If yah need more, leave a messege. :]

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I really need to lose atleast ten pounds or more in a short amount of time. Does anyone have any advice as to some ways i could go about doing that? Please write back!

First off, you can't expect miracles in a couple of days. Ya gotta be patient. Every night do as many push - ups, curl - ups, etc. you can do. Try going to the gym twice a week, if you can. If not, jogging or any other excercise machine you might have will do just fine. Remember to eat healthy and watch your calories. :]

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okay you know how you get your period every 28 days?? do you start counting from the day you get it, er the day you end??

i gotten my period the first of march & it lasted till around the 5th er 6th. i didn't get it yet soo should i expect it around the same time??

thanks!!

You start counting from the day you get it. You might want to keep track of your period on a calendar. Oh and, most periods are irregular, so your next period might not come in exactly 28 days. :]

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