OK so I have this power of flirting with guys I like and then getting them to like me back. Well I really like this one guy and he really likes me back. The thing is, he's wayy too sweet. I'm all about having fun being hyper and going wild. He's all about romantic stuff and taking me out to dinner ALONE. I guess I'm just not ready for that yet and plus we aren't even going out! I wish he was more hyper and wild and well sexy. Can I make him that way? Or should I just brek it off? He really wants to see me this weekend and I don't know what to do with him... any suggestions? (suggestions for just me and him dates and for me him his freinds and my friends dates)
Additional info, added Tuesday April 4 2006, 6:27 pm: also, the type of person I wish he was is like stephan colletti from laguna beach.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? omg_JULIANNE answered Friday April 7 2006, 3:46 pm: He may not be your type && you can't always change those kind of people, but maybe he's not as sweet as he acts! :) You may influence him when you act like that around him. I would just hang out && see where it goes! If you are not happy with it, then move on. Suggestions for the weekend are movies (always a good place to go!), someone's house, bowling, skating, && things like that if you don't want to be by yourselves. Or if you do, you guys can go to one of your houses alone or something. I hope I helped you!
OneSweetBlond3 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 9:32 pm: You could always talk to him about how you feel. Tell him your not ready for the romantic stuff & you'd like it if he was more wild.
VixenDark answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 8:28 pm: Go somewhere fun and wild, just the two of you. Start small though. He won't be able to handle a huge change, so ease into it. Maybe go Cosmic Bowling or something like that, to make him more outgoing. Surround him with more outgoing people. Things like that. ^^ [ VixenDark's advice column | Ask VixenDark A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 7:33 pm: You can't actually turn him into a more wild side, but you can tell him that you want to be with him, but you aren't even close to being ready to settle.
If he still acts like the romantic guy he is and is taking things with you seriously, then tell him you are better off staying friends.
Kat_1989 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 7:31 pm: Well you could always ask about doing more fun things with friends and doing something you like to do to try and see what he is like hyper. [ Kat_1989's advice column | Ask Kat_1989 A Question ]
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