Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
E-mail: neelhtak_1989@hotmail.com
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Location: Milo, Maine
Age: 16
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14/f...I like this boy named Phil. He is really shy and kind of hard to get to know. I have never seen him flirt with any girl including me so I can't figure out if he likes me or not. I talk to him probably everyday and his friends have told me that they don't know or he probably doesn't like me. Here is an example. We were playing truth or dare and I was dared to kiss him on the lips and when I leaned in to kiss him both of our eyes were open and his lips didn't even move. But he just did it and didn't say anything about it. Like I really like him but do you think he likes me or not? (link)
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Ask him
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13/m
i'm in love with a girl in my class. i have no idea what to do. seriously. i told her i thought she was pretty, and i think she knows i like her, but i have no idea what to do from here. i want to ask her out, but i'm not so great at that. HELP PLEASE
thnx in advance
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You could email/ write her a note, or have a friend ask for you.
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In June, I have my 8th grade dance. It is practically like a prom. It's a huge deal and it's really fancy. I just don't know where to find a good dress. I want a short one, above my knees. I don't have very big boobs and I'm skinny and about 5 foot. I have looked at many stores and just can't fine one. The most I can spend is like $150. Thanks! I will rate 5s! (link)
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http://www.edressme.com/promdress.html
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what are good foods to eat when you're on your period?, cus im not too sure..and i wanted to know.thanks.. ill rate.. (link)
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eat what you normaly eat or what you crave, you don't need to eat any special food.
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ok well i went to this thing called student life tour in arlington, and i was with this guy named Morgan....well me and him were kinda flirting at the begining, but then when we went up by the stage for the music part, he was starting to put his arm around my waist, but then someone bumped into him and he moved it. Then we sat down to hear the teaching and we kept getting closer(if your wondering i like him too) and closer...then on the way back to our bus/van type thing, he was walking behind me and put his arms around my neck like he wanted me to lead him or something and i really liked it, but then someone bumped into me and he moved and i think he was too embarrased to go back and put his arms around me..but i really really kinda like him and i want some advice too show him that i care for him and that i like him alot. i rate really really high!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well when he puts his arms around you, lean into him a bit, an keep flirting.
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i met two girls and i like them both but....which.i sound shallow asking this but im confussed.there both pretty nice funny i cant choose.
somthing hapening tommorrow so can you say stuff soon
help
splitin2 (link)
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Well you could ask an see which one likes you, or find the one you like better.
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i am 14 and my chest is big im dd and feel horible. like if everyone was always staring at me anybody have any ideas on how to feel better about myself (link)
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Well you can qear loose clothes or go to the doctor and gives pills they have for it because my friend had it done, or there is the surgery to get a breast reduction.
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My priod omes in realy wierd cycles. I will normally always have cramps and nody pains before and durring it and i have major mood swings durring and after it also. its actually gotten to the point where my mom had to buy me herbal pms pills for my mood swings but they dont help that great. I herd that birth controll actually helps ur periode and alot of girls take it to controll their periods but im not sure on if i need them or not. plus most girls that i know of that use it for this reason are like 17 and there bodys are fully developed unlike mine since im not done developing. Is it ok and should i ask my doctor to get some? (link)
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Yeah its true, it helps. It works for me.
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I have been best friends with these two people for years now. Us three have always been good friends. But recently they have met someone else who they have been hanging out with a lot. She is a really nice girl, but it seems like my two best friends are trying to replace me with her because whenever she will do something that I do, like tell a funny story or wear my hair a certain way, they will always laugh more with her, or notice that she wore her hair differently. Every single day I make a huge effort to include myself, but it seems like they always end up with the other girl. Since us four have PE together, they always go to the other girl to be partners with. I have talked to both of my friends numerous times about this problem, but they both don't seem to make an effort to include me. I really wish things could go back to old times because we had so much fun together last year, and I don't feel ready to give up on this because us three have so much fun together.
Please help me!!
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Well try talking to them about including you more.
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I got a cell phone last summer. It came with a two year contract. Would I still be able to get a new phone this summer without having to pay a termination fee, if I stayed with my old plan?
If it helps I'm on a Family Talk plan.
I rate high. Thanks! (link)
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I think you would still have to pay the termination fee
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Can anyone on here tell me they know the feeling of absolute despair? That's what I've been going through for the past several months. The past week has been really bad. I haven't been able to think, to focus, to sleep, even to talk is hard because I can't seem to put words behind it. Even my schoolwork is suffering. In my English class for an in-class essay, I couldn't write it. I just couldn't get past the prompt "Choose a novel or play in which a character experiences a point of no return in his life, where his life will never be the same again, and explain its impact on the character." I just couldn't write about that because it so closely paralelled what I'm going through right now.
Please don't think I'm just some 13 year old girl who needs to rebell. I'm 17 and I'm graduating at the end of this year, and everything in my life has been coming to a head. My schoolwork is suffering because I can't seem to find the passion that I used to have for seeking out knowledge, my home life is hell because my mom is emotionally and sometimes physically abusive, and she's trying to block my entrance into college in the fall. I just feel like everything's falling apart and I can't get through this time.
I feel an intense desire to just quit life, to seek out the absolution of death, just to escape the hell I'm living right now. But I'm too afraid to do it. I can't just draw a razor across my wrist. I've already talked to people about this, my high school principal, the director of social services, and a really big source of support has been my boyfriend. But I can't do this anymore, I can't drag anyone else into it, I can't talk one more time and force myself to think about my pitiful excuse for a life and how badly I've screwed things up.
If you've stuck with my ramblings this far thank you. I would really, really appreciate any advice.
Thank you. (link)
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Well you can give up on life, you need to try. Try talking to one of your friends and see if they can help.
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ok so here is the thing i got less then a month to do this.. i wanna run for ASB commistion (sp?)of media( the person in charge of the music that they play every friday in ASB. i need some ways to when everyone else. like i can make a speach (2-3 minutes long) or i can make a skit. any ideas. i really wanna be in ASB but how can i tell people i deserve to be in it. ( i was in ASB for 2 years in middle school) o yea i will be a sophmore and i am 15/f.
p.s. we can make banners and t-shirts and w.e but what should i put on them? how can i make mine more noticeble then others?
any other ideas would be appericated. (link)
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Get floresant colors, an say what you want to do to help.
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can anyone tell me how much and what i should eat when i wanna loose weight about 2 weeks???
thanks i'll rate!! (link)
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Work out, try yoga, go running, eat salads, fruits, cut down on carbs
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hi people first of all sorry this is long!
well my life pretty much sucks!!! i have 2 weeks vacation now and i am soo not happy about that cause im gonna be bored and now i have to wait 2 weeks to solve my problems in school and everything! i really need to talk to a guy i like to make thinks right again and what if he's like over me than?? and no1 is there cause people go to texas or florida and i can stay at home and i have like nothing to do and i really really need to talk to that guy and i heard him saying on the last day of school: now i dont have to see her ugly face for 2 weeks! and i hope he didnt mean me with that well i'm not sure i never had a fight with him or anything.....maby he meant a teacher but i just wanna know how he feels about me!!!! and im soo bored what can i do???? (link)
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Try asking him
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ok so me and my friend are goin on a double date with our boy friends and i am so scared becasue i want to make a movei but i am so scared like really scared i know im ready but im just really scared im scared that ill be really bad i need some tips on anything and everything there more then one thing that i need help with so just give me some advice thanxs ill rate fives if good advie (link)
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I think you should make the move, don't feel stupid. Because I am sure he wants it to happen to.
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There is a boy named Luis at my school who I recently went out with. We went out for two weeks, then he broke up with me and told one of my friends that he felt like it when she asked why he broke up with me. But he told my best friend-his sister-that he was afraid that since everyone was finding out I would get into a lot of trouble. I'm not supposed to date until I'm older(sucks don't it?). He's always more truthful with his sister because she'll make him tell the truth. she always knows when your telling the truth. the about a week ago he asked me to get an A for him on a fake computer test something like studyisand. I did and when the teacher found out we both got into trouble but me more because he just asked me. My mom thinks he's not right for me and that I shouldn't like him. but I do. and there's another boy that's in my class since (Luis is younger that me by a year) that I have a crush on. Logan is okay but he is...well...I cant really explain what I feel about him. He's gotten me into trouble to but only a little we had to miss lunch recess. That's it while Luis got me lunch detention and no recess for a week. I'm not sure about Logan because my other best friend likes him too. She doesn't know I like him. no one does other than you people who read this. I feel horible for falling for someone she's like since she moved here. What should I do? Which one Luis or Logan if either one of them?
please help me
Jen (link)
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Well I think you should date who you like better and that person will exccept it in time
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ohk, im 5'0, 140 ilbs gorgous face,tan skin... im really pretty, everyone tells me ... its just the weight. i have my hair how everyoone does there hair. i dont like to where my hair up in a pony, cause it doesnt look right. i want to get my hair how like all the teenagers have there hair, straightened and up in a messy bun my hair is to my sholders. how can i make myself really atractive, & tell me how to loose weight, i want all of this done by the summer, and if thats not possible then by aaugest? thanks (link)
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Trying working out.
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my mom is overprotective. she won't let me date until i'm 16 and stuff like that. I can't go anywhere without an adult unless I have my best 2 best friends with me and I can't watch movies uless they are PG or PG13 until she's watched them, and I hate that. I think she's overprotective because my dad died when I was 3weeks old. my little brother can do almost anything. It's not fair. How can I get her to stop being overprotective of me? (link)
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Try talking to her about how you know your her little girl but you are growing up and would like be able to have a little freedom. An explain how you feel about your brother to.
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im not completly happy witb my body but i mean its okay. the only place i have cellulite is my arms and they are the worst thing about me. could i lose a little weight by may 5th.. and how could i make the cellullite go a little bit away (link)
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You could try yoga, or lift little weights.
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Ok so here's the deal....I went out with this guy Teddy and he is 19 i am 17... I went out with him for like a week....but we argued all the time and stuff and it was not working but i stuck through it because he really liked me....In the mean time my Ex boyfriend Rey wanted to get back with me and he is the love of my life so offcourse I took him back and broke up with Teddy.....Well Teddy won't leave me alone now he calls me all the time CRYING AND CRYING AND CRYING!!!!!It is driving me crazy he is writing me emails makin me feel like shit...and the point is i cant get him off my ass and he is now telling me he is going to kill himself and saying all this stuff.....what should i do and what should i tell him?? i just want him to leave us alone...i care about him but this shit is getting annoying already but i dont want him to do anything stup0id to him self either he already cut himself
Omg i need so much HELP PLEASE PLEASE ADVICE I WILL LEAVE FEED BANK AND GOOD RATINGS FOR GOOD ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME THANX
Anabel (link)
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What you should do is tell him how you feel an tell his parents or someone that might be able to help him.
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