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Get him off my ASS!!


Question Posted Saturday April 8 2006, 3:13 pm

Ok so here's the deal....I went out with this guy Teddy and he is 19 i am 17... I went out with him for like a week....but we argued all the time and stuff and it was not working but i stuck through it because he really liked me....In the mean time my Ex boyfriend Rey wanted to get back with me and he is the love of my life so offcourse I took him back and broke up with Teddy.....Well Teddy won't leave me alone now he calls me all the time CRYING AND CRYING AND CRYING!!!!!It is driving me crazy he is writing me emails makin me feel like shit...and the point is i cant get him off my ass and he is now telling me he is going to kill himself and saying all this stuff.....what should i do and what should i tell him?? i just want him to leave us alone...i care about him but this shit is getting annoying already but i dont want him to do anything stup0id to him self either he already cut himself

Omg i need so much HELP PLEASE PLEASE ADVICE I WILL LEAVE FEED BANK AND GOOD RATINGS FOR GOOD ADVICE PLEASE HELP ME THANX

Anabel


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lfuenteschickl answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 12:24 am:
hey im really sorry but try askin him to be just friends like best friends?...or try hookin him up with a friend or somthing ....tell him that if he wants to get over you tell him that its kinda easier if he could try keeping busy intell he gets his own life! i hope i helped!

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yoda answered Sunday April 9 2006, 4:10 pm:
you might want to call he's parents or tell the police, or tell him "get a life!!!!!!!!!" ok don't do that he might kill him self right then and there, but try to hook him up with some one else ( he will propble refuse and say your the only one for him) or just not pay attion to him. than there the posablity of him becomeing a stocker LOL but if he does you should call the police.

ps you could all ways look for help from your parent's. please rate this

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pplperson answered Sunday April 9 2006, 11:00 am:
tell his parents. and does your boyfriend know about it? you might want to tell him

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karenR answered Saturday April 8 2006, 8:29 pm:
Tell one of his parents about his suicide threats and why. Then don't worry about that any more.

Block him from sending you email. Don't talk with him on the phone ( tell his parents he needs to stop calling you too).

His life isn't your responsibility. What he does after you have told his parents of his threats is out of your hands. You did what you could to stop him.

I know that sounds harsh but so is his trying to blackmail you into staying with him by using threats of suicide.

If he bothers you in person, tell him you will call the police if he continues. Then follow through and do it.

Should he threaten you...not saying he will, so don't panic, but if he should...Tell your parents and contact the police. Most likely he won't do that but I am just covering it to be on the safe side. Don't take any threats lightly.

Good luck. :)

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devilspawn_666 answered Saturday April 8 2006, 8:03 pm:
Don't answer Teddy's phone calls or emails. Just try to ignore him and he'll eventually get the idea that his childish actions aren't going to get him anywhere with you. If you do end up having to talk to him for whatever reason, let him know why you won't be going back to him and let him know that if he continues to harass you that you'll involve the police. That's what I reccomend if he continues this... because you and your boyfriend need your privacy.

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Kat_1989 answered Saturday April 8 2006, 5:58 pm:
What you should do is tell him how you feel an tell his parents or someone that might be able to help him.

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