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Am I Jealous Of Her?
O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..
but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!
Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...
But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS?
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you aren't jealous. you are smart and you respect yourself and you want the best for her.
if you are willing to do things with guys just so they will want you more..you are attracting the wrong kind of guys.
respect yourself and you will find guys who will respect you.
you could have told her a little more nicely..but she needs to be told the truth.
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Well, no I don't think you're jealous. Hell, I'm mad at her for being so easy and I don't evem know her.
The way you handled it wasn't so great though. You should have explained it calmly but I guess you were justified anyway.
Forget about her for a bit until she comes around. She needs to realize that 14 is too young to go around having sex with anything that has a penis.
Also, are you still talking about Chelsea?
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i think you mite just be a lil jealous because shes getting a lot of attention but for the wrong reasons. but i just read ur additonal info and karma came around and bit her in the ass. dont turn into a whore and if she changes you could be friends with her again or something i had that problem with one of my friends haha but now its all good. just give her some time to change and if not screw her
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Perhaps you're jealous. The majority of males prefer girls with experience a.k.a. the type of girl who sticks out her chest to get the male attention. I wouldn't encourage you to do that. Be yourself and don't become like her just because it looks like she's getting all the attention at the minute.
x Steph x
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Hi there,
Do you want to be viewed as a whore? If your answer to this is NO then you are not jealous.
What you did is give your friend a few home truths, we all need this done occassionally! It's not nice to listen to someone slate you which is probably why she was upset, but hey, the truth hurts sometimes!
Guys normally go for girls that are fun to be with, don't worry you will get your share but unlike your friend you won't have to bribe them with sexual favours.
I would talk to your friend again and just tell her that you weren't intentionally trying to upset her but the things you said were true and that is how people view her - I mean if you, her best friend, thinks these things about her then what must everyone else think!!! Reputations are SOOO easy to get and almost impossible to lose!
Take Care
Mel xx
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Hey you know what your NOT jealous of her, and if thats what she says then shes wrong.. You tell her off because your jealous, you did it because you really care for her.. No offense or anything but your friend needs to grow up and relized that you told her off cuz your a TRUE FRIEND!!!!Hope that helped
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As sad as this is to say i was once like that. i mean i didnt do it after knowing them for an hour but i just dated alot of guys...and my bestfriend got fed up with it and got pissed off at me to. and you know why? not because she was jealous in any way why would someone get jealous over that, she got irritated because she really cared about me and didnt want to see me going down the wrong road in life. to this day i thank god that she handled it the way she did because im not like that...i have a boyfriend i love and have been with forever...just let her know you love her and care about her and dont want to see her get herself into a bad situation
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No, I doubt you are jealous. It sounds more like you are upset that she is changing. And that you hate what she has become. This will happen many times in life, unfortunately. Try to talk to her, if that doesn't work, move on. The past is the past. She may have been a great friend once, but now she seems like a whore from what you say. Not the kind of person who I would want to hang out with, but I don't know about you.
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I don't think you are jelous at all. Why be jelous of that.
If you think about it, the guys that want her probably want her for what she has to give them. I think you're much better than her. The things you said to her were very truthful even though they seemed harsh.
She is your best friend after all, so I think you should apologize for yelling at her. Just tell her you meant what you said but you defenetly didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Tell her that you miss the old her and you wish things were the same. Good luck with everything!!
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Your not jealous at all. You just dont want your friend getting hurt even though you said that stuff to her. Also i don't know how old you are but eventually goes don't always go for the sex they eventually want to settle down. but no matter what you do if this girl is a true friend to you she might even take your advice. but stay by her side through everything because when it comes down to it. shell always want you by her side.
cassie
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I think so.
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I don't think you're jealous. It's very hard to watch a friend turn into something very trashy, it angers you to see her this way. But, just know that what you said to her was trashy too, and it might be true, but the best thing to do is just not say a thing about it because:
1. It saves any trouble of her trying to get eveyone to go against you, or bully you.
2. It just doesn't need to be said, later on in her life she will probably be called those names by someone else.
Your friend sounds selfish when she denies you being by her side when she needed you, but she knows the truth. I know that angers you too, but you know that you were a great friend, and so does she. When you confront someone, don't yell and call them names, because it won't make them think over what you said. Even if they start yelling, just say calmly that that is how you feel about it and then walk away.
-TheTeenGirl
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its a little jealousy, but its more of her being a whore and you not liking it. i mean really i cant stand girls like that. just prove her wrong and be there for her and on another note. dont become like her.
-alex
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