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Last year I got in a lot of fights.(not fist fights but like curse fights online) So I kinda had a bad reputation. Well now this year I'm more girly and its my last year in my school then i go to high school so I'm trying not to have any fights this year. Well this girl in my grade who is mean to me but I'm not mean to her (i just get mad when she gives away my sn to strangers)she found out some how that I'm on advicenators. Well today she asked me a question a private one to me and she said my full name (first and last) and said that I pick on her and bully everyone. She also said that i take everything from her even the boy she liked that liked her. Now I have no clue what boy liked her that I liked/like. I just feel like I'm hated by everyone and no one likes me. And I don't know what to do to make myself cheer up. Wouldn't she be the bully now? What should I do? I feel so hated and unwanted.
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She sounds like someone you'd be better off ignoring. I am sure not everyone hates you.
As far as her harassing you in here.... isn't going to happen. Next time she baits you, reject her question.
If she continues to bother you, file an abuse report. Don't delete the question though until the abuse report has been dealt with. I would only do that if her questions just get to be to much. :)
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I'm sure you're not hated by EVERYONE and I don't dislike you and I don't even know you!! :)
You "bullied" her by curse fights but yes, she is the bully now. Either ignore it, deny it or joke about it.
Ignoring it - This could do your head in over time but surely, if you just ignore it, she'd go away..
Deny it - Does she have proof of this so called "stealing" boys away from her or bullying?
Joke about it - Call her pathetic and for her to grow up. It sounds like she is in a desperate need to grow up and I think you could tell her that!
G'luck!
x Steph x
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hey you should just ignore her. Cuz all shes doing is starting this between you two, cuz she knows that your a changed person since last year. But if i were you i would have cussed that bitch out by now, but since your trying to stop- i wouldnt suggest that. Since your addit try hanging out with people that make you feel loved and wanted.
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First of all, you don't have to answer her question. You can simply delete it. Now as for her bullying you. She's picking on you because you were the bully last year. She senses that you are not the same person you were last year and is taking advantage of the situation. She may even think that you are deserving. She's getting back at you for what she perceives as the atrocities you inflicted on others. This is one of those situations where you kind of made your bed, so to speak. You can make it through unscathed though. One of the things I suggest you do is walk through the halls as if there is nothing bothering you at all. Have a big smile on your face and say hi to everyone. If there is something you can do to help someone, do it. Be so sweet sugar would melt in your mouth. After a while people will be talking about her. She will look pretty silly saying bad things about someone that is nice to everyone and always has a smile on their face. She is just venting. Words canâ??t hurt you unless you let them. So, you did some things last year that you regret. Move on. Be cheerful, delightful, pleasant and happy. You say you canâ??t because of the mean things people are saying? Yes you can. Your state of mind is totally up to you. You can choose to let these things bother you or you can choose not to. Now, I know you think that this will be difficult. At first it may be difficult. The thing is the more you practice being happy the closer to being happy you will become. Then all of a sudden you will find that people will be attracted to you and will want to be with you. You will have lots of friends and what a few people say about you will mean nothing. As a matter of fact at that point people will think badly of the people who are saying bad things about you. You will have to learn to roll with the punchs though. The reason is no matter what there will always be someone who will say something that is untrue about you. These people are usually unhappy themselves and they can't stand to see someone else having happiness in their lives. They will do whatever they can do to bring you down to their level. Don't let them do it. Don't even let their unhappy thoughts enter your mind. Just move on to your next project and don't give their mean accusations a moments thoughts. Good luck!
Namaste,
LULABELLE
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What you could do is make it fair,equal like since she likes making stuff up why don't you say something like that will ruin her reputation there must be something she did wrong in her past because I mean no one is perfect,send bad rumors about her but make sure that they don't say that you were the one to start the rumors because then she will try to get you back.But don't do this right away give it a little time, and then take action I know what I'm telling you if you do it right away she will most probably suspect it was you.Good luck!
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You have changed, she is just a mean person. She looks like a real jerk spreading lies. Karma will get her back. But revenge, maybe trick her into things I mean if it was last year, you have grown up, that will tick her off the most. Egnore her and be nice to every one. Don't give attitude just politely say "sorry I don't aprreiciate what your saying" and walk away. She will stop and if she hits your DO NOT hit back just egnore it and if you get cuts or bruises you can now show who became the bully and get her suspended or expelled. X]
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