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My name is Marissa im 13. Girl. Wanna no more im me :]
Website: http://www.myspace.com/do_not_let_go
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Gender: Female
Location: BOSTON
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Age: 13
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i have to read isaac's storm by next week and im only half way through the book.. anyone that has read it.. can they tell me what are some main points? (link)
go to

www.sparknotes.com

or look on google lol never read it but i hope that helps :]]


is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship? (link)
No way ;]. I think its better too because he can put his hands around you more and just go infrot of you and kiss you and you can bend a little and peck at his lips for a long time and he won't want to stop because he feels loved and girl just love kissing ;]

so dun be embarrassed embrase it!! love it


what's a good place to get cute/funny/at least interesting icons?
the 100x100 pixel ones (link)
Here are some

www.iconators.com

www.avatarhell.com [ i uno how to spell avatar so sorry if you have to fix it :\ ]

www.photobucket.com [press search at the menu and press icons :)]

If i find more I will tell you :]


ok here is the thing. in 8th grade (2003) i became friends with this girl, but after a montb she moved back to her home state (her dad worked a lab here and instead of seeing him once every 2 weeks they just moved here. and i didnt became friends with her till november) anyways.. we talk everyday onlune and we call each other and write letters and e-mails back and forth. we are like best friends now. we decided today we would send each other presents. and i want to keep it simple enough that it wont cost much to send to her by mail, since my parents are picky over the price and such. anyways i was thinking making a poster of pictures, quotes and such, my mom said i could do it but im not sure. anyone know any good ideas i could do from the heart? any ideas for pictures and quotes and ect? thanks

i need ideas by like december 2nd-9th. thanks much in advance (link)
Good idea first!!

The poster I think should be about places you and her went together and how fun it was. How much she meant to you. The feelings you felt about her [if you like her. it sounds like you too are crushin ;)] and maybe a fake plane ticket to go to her home town [and show up the next day] if your parents will allow it :]. think about it she seems like a special person to you but what ever you do she will treat as gold and will treasure it for a life time


alright, every one knows that christmas is coming up, and i am known for getting my friends awesome gifts, because my parents always pay for all of it.
but this year they said they will pay 5 dollars for every one, and i have to pay the rest. i have saved up 200 dollars so far, and i will be getting more from babysitting.
i have 15 people, as of now, that i need to give gifts to.
does anyone have suggestions.
i was thinking i could get them all a different piece of jewlrey from like Clairs or something.
i need ideas, please. and quick. becaues i like to start shopping soon before i spend it all.
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I get them hmm maybe those Boxer shorts lol i love those. Maybe a cd that they don't have with a concert ticket attached to it. My friend got me those cool wrist band things, you know like from claires or Hot Topic and they are really cool. ALSO NE THING HAPPY BUNNY WILL BE GOOD


theres this guy.. and i think he likes me. how do i turn him on? (link)
Well first you have to make sure he likes you lol. Have your friends find that out ;]. Then when you find out he does make sure your always his partner in projects and always listen to what he is saying but also you have to flirt show him you want to be a little.. HELL A LOT more than friends ;]. he will find out what you want lol and if you do find out like pretend to me upset and make sure he comforts you and knows about the problem and tottaly start making out XD. hope this works


well i love changing my hair up and i have 2 ideas... i wanted to know which coloring style you all think is cuter~ the first one is having like a lighter color with lowlights. i have naturally reddish hair, so i'm thinking probably having the top layer a light strawberry blondish color, and having the bottom layer and auburn color. ~ the second idea is to do it kind of like aubrey's from making the band 3 on mtv (for those of you who know what i'm talking about) except with the other colors in the first idea so that it would be mostly auburn with a light strawberry blondish streak or whatever you want to call it in front. i can't decide which idea would be better... please give me any advice you got! thanks! (link)
haha both is sexahh I think with your hair the first one wudd be best cuz its lighter more natural more hot. Boys will be hittin on you like BAM BAM BAM!


I was invited over to my friends place one night to play a card game with her and another friend that is married.
We started playing the game and joking around, and then I mentioned that my ex boyfriend was trying to get back together with me.
I was laughing about it because my ex is such a loser. Everyone else was laughing too except for the married guy. When I looked at his face he got this really angry, jealous expression and didnt laugh at all.
Does this mean that he might like me as more than a friend? He's married so I was a little suprised by his reaction.
I rate high, if you answer my question I promise I'll give a 5.
Thankyou (link)
You know boys and their male dominense egos. He was probably upset your friends [his wife] was laughing at what you were saying. He is mad att her not you so don't worry. ITs not a BIG things. She will just make out with im and all wikl be forgotten!!


14/f
all my friends (that are girls) are prettier than me ! especially my bestfriend ! she is like perfecttt ! she has the perfect face, the perfect hair, she is a perfect cheerleader, and she has the perfect body
.. and me well im skinny so im not that big-chested .. and well my hair never comes out as good as hers and i have the worst smile.. like i got braces and my teeth are straight .. but their reallly big and my smile isnt a good smile.. ALL my friends have good smiles and are pretty and outgoing and the boys like them..
like i mean i dont think im UGLY .. but compared to them i feel like i am ..

i just need something to help me gain more self-confidence and stop me from being so self-conscious about the way i look and i want to be more outgoing like my friends

is it wierd that i'm jealous of my friends? what can i do so i wont be jealous anymore? (link)
SPANK UR ASS AND SAY IM HOT CAN'T TOUUCH THIS. L.o.l jk your beautiful just the way you are, and besides boys dun like boys who are perfect. They feel like they gotta live up to someone and they don't. I think you sound perfect for any respectable guy


I had my period for two years not and it still doesnt come every month. Like when i do sports i never have it but over the summer i have. Is this normal? Im a 14/f. I asked my mom and she says its normal but my friends started last year and they have theirs every month. Do i need to get it chech or am I worring about nothing.
Thanks For the HELp (link)
Its normal l.o.l trust me. I didn't have mine for 4 months and i play basketball. In the beginning [yes 2 years is beggining] it doesn't have to come every month. Relax, its better when it skipps!! NO PAIN XD


I was just wondering if anyone has tried spray-on tanning. I do not want to harm my skin with regular tanning, but I don't want to look white as a ghost either. So, how do they do it? Does it look fake? Will it streak or wash off? Does anyone recommend it? (link)
Ooh Spray on isn't that gud. It doesn't harm you [unless your allergic to something in it check labels] but its sort of an orangish color. I don't like the way it looks but it could be the type. Try it and if you like it keep it if not just wash off :]]


Ok, well I came home from school today and found my cat behind one of our landscaping trees, so I called his name, and he kind of looked up, but didn't come, which was REALLY unusual, so I knew something was wrong. Well, I took him inside, and kind of checked him out, to see if he was ok. I think I found what's wrong: in his right ear, I can see a little blood, and there's also a bit of dried blood below his ears on his fur. When I tried to touch it, he flinched, but when I touched his other ear, he was fine. So I'm pretty sure it's his ear. But he won't eat or move much at all. Right now, he's behind the rocking chair in the corner, not really moving. I'm scared, because I've had him for about 9 years, and I recently lost a dog who was only 7, and I can't bear to lose my other pet. I'm thinking he either got in a fight or got attacked by another animal. (he's an outdoor cat). My question is, does anyone know what's wrong with him? Is it really bad that he hurt his ear? I'm taking my dog to the vet tomorrow to get her sutures (sp?) removed, should I take my cat too? I tried calling both my parents, but they didn't answer. I'm really scared, what should I do? Please help me. (link)
Def. Take him with you. The cat could have fallen. It seems to me like it got hit by a car though... its the way my dog was im sorry if this hurts but it might be possible. My dog lived tho so don't worry. Just take him and get him better quick. Tell me if he turns out to be ok :]


well me and my friends have been friends since middle school. now they all see to have started leaving me out. not asking for plans. barally talkign to me in the halls, talkign to me like only if its convienent for them. even my best friend now has a boyfriend and she does not make time for me and i ask her all the time for plans but yet it seems as though she has plans for them. im so lonely. i recently stoped talkign to the kid i like. and we stoped hooking up, and i have no one. please dont say that i should go make other friends. cuz this is highschool, its not that easy. those are my friends. i just dont now what to do anymore. i hate sittin ghome and being alone. (link)
I kind of did this to my friend.. it was unitentially but i was soo buisy. You should go up to them and make plans. Maybe have a once a week movie night or something. Then you can get to know their friends and make new ones to hang with without actually making new ones. They will realize your important. Confront them also, they are your friends they never want to hurt you. Also PLEASE DON'T CUT OR ANY THING that made me so hurt when my friend did :[


okay my crushes dad is our financial adviser and i know that my dad and his dad talk but is there a way that i could some how see, lets call him Cody, again?? My mom knows i like him, my dad has no clue.. but then im not sure if cody told his parents about me if he like me that is. Anyone have any ideas??
*lost without him* (link)
Maybe have your mom invite them over for dinner if she knows ask her too. Then you two can escape to a real date ;]. Parents do have their advantages XD


Last year I got in a lot of fights.(not fist fights but like curse fights online) So I kinda had a bad reputation. Well now this year I'm more girly and its my last year in my school then i go to high school so I'm trying not to have any fights this year. Well this girl in my grade who is mean to me but I'm not mean to her (i just get mad when she gives away my sn to strangers)she found out some how that I'm on advicenators. Well today she asked me a question a private one to me and she said my full name (first and last) and said that I pick on her and bully everyone. She also said that i take everything from her even the boy she liked that liked her. Now I have no clue what boy liked her that I liked/like. I just feel like I'm hated by everyone and no one likes me. And I don't know what to do to make myself cheer up. Wouldn't she be the bully now? What should I do? I feel so hated and unwanted. (link)
You have changed, she is just a mean person. She looks like a real jerk spreading lies. Karma will get her back. But revenge, maybe trick her into things I mean if it was last year, you have grown up, that will tick her off the most. Egnore her and be nice to every one. Don't give attitude just politely say "sorry I don't aprreiciate what your saying" and walk away. She will stop and if she hits your DO NOT hit back just egnore it and if you get cuts or bruises you can now show who became the bully and get her suspended or expelled. X]


Hey guys. I'm sorry if this is kind of long, but I have something on my mind that is REALLY bothering me, and I really need help on it ASAP! I rate high, so PLEASE help me.

Ever since eighth grade, my mom has been impossible at times. I remember the summer that I was going into eighth grade. It was the first time that I ever really started to communicate with guys because i go to an all girls school. so, i was about twelve or thirteen when I first started meeting guys, going to parties, and all that stuff. well, i really really liked this guy named JC. I was like in love with him. And he liked me too. But, my mother was so overprotective, that that whenever I was talking to him, she would sit next to me on AIM and told me everything I had to tell him. And she would sit next to me while I was on the phone and she had to hear everything that was going on. She never let me tell him that I liked him. And guess what? the boy lost interest and to this day I cry myself to sleep because that was my first love and my mother never let me even talk to him. Therefore, him and his best friend say that I talk like an old lady all thanks to her.

Time passed by and my heart was healed my new love, Rafael. Rafael healed me and I healed him. He has been like a blessing to me. I love him so much. but, now i am in high school. my mother should be giving me more priveledges and space and privacy. But, she sits by me even when I talk to Rafael. So, Rafael sends me a music video and he told me just to listen to the words of the song. So, I did. and the words were very sweet. But, the video had some material in it that my mother did not like. It had like contrivercial things in our society. and it wasnt evey like sex or anything like that. It was like weird people. so, anyways, she took it very personally and made me tell Rafael that I did not want to have anything to do with that. And now, when I told her that she should let me make my own decisions and that I want to be with Rafael and she should just let me do what I want, she says that I am crazy and that I have no dignity and self respect. I told Rafael that I didn't like the video and he said that he was sorry for it, but my mom is so overprotective of me!

And another thing that she does is that whenever I tell her something, she always has to tell like the entire world. She tells my grandmother, my aunt, and she even tells the hairdresser! and then she tells me not to tell my best friend since like 8 years anything about whatever.

I've already tried talking to her and it doesn't work. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!!!! TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! PLEASEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!! I'VE ALREADY TRIED TALKING TO HER! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

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OMG THAT IS WAY TOO FAR !! DID SOMETHING HAPPEN IN YOUR FAMILY?? maybe she is afraid of loosing you to a boy friend im just shocked. but you will be in college soon. And isn't there a declaration of INDEPENDENCE. If your allowed to talk to girls maybe have your girl friends three way him or meet up with him somewhere. Your mom cannot control you remeber and she cannot tell you what to say, its your voice. If she ever hits u because you said no "child abuse" tell some one. Just ask for simpler things ans little things at first. This Rafeal guy seems nice and I hope you too work out.. no you WILL work out cuz your deserve some one like him Maybe make a big meeting with people. Im just so sorry about yout situation and i wish i had better answers


I have known this girl since elementary school and we are now seniors. we were never really that close until the beginning of our junior year when we really became best friends, we've done so much together and confided in each other so much, there are 3 of us that do EVERYTHING together. me this girl(we will call her Peyton, the one im having the problem with) and one more girl (we will refer to her as Hallie)we are now seniors and up until about 3 weeks ago things were perfect between all fo us. we did everythign together, hung out every weekend we were perfect. Then about 3 weeks ago Peyton started lieing to me and now she doesnt even come around me and hallie anymore. We got in a little fight over her lieing but I told her it didnt matter anymore just as long as she didnt lie to me. Peyton has started to really hang out with this other girl who isn't that popular at all, she is actually a real bitch, she sleeps with whatever guy that is willing to sleep with her, shes the total opposite of me and hallie. I wrote peyton a note about how I felt and how i hate that we are distant and everything i mean she is my best friend and all, and she hasnt even made an attempt to talk to me and hallie more. peyton herself even said she hated the distance between us. This morning really set me off because hallie and i were sitting doing homework in the morning before school started and peyton arrived the same time i did and we could all have sat down and just hung out and talked but peyton went off and talked to that other girl and didnt even bother talking to us. she even works with this other and see hers all the time. she never gets to see us so you would think she would wnat ot hang out when she had the chance to but NOPE. I dnt know what to do. should i just not even consider her a friend anymore because obvisously she foudn a new best friend. or should i try to talk to her again... and give her a choice of hey your my friend or hey your not... make up your mind... i have so much going on i just want to get it figured out i could really use my best friends help but she doesnt even care. i told her what all is going on in my life and she hasn't attempted to even help me. she is stuck up this other girls ass. Hallie has been a GREAT help with being by my side and actually caring about what the doctor says when i get home from my appointments and what not. so let me know what ya'll think (link)
Well no offense to my answers but theses things happened to me


ok she could be bi or something or gay and is sleeping with boys to figure tings out.

Maybe there is somthing wrong at home, maybe she is being abused or harrassed. So many things have happened to me and my life i just don't want ne thing to happen to her. But i tell you... my friends were always there for me even when i was a bitch and that helped me. give her some space but always be there to lend a hand. She isn't herself for a reason and she will speek.. soon


ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help! (link)
I think you should but be aware. Don't follow him or anything or act nuts have fun and get to know him. You both have trust and i think you guys will have to much fun together, if not datign as friends [but we all know friends like that turn out to be more ;]. He seems trustworthy and your a smart girl just ask yourself "Would he do this to be." If he is as grande as you say he wouldn't hurt you.

Love is always on your side.


i have had one period (in july) and it was at the end of the month. like the very end carrying over into the begining of the next month. i haven't had it since then and now my discharge is kinda brown-ish (gross, right?) and it kinda burns/stings when i wipe... whats wrong w/me??? (link)
I dunno do you masturbate? that could be it. But it is usual at first for girls to not have it awile but whiping.. im not sure just use whipes and stuff for a lil but if it keeps hurting tell your mum ya know :]


why do guys think when girls wear sweatpants its hott (at least thats what ive heard) (link)
Its easier to see what underpants your wearing. Only perverts like it though if you notice *points to answer below*




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