Question Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 2:54 am
I was invited over to my friends place one night to play a card game with her and another friend that is married.
We started playing the game and joking around, and then I mentioned that my ex boyfriend was trying to get back together with me.
I was laughing about it because my ex is such a loser. Everyone else was laughing too except for the married guy. When I looked at his face he got this really angry, jealous expression and didnt laugh at all.
Does this mean that he might like me as more than a friend? He's married so I was a little suprised by his reaction.
I rate high, if you answer my question I promise I'll give a 5.
Thankyou
Juliett answered Thursday November 10 2005, 11:21 pm: You know boys and their male dominense egos. He was probably upset your friends [his wife] was laughing at what you were saying. He is mad att her not you so don't worry. ITs not a BIG things. She will just make out with im and all wikl be forgotten!! [ Juliett's advice column | Ask Juliett A Question ]
ankeagle14 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:53 pm: maybe he didnt like the fact that he was trying to get back together with you after dumping you, of he might know him and be mad that your laughing. [ ankeagle14's advice column | Ask ankeagle14 A Question ]
RandomUser answered Thursday November 10 2005, 1:49 pm: The rating doesn't bother me. He could have been angry that your ex was trying to get back with you after dumping you... I know some people who get angry when a man, who they believe to have treated a woman wrong, tries to get back with the same woman. I don't think his expression means anything to do with being more than friends, but I don't know. I wouldn't get involved though because you would risk losing his wife as a friend. [ RandomUser's advice column | Ask RandomUser A Question ]
Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Thursday November 10 2005, 1:37 pm: When someone reacts that way to a comment, that does NOT mean they are into you. You are fishing for an answer to explain why he reacted so unexpectedly. Just assuming that he is into you...would be to assume in error. I don't think it was a jealous expression (you are saying your boyfriend is a loser and laughing at him, so there would be no competition for him. He also wouldn't care about that because he is married, so that assumption does not make sense) So here is what I would assume...
He was probably turned off by the ex-talk. Being that he is...for the sake of redundancy... married and the only guy there, I would say that he was made to feel uncomfortable and did not want the comment to turn into a total man-bashing rant. Guys don't like to hear women bashing other dudes no matter their degree of loserdom. Just like women would not want to be around men who are bashing women no matter their degree of bitchiness and or slutiness. He just plain and simple did not like what you said. [ Chicken_flavored_eggs's advice column | Ask Chicken_flavored_eggs A Question ]
happy-helper answered Thursday November 10 2005, 11:49 am: I'm not bothered about the rating, I'm just here to help. But you MUST be becareful with reading the wrong signals. Even though he's married, it might not be a happy marriage and he could like you. I'd advise for you not to get involved with him but then again, it's your choice!
Good luck!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
dhrutts answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:29 am: Hi There,
Well has he ever mentioned to you that he likes you? what about his body language when he is around you? it could just be nothing however to be sure you will need to speak to him. Do you like him or are you thinking of getting back with your ex? have a think about what i've said and see what would be the best angle to take and proceed from there.
karenR answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:11 am: Some men (mine included), feel that if you say bad things about one guy you are saying all men are like that. They get quite defensive about it.
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