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distant best friend
I have known this girl since elementary school and we are now seniors. we were never really that close until the beginning of our junior year when we really became best friends, we've done so much together and confided in each other so much, there are 3 of us that do EVERYTHING together. me this girl(we will call her Peyton, the one im having the problem with) and one more girl (we will refer to her as Hallie)we are now seniors and up until about 3 weeks ago things were perfect between all fo us. we did everythign together, hung out every weekend we were perfect. Then about 3 weeks ago Peyton started lieing to me and now she doesnt even come around me and hallie anymore. We got in a little fight over her lieing but I told her it didnt matter anymore just as long as she didnt lie to me. Peyton has started to really hang out with this other girl who isn't that popular at all, she is actually a real bitch, she sleeps with whatever guy that is willing to sleep with her, shes the total opposite of me and hallie. I wrote peyton a note about how I felt and how i hate that we are distant and everything i mean she is my best friend and all, and she hasnt even made an attempt to talk to me and hallie more. peyton herself even said she hated the distance between us. This morning really set me off because hallie and i were sitting doing homework in the morning before school started and peyton arrived the same time i did and we could all have sat down and just hung out and talked but peyton went off and talked to that other girl and didnt even bother talking to us. she even works with this other and see hers all the time. she never gets to see us so you would think she would wnat ot hang out when she had the chance to but NOPE. I dnt know what to do. should i just not even consider her a friend anymore because obvisously she foudn a new best friend. or should i try to talk to her again... and give her a choice of hey your my friend or hey your not... make up your mind... i have so much going on i just want to get it figured out i could really use my best friends help but she doesnt even care. i told her what all is going on in my life and she hasn't attempted to even help me. she is stuck up this other girls ass. Hallie has been a GREAT help with being by my side and actually caring about what the doctor says when i get home from my appointments and what not. so let me know what ya'll think
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Why not write a final letter to this girl? Say something on the lines of that you're going through a bad time and everything is falling on top of you and you can't cope with the fact that things have changed and you'd do anything to get things back to the way it was. Furthermore, how you need a decision making as to whether you can progress with your life then ask are you friends or are you not. Expect the worst but come on, Hallie seems a nice girl, stay with her! :)
x Steph x
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Well no offense to my answers but theses things happened to me
ok she could be bi or something or gay and is sleeping with boys to figure tings out.
Maybe there is somthing wrong at home, maybe she is being abused or harrassed. So many things have happened to me and my life i just don't want ne thing to happen to her. But i tell you... my friends were always there for me even when i was a bitch and that helped me. give her some space but always be there to lend a hand. She isn't herself for a reason and she will speek.. soon
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well she isnt being there for you but i have a friend like that and well he did the same thing to me and he hates me and im still there for him. its up to you really. depends on how much you love her. if you really feel like one day she will come back to you then be there for her and just tell her how much you love her and how you will always be there for her. love fills all voids. follow your heart and when she wont make the attempt to talk to you go the extra mile to talk to her.
-alex
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