Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Domestic engineer
Member Since: November 5, 2004
Answers: 14
Last Update: January 24, 2006
Visitors: 1316
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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
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I was 17 when i found myself pregnant so i;'m sure i can understand some of what you are going through.. First thing is alot of men don't know how to react to your changing body or they think they may hurt the baby or he may be just scared out of his mind knowing he is going to be a dad ,..soon to be moms are not the only ones who wonder if they will be able to handle being a parent.. be patient they usually get over it . Assure him that he can't hurt you and let him know that it hurts your feelings when he acts this way.
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well you see.
i met a guy named Chris over summer.
and he changed my life.
honestly.
i cant go one day without thinking about him
but the whole point is.
he doesnt like me or love me like I love him!!!
i love him with every beat of my heart, and he barely even wants to talk to me.
its been 10 months and i still havent been able to get over him!
its crazy
just when i think i found someone better than him, i change my mind and its driving me insane.
i want him sooo bad.
i NEED him in my life...
what do i do??
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Get a Hobby.really you have to find something or someone to take your mind off this guy...If he doesn't want you why on earth do you still want him? get over it.
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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself. (link)
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if this is a serious as you think and she is leading this guy on you need to go to her first.tell her that you are going to give her a chance to come clean and if she won't you are going to come clean for her.
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hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else? (link)
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all i used on mine was dove soap nothing else, i never had any problems and it healed within a month.do not use peixoide or alcohol they will just aggravate it. good luck
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My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him? (link)
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Its every mans fantasy and few actually get to live it. If you are not comfy don't do it if he doesn't get the hint tell him your fantasy is to have a 3some with 2 guys that ought to get his attention.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We have our own home and we are usually happy. BUT sometimes we fight. When we fight I get an urge that lasts a really long time. Sometimes I want to leave so bad, but I never do. How do I get the strength to leave somebody I love even if it is the right thing for both of us. ( I am 19 he is 27 ) PLEASE HELP (link)
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I know it must be hard but if you know it is the right thing to do you have to get the courage to do it.Maybe talking to him about it would make it easier.No one ever said love was easy
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Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help! (link)
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Mashed potatoes are good, but the are not that healty for you. i like mine with sour cream or melted cheddar cheese and bacon bits.you should really try to limit the amount of potatoes you eat though.
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when u go to the gyno i know that they can tell if your a virgin but can they tell if you masturbate too? (link)
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first of all you can't pop your "cherry" riding a horse!!!! if you masturbate without inserting your fingers or a dildo, no the gyno will not be able to tell, but if you do use a dildo or your fingers you may have stretched it a little and not lost your "cherry'.But who cares Masterbating is a wonderful thing and you should not be ashamed.Your gyno will probably give you a thumbs up for not having sex! so don't worry.
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ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not? (link)
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Tell him to STEP OFF! If he is pressuring you to do things you don't want to do he is not a very good friend. You need to find someone who will respect you decsions not matter what.Don;t give into him if you are not ready.And if you decide you are ready you better be prepared for all the responsibility that comes with it.
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Since it is pretty much the start of winter where I live, it is quite cold. When it gets cold outside, my hands get dry and start to crack and occasionally peel. My question is, is there any hand lotion that would be good for me to use so that it will help prevent from the cracking and peeling? I've used St Ives Whipped Silk and it made my hands start to burn. So if you have any suggestions on a hand lotion to use, it would be greatly appreciated if you'd "share the love". Thank you in advance. (link)
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vasline intensive care works for me.
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do? (link)
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And you call yourself a good friend?????A good friend would never had to ask this question,they would have went out (AS FRIENDS OR GF)no matter what other people say!!!!I hope your sweet nice friend doesn't find out how you really feel.
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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help (link)
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15 is too young no matter what all the doh heads on here tell you . At your age you are not emotionally ready even if you think your body is.Sex is a serious thing with serious consequences.I suggest masterbating. just play with it you will no when it feels right.and by masterbating you are getting to know and love your body and you will be better prepared for sex when you are older.
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well i have a gyno appointment next week and i'm kind of scared because i've never been there before. my mom doesn't know that my boyfriend and I have sex, but she made a comment about going on birth control if i think me and drew are going to have sex. i think i should but yet i dont know what to do because she will automatically know that me and drew have sex or that we are thinking about it. my mom says to tell her if me and drew were ever to do it but im afraid. should i go on the pill ? what do you think ? (link)
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you and your mom seem to have a real good relationship ,take advantage of it and tell her the truth belive me she will find out anyway.its better coming from you. and Yes you should diffinitly go on the pill and use condoms!
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I am a 23 year old mother to an 11 month old son and I am still breastfeeding him. I am slowly introducing him to cow milk but he won't be ready for that full time for a month or 2 or 3, who knows. I love breastfeeding but am just about ready to be done with it even though I will miss being a size 36 C. The only thing I won't miss is going back to an A or B bra. I love the closeness and the bond my son and I share from it, but now it's like he's older so it's more annoying now because he is so clingy to my chest area not just to eat but for comfort. He eats 2-3 meals a day of baby jar foods and he loves little finger foods and he drinks juice but will not drink anything but that and breastmilk. He eats really well, but when he wants to be breastfed he gets so fussy and demanding and he puts on this really moody act wherever I am. I am sick of having to whip out my boob when I am with friends or family now. Not just because of how they look at me like, "you're still breastfeeding him?" but also because I am now annoyed by it, I want my freedom back. The problem is that my boyfriend works 2 jobs, he is on his feet from 6 a.m. until 1 a.m. 4 1/2 days a week and it is really important that he gets his sleep at night. Now we only have a 1 bedroom apartment so I need to keep my son quiet at night, so how do I do that? I breastfeed him all night long. It is hard to put him in his crib and keep him sleeping. I am still waking up with him at all hours of the night like he's a newborn!! Although I love to cuddle with him and wouldn't mind sleeping with him a little here and there I am sick of sleeping with him ALL of the time. I want to stretch out again and sleep for 8 hours at a time, not a 1/2 hour to 4 hours only. We are not getting a 2 bedroom apartment until April 1st, and believe me when that time comes things are so gonna change. But what do I do in the meantime? I can't afford formula, nor does my son like it. I heard something about mixing evaporated milk with organic milk until he is ready for full time cow milk. Does anyone have any suggestions? I want my son to become independent from his mommy's breast now. I'm afraid it is only going to get harder to keep him from wanting it the longer he stays attached. Urgent help, advice and suggestions are wanted A.S.A.P!! Thank you. (link)
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29 year old parent of 2.... first of all congratulations on sticking it out this long.I breastfead both my kids until they were about 9 months and thier teeth got in the way(ouch). of course he is not going to like the change in his diet its only natural.I would suggest subsituting one or two feeding first and slowly ween him completly.But it is important to stick with it even if he gets fussy or he'll never change over.I switched my kids from the breast right to cows milk. they were eating a varity of foods so they were getting plenty of nutrition from things other than milk.If you are serious about weening him your husband may just have to put up with it for awhile(tell him to get some earplugs)Remeber SLOW and STEADY.As far as him waking up at night i would say it has become habit that needs to be broken.if he wakes up and there is nothing wrong except he wants attention put him back and let him cry.Move him to the kitchen or living room if you have too.If he continues to cry just keep checking him every 10 mins or so to make sure he is all right, but don't give in.he'll eventually learn.He will never learn too sleep trough the night if he knows you are going to get up with him everytime he wants attention.Good Luck
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