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My Boyfriend
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We have our own home and we are usually happy. BUT sometimes we fight. When we fight I get an urge that lasts a really long time. Sometimes I want to leave so bad, but I never do. How do I get the strength to leave somebody I love even if it is the right thing for both of us. ( I am 19 he is 27 ) PLEASE HELP
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I know it must be hard but if you know it is the right thing to do you have to get the courage to do it.Maybe talking to him about it would make it easier.No one ever said love was easy
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Ok Love isnt meant to be broke apart, you will never get that strength, i promise first hand ive had experiences, i cheated on my gf and we talked it out and when i said i might leave her i couldnt its just something that happens when ur in love,Read this bible verse it should help you.
Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away.
11 When I was a child, I used to speak as a child, think
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ok all u need 2 do is pack your stuff and leave, that urge u feel is the feeling that tells u that u can do it u just needed some1 2 tell u how strong u really r
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I know that must be a really tough thing to do, to just get up and leave.. But if you REALLY want and need to leave this guy, then that's the answer, just do it. I know how difficult that must be because of the love that is there, but when you know something is wrong that needs to be right, you gotta fix it. Im sure you know all that. What I would do if I were you, is sit down and take your time writing a letter to your bf explaining to him E-X-A-C-T-L-Y how you feel, you dont want to end up never talking to the guy again. Then talk to a friend and stay with her for a little while until you get your feet back on the ground. I know i know, easier said then done. But if you wait any longer, its just going to get harder and harder to leave. So the answer to your question is, just do it.
good luck! love kristin =]
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tell him that u feel this is not going to work out or you just wait till he has the same urge to leave
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Well there is a huge age diffence you guys are going to fight...if you love him that much stay with him my step dad is 36 and my mom is 42 (i am 24 my mom had me when she was 18)and they have their bad times but they are still happy...if you aren't happy with him thare are 5 things you could do....
1 you could leave him a note and get the heck outa there
2 you could sit down and talk to him
3 when you get in your next fight say ITS OVER and pack up your things and leave
4 you could invite him to dinner and have a nice quiet break up like they did in leagally blonde
AND #5 make him break up with you but dont let him know your plan...
Good Luck and I hope my Advice helps
~*~TinaBug~*~
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Mmm.. sounds hard, and like difficult lovin. Well, if you totally can't work things out, you should go find somebody that makes you feel good about yourself and maybe a hook up later on & once you realize that other people can make you feel so good about yourself, that someone could be better & You have them to turn to and go to for some love. And when your leaving.. just think about how much it's going to help you both. But once you leave, which youre gona build the strength too =], if things get worse and you guys end up back you might have beeN made for eachother.. Good luckk!! x0x muah*
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