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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help
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take some pregnancy pills! hope i helped! ~Aimee
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well, you can always come over to my place
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...masterbate, ya wont be concidered a slut, an ya ain gotta worry bout stds an aidz....or phone sex..lol...god.. hope i helped =)
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please..please..please.. DO NOT have sex.. wait till u have a boyfriend u love.. and wait till your a lil older.. don't worry.. everyone has dreams and urges to have sex.. ohh babyyy trust me.. EVERYONE does.. lol NO SEX!! ITS BAD! lol
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u wont be a slut...but only do it with one guy u rele feel comfortable with!
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Well, by the sounds of it your not ready .. your just horny. lol. And just because someone has sex at a young age doesn't make them a slut. But anyways ... i guess you can masterbate. lol. Or have other forms of sex. Like oral.
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15 is too young no matter what all the doh heads on here tell you . At your age you are not emotionally ready even if you think your body is.Sex is a serious thing with serious consequences.I suggest masterbating. just play with it you will no when it feels right.and by masterbating you are getting to know and love your body and you will be better prepared for sex when you are older.
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well, first of all it doesnt really sound like your ready. theres alot of different ways to have sex since you dont really know how. im me on volcomstone3578 and ill explain some ways to you bcuz i dont really wanna say here. but if you think your ready then you can find a guy you really like to do it with, just make sure you wont regret it. if your not ready and you cant get over these feelings then try mastrbating or getting a dildo. if your parents wouldnt want you to have a dildo then just try mastrbating, just stick some fingers in you vagina till you cum and you feel better.....
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ur not to young if you do get a condum so you don't get pregnent so you can have more sex.
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hey my advice is to talk to ur health teacher or nurse. They have to keep confidentiality. They can exlpain these things to u. Write bac
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you're way too young. If you don't even know how, you're not ready. Wait till you meet that special sumone. I' sure everyone has the urdge, at this age your hormones act all weird but if it continues, you need to tell someone you trust. An older sibling, a parent, etc
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hey..dony worry its natural to have these urges..everyone has them..but for your age, it comes wit the whole your body is devloping thing and the rest of that blah blah blah you hear from parents...but you dont have act on these urges...you could masterbate instead of grabbing a guy off to the side and fulfilling your needs....you naw mean? peace out and be safe!
--PinoyBoi
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It's normal to have these urges, but that doesn't mean that you need to act on them. Don't have sex just because you might be horny. If you don't have moral/religious issues about it, you could masturbate instead.
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its natural.. especially near that age when your body begins to really develop and change and hormones and blah blah blah.. just remeber all you've learned in sex ed and remeber that some boys raelly do have cooties are are icky! lol hope i helped.
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It's totally normal to desire sex. You aren't a slut, don't worry. ~*Jenni*~
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everyone has the urge and thinks about it at some point. dont just give it up to some random guy... make sure he's special. dont be forced into anything you dont wanna do. but kids are mean expecially around our age and most likely if you do chose to have sex, someone not everyone but there will be people who call you a slut... it sucks i know sex is a hard topic. but do what you want to and what feels right for you
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well im only thirteen and i have urges to have sex so i wouldnt say that ur too young, if u have a bf then go for it ... i wouldnt consider u a slut
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Its tough. Dont rush into it. Find someone u love and make sure they love u back b4 u even thing about having sex with a guy. IM 15 and lost my virginity not too long ago, but i trusted the guy so that made me feel more comfortable about it. And ur not a slut if u have sex with one guy..and only with the same guy all the time.
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First of all.. Having sex does NOT make u a slut.. only if u sleep around a lot.
Materbation.. it will relieve you of your sexual urges.. safely!! Other than that.. there isnt too much to do about them..
Hope I helped!! Need anything else.. drop 1 in the box!
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hey dont have sex too young
Ally
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Just don't have sex....
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Charmed-Cherry21
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Hi Sweetie,
Don't worry it doesn't mean you HAVE TO. It has to do with hormones. You just have way tooo may time on your hands hehe Maybe you should try to involve yourself in other activities.
I'm sorry I'm not of help but I wish you luck and I hope you don't do anything you regret but I believe you won't. You know 15 is too soon and that's smart of you. Good luck! Blessed Be...
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Thanks for asking that question. But just ask yourself: If you do have sex with someone, will you regret it later? Well, That's basiclly the best advice I can give to you at this time. Hope I helped, and be safe. -Ce
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Ok, well the most important thing to keep in mind and remember ALL THE TIME-- don't do anything until you are READY. Understand? Promise me. Regrets are no fun.
I'll let you in on a little secret, but you have to promise not to tell anyone, ok? I didn't have sex till I was 18 and already graduated highschool. Oh crap? This is public? Anyone can read it??
Big deal. I waited. But, that's not to say that I didn't do some experimenting. What I'd suggest for you, is experiment with your own body. Touching youself, masturbation, what have you. Just don't rush into anything that involves someone that you just plain don't know well enough.
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Hey don't worry, it's just your hormones that are kicking in!! It happens to everyone eventually!! Your "urge" will go away soon! Hope I helped :)
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