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[A]ge:13
[B]irthday:11/4
[C]oLor:ORANGE N RED
[D]ream boy: PAUL WALKER
[E]yes: GREEN
[F]ears: SPIDERS
[G]reatest things: CUTE BOYS
[H]air: BROWN
[I]nterest:VOLLEYBALL n
[J]ealous of: NO ONE
[K]razii?: ALL THE TIME
[L]ocation: FLORIDA GIRL
[M]arital Status: TAKEN
[N]ame: ANGELEA
[O]bsession: BOYS
[P]eircings: YEP, 2 IN EACH EAR AND 1 IN MY CARTILAGE
[Q]uestion:IN 20 YEARS WILL IT REALLY MATTER?
[R]andom: CANT SLEEP CLOWNS WILL EAT ME!
[S]chool: ..BAD SUBJECT
[T]alent: BEING A RANDOME WIERDO
[U]nbelievabLe moment(embarassing):WHEN KATIE's FAMILY WAS ANNOUNCED TO THAT I NEEDED TOILET PAPER LOL
[V]ery best thing channel: MTV
[W]orst thing about me: UGLY BANGS thx2 KATIE lol, jk
[X]tra info: UH..IDK
[Y]ummies: POPSICLES
[Z]odiac: SCORPIO

Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 13
AIM: lealeabobea
Member Since: August 17, 2004
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Last Update: October 30, 2004
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Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom (link)
well yea, i think you have the right to be angry bc what kind of loser would deliberatly show up wit a friend that you told him not bring and plus, the alcholal thing was totally uncalled for and way rude ... you have a right to be angry but its really not that big of deal either so while ur angry just dont let him know it ... just blow it up or go up to him and be like "listen im sorry things got a lil out of hand" yano .... just be cool about it but yea, its ok to be angry i would be too


If anyone has Internet Explorer, please help me..

You know how you click the arrow on the right side of the address bar, and all the sites you've recently been to show up?? Well how do you clear it? My friend told me how to "Clear the History" on it, but I forget and I forget who told me. But if anyone knows please tell me, thanks!! (link)
go to control panel and then click on internet options a box will come up and then click on delete files delete cookies and clear history


Ok well, for Halloween I'm being Samara from The Ring. I have everything, i just need to find a white long, worn out, dress. Does anyone have any ideas where i could find one? thnx

xoxoxoxoxox (link)
i would try like good will or salvation army ... yano the places where ppl bring in used clothes


this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay (link)
theres nothing wrong with masturbating and if you dont, theres nothing wrong with that either ... some ppl have moral issues wit it or religious issues so nope ur not gay if u dont masturbate


ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help (link)
well im only thirteen and i have urges to have sex so i wouldnt say that ur too young, if u have a bf then go for it ... i wouldnt consider u a slut


my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx (link)
omg who the hell hasnt heard of that song ... its called hey ya by outkast ... my goodness get with the program


When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help... (link)
YOUR NOT A KILLER ... dont sweat it. many ppl get upset after giving their baby up but it was never alive it never took its first breath of air and im sure that God will forgive you for your decision bc u were in a really tight spot ... abortion isnt really right, by me at least bc there are so many other ways like adoption and stuff ... but i dont think that u are a killer ...
*me


I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this. (link)
if ur not sure if u like or the love the kid then ur not in love ... you will know when its love, itll hit u right in the face out of no where but heres some signs if want
being in love:
1 you cant stop talking about him to the point that ur friends want to kill you.
2 you would prolly die for him.
3 youve cryed over him before
4 when talking to him on the fone or computer u smile at the screen
5 when ur with him u just wanna laugh even though nothing is funny
6 when he touches you, your heart beats fast
7 when u can still taste his kiss the next morning
8 when ur legs shake just talking to him
9 when sitting with his arm around u is better then saying one word
10 when u cant look him in the eyes bc its too powerful
thats just some ways u could tell ... well at least i would think ...
hope i helped


ok this is a weird question but...how do u make those holes in the knees of ur jean...i know i cud just use scissors but would it still give me like the little thread things...i know this is a weird question but if u have any idea about what im talkin about and u have done this urself before....please answer!!! Thanks!!! (link)
lol what a coinsidence ... last week or a couple weeks of ago i split my jeans in the knees lol ... .u can just cut them... even if u just cut them and then wash and dry them the fringie stuff will still come but not until after u wash them. i would start with a small hole and then after u wash them a couple of times itll get bigger and look more natural


I have a really really sore throat, what are some home remedies to cure it? (link)
try getting those cough drops with the honey in the middle or some other kind of medicated cough drop like that and then let is sit in a hot cup tea while ur drinking it ... it really works for me :-) glad to help! *angelea


My old boyfriend just moved away without even telling me. He just left and I heard he has another girlfriend back at home. Well, he's comeing back here to visit and i'll probebly have to comfront him but i don't know what to say... i think i still like him but should i be angry ... i don't want him to hate me (link)
when ur bf comes back just ask him calmly ..."i heard that u had another gf back home" hopefully he wont over react if he doesnt .. i would just say "well where does that put us in our relationship?" whatever you dont get angry pr jealous or ask personal stuff about her like "is she pretty" or shit like that ... its a major turn off for guys ... well i hope i could help
[lea]]


Hey, i'm 13 years old. When i wake up...my breasts hurt......is this normal for me? i read somewhere that maybe it's cuz i'm gettin ready to start my period, which i am.....but still...i need advice or whatever...from a girl plez tho......ASAP (link)
wells theres nothing you can really do. its a part of PMS ... which sux but ya cant get rid of it .. after ur period itll go away. sorry =( it happens to me too. rate *angelea


hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
all girls are different, its perfectly normal. mine only lasts like three days too, you got nothin to worry about but a check up from the doc wont hurt ya any


This guy and I have been talkin for awhile now. We like each other. The only thing is that he is a sophmore and im a freshman. He doesnt like to hang around me when im with my freshman friends, and vis versa. Well today, we had a game (we do the same sport) and he didnt even come say hi to me. Then later i found out that he felt up another girl. I still like him, but i'm kinda pissed. Where not dating so maybe i shouldnt be, I just dont know what to do or what to say to him at this point. I'll rate well (link)
hes not worth ur time or energy. older guys are usually like that around younger girls. it seems like hes embarassed of you, which he should NOT be i wouldnt waste my time on this jerk but if u really like him then tell him that u dont appreciate being neglected or ignored... it should have some effect on him. well i hope i helped - please rate


I am soooooo entirly confused! See I've liked this kid named... well lets say CJ.... I've like CJ for 2 years now... and from what I know he hasn't liked me. We've been friends for 2 years and I want something more of our relationship. He's been dropping clues that he has liked me but he also did this before, like 1/2 a year ago. The other day I was talking to him online and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and asked y hoping he might ask me out... but he said "uhh...nvm gtg" and then he signed off. So I am totally confused and I need advice of if he likes me and also what I should do next....

~*Confused*~ (link)
it sounds to me like hes really nervous but does like you! ... if ur not to shy then make the first move, or if ur the old fashioned kinda girl then wait til he comes around, he'll admit it eventually ... maybe try tellin him how you feel
[hope i could help]
*lea


My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!! (link)
well, piercing ur ears urself prolly aint the best idea bc they will prolly c em and make u take em out and all that crap but if ur gonna do it then heres how:
1. make sure u fully sterilize a needle (put it over fire until the needle gets black and then wipe off the black excess until it is a shiney needle again)
2. get som1 to help you like ur friend or somthing (doing it ur self is gonna hurt A LOT more)
3. make sure that u have the place marked wit marker or somthing bf hand. (make sure both dots are even b4 u go jabbing away lol)
4. make sure u have enough distance between ur 1st and 2nd hole
5. try putting some ice on your ears prior to the piercing so itll be number and wont be so painful.
6. w/e u do, DONT pierce it slow. the more u take ur time the more it hurts and the more scar tissue will build up.
7. it is also a good idea to put somthing hard behind it so the needle goes straight (apple, potatoe, ect.)
8. keep the needle in the ear for a second or two and then remove it quickley, promptly putting the earing in.
9. u prolly kno this but its a good idea to spin the earing everynight(to avoid skin to grow to the earing) and clean it with alcholhol or peroxide to avoid infection.
10. leave it in for 6 to 8 weeks before changing it.
(i say this all rom experience, i pierced my
friends third hole)
if u need anymore help, just ask
^lea


well i had a boyfriend and he was my bestfriends cousin right well he lives in south austin and i live in north austin an so we never rly see eathother and on saturday i made out with his other cousin and we were holdin hands and cuddling and then he all a sudden pulled me tight and we were layin like that 4 a lil while juss watchin a movie and then he kissed the side of my lip and part of my cheek and the next thing i kno his tounge was in my mouth and we were makin out...and b4 when we went out he only liked me for my ass (the guy i kissed we went out b4 but didnt do nothin then broke up now hes makin moves on me!!) so i dont kno why he kissed me when i was goin out with 1 of his FAVORTIE cousins...but back to the point it was my FIRST KISS and im 13 and i wasent expecting it so do you think he'll kno it was my 1st??..

sry sooo long but PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
not to be the barror of bad news but ya he'll prolly realize that its your first kiss unless u were really good at it, most first kisses are really recongnizable. but on the bright side guys are stupid like that so he might not know ... its pretty hard to tell. well hope i could help
*angelea


okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?

sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help! (link)
if u like him then tell him. when you see him tommorow just go up to him and be like "hey im sorry bout yesturday i honestly thought u were juss playin. i would give u a chance, i didnt mean it like that. im sorry" that will prolly work. if u only like him as friend then tell him that your sorry, that it came out the wrong way.
**glad to help**
~angie


k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!! (link)
charlotte russe has a really cute selection of sexy thongs like the mesh ones and stuff like that. but if u are looking for just regular ole cotton thongs then bealls has some cute inexpensive ones in solid colors and prints but are most likely nothing sexy and flashy.
hope i could help*please rate


i heard my friends talking about camel toes.. what exactly is 1 and how do u kno if u have 1? thanks alot (link)
camel toes are weggies in the front. u'll know if u have one.




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