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My life is over please help me
When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...
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you shouldnt feel like a killer. the baby wasnt even a baby yet. i think that was really nice of your sister. i dont think i would tell my mom. but you can if you feel like you need to.
xoxoxo
abbey
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see this is an instace in wh ich i feel abortion is the right choice. your not a killer, assuming you got it done early enough in the pregnancy.
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Hey~I know it was best because your 13 but in a way you did kill someone, there was a person in your stomach and you killed it and I'm sry but you will always feel quilty!! ~Paige~
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YOUR NOT A KILLER ... dont sweat it. many ppl get upset after giving their baby up but it was never alive it never took its first breath of air and im sure that God will forgive you for your decision bc u were in a really tight spot ... abortion isnt really right, by me at least bc there are so many other ways like adoption and stuff ... but i dont think that u are a killer ...
*me
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yea you are you killed a child who didnt get to live because of your mistake..you open your legs you need to pay for the price..but thats my point of view!
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Well I dont believe in abortions so im not going to give you my opinion on it. But since you were really young you could have put your life at risk if it werent for that abortion. I know how it feels to feel like you`ve murdered your baby. And its something that will stay with you forever but you just have to lock it away in your upsetting memories. Its hard i know. Hope I helped.
xO.Carrie
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i don't support abortion. but at the same time, it's better than bringing a baby into the world to have a bad life. even though i am catholic, i sometimes do support abortion, but if it IS made legal then people will just abuse it and have an abortion every time they get pregnant. it's kind of sad, and i do think of it as murder, but it's better than brining the baby into the world with no stable family.
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No! it depends on how you look at it. You did it because you were too young to take care of a baby and didnt want your mother to know. i would say you would be a killer if you hated babies and hated being pregnant and didnt want this baby to live at all. I do not think you are a killer at all. Tell your mom what happened. SHe will be angry at first but she will understand why you did it. Think about why you got an abortion in the first place. It doesnt matter if I think you are a killer or not. It matters what you think. Hope I helped.
-Hannah-
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Well, i believe abortion is technically murder. I feel sorry for you and all that, but know this. That's why its better to have sex when you are married! Ultimately you should've told a parent and then had the baby, and put it up for adoption. Im so sorry you've been put through that trauma. Maybe you can go seek therapy or something, they dont have to tell your mom you were once pregnant. Have your sister bring you if you really don't want your mom finding out. I hope you feel better--
XoXo <33
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In my opinion, yes. Just as my opinion, an abortion isn't something women should do. First off because it can kill you too. I believe that if you truly felt that you were in love and decided to make a big choice as what you did to have sex and you got pregnant I think that it's your responsibility to take care of what you created. The only way I'd agree to having an abortion is that if you were raped and you have police files to prove it. Other than that I do not agree with it at all. You don't know what that kid could have been. I'm not trying to make you feel terrible because of what you did but there were other options. If you weren't capable of taking care of that kid you could have given the baby up for adoption. There are SO many couples in this world that aren't fortunate enough to have children and need to adopt. I'm sorry if in any way I was mean but I was just expressing my opinion. I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel bad because of what you did, because in my eyes I think that it was. You just need to move on in your life and be more careful about the choices you make. If you and your boyfriend decide to have sex again I suggest you go on the pill and double wrap. Also, 13 is quite young to be having sex. I really hope that you do feel better. Hope I helped. If you need anything drop one in my box. I don't hate you for doing what you did, I'm just not happy about the choice you made to have an abortion. But then again, it is your body. Hope this helped.
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ok well ur not a killer u did what you had to do you where way to young to have a kid you just did what you had to and i am sorry bout that!...just next time you think yah love sum1 and r gonnah hav sex use protection so you dont get pregnant again..good luck ..hope i helped!..
xO-Jessie!
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no ur not..ur realli doin the rite thing bcz ur too young to take care of a baby rite now..n u cant afford to drop out of skool to help u n ur baby..
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ur not a killer it's just something that you have to do but it's.
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