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Q: How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
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Q: This girl likes me, and i like her, but she is not sure if she wants to go out with me, but it seems like we are still goin out and all, we kiss and hug and hang out like everyday, she says i dont have to wait for her, but i want to cause i think i like love her and shit
What should i do?
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just tell her how you fell and like that ull wait as long as it takes and just let her know how much u love her and mabe she just is sayin that b*c she is afraid that u dont love her so just go and tell her how much you do mabe it`ll help...just b strait ^...ok hope i helped!..
-x3 Jessie!
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Q: Ok well...theres this boy i like and he says he likes me back and all my friends say he likes me back too but idk i just dont see it. lik he laughs with other girls and when we are together..we just lik dont talk that much. i mean i lik him alot. and we're going to homecoming together. so i just dont know what to do..
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Ok if he dont talk to yah much mabe it is b-cuz he is shy or just shy around you b-cuz he lieks yah and if ur goin to homcomng toegther thn he lieks you lol...g.l hope i helped!..
x3-JessiE!
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Q: im the person that wrote about me and my boyfriend takin a break well he finally called sunday and he did cheat on me. So we broke up sunday nite. Well i really didnt talk to him at all monday in school and Monday nite i wrote him a real long letter explaining to him how i felt and all that. I even told him that i loved him in the letter and just all that. Well he read it tuesday and we talked and then today we skipped skool and we hung out all day and he told me that he thought about my letter and that even yesterday he thought about me. Im just wondering tho am i really dumb to sit there and talk to him or am i just a girl who is madly in love wit a boy. Im really sorry that this is soo long but i just need sum advice
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ur in lOvE hun!!!!!!..go for it...nd gOod luck!..hope i helped!..
x3 always-Jessie!
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Q: 1st of all im 17/f...me and a bunch of friends are all going out to dinner and to the movies on halloween and were all gonna dress up and i dont kno what to be... i wanna be something good not like a witch or nething but i dont wannahave some big costume and i wanna still look cute but i dont kno what to be any ideas?
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i say go wit tha play boi bunny thing...i asked muh guy friend and he said tht wuld make a guys jaw drOp lol..g.l..hope i helped
x3 always-Jessie
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Q: ok well my brother was recently let out of jail, and during that period of time, i got along with my mom... okay.. not great though, and everytime he has been here.. she's changed, she has been favoring him SO MUCH! and she was like this before he left too, but i dont know how to deal with this. she says stuff to me that hurts alot, and she does stuff for him that i would ask for the same and she would be like, do it yourself, or mean stuff like that! i really dont know how to put up with this! it makes me really sad, cause i have been trying to get a relationship with my mom cause i dont have one with my dad (even though he lives me me) and it just doesnt work! please help! i dont know how to deal with this anymore! cause it has been goin on for years! :-(
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Just tell ur mom how yah feel it myte jsut work never know open up with her,,talk to her more..dont wait for her to come to you...hope i helped!..
x3 always*JessiE*
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Q: ok well latly i have been remembering times when i was younger that i did not like at all. my family would take pictures of me when i was in the bathtub.(i was about 10 or so at the time) and i recall one time when my grandmother was scratching my back but went below my pants line and i freaked out,ran away and cryed. my mom said i was making to big of a deal out of it. again when i was about 9, my mom would suggest that i sleep topless in the summer if i got hot. i always thought that was strange. plus my family(including aunts and grandparents) spanked my butt for no reason at all. just when they passed me they would. i dont like thinking that they did that to me, but i was younger at the time and i didnt know any better because i though a lot of famlies were like that. well now i know that they're not and theres also a lot of other problems going on in my house(not sexualy). but is there something i can do about it now that im older and know it was wrong...(is it wrong?) or if i should just forget about it because its passes. oh and i have always felt that i would get raped before im 18...please help me if you can...
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no...it isnt wrong u whur little its no big deal to sleep shirtless whn ur little it wuld b a way diffrent story if u whur like 14 or sumpin but about tha hitting ur butt..tht aint a bid deal..its just messsign around..ok i hope i helped..i am here ne tyme yah nead me.
x3 always-Jessie-
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Q: Ok there are this guy lets call him bob well he likes me... His nice and sweet and kinda cute in his own way but i dont want to be mean cause there is this guy in are class (all three of us have the same class) and he likes me too... Ok that might sound confusing... but Well bob is asking me out tomorrow and i dont know if i should say yes cause i dont want to hurt the other guys feelings... Well please help
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ok if yah like "bob" thn go for it and if the othur guy says ne thing say ur sorry but u really like hym and u like hym t2 but not in tht way mabe itll work mabe not but try it!..hope i helped!..
x3-Jessie
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Q: Well i like this girl who lives in a diffrent town about 45 min away, we have told each other how we feel about each other, but everytime that i am with her i cant seem to spend 1 on 1 time with her. I know many people from that town so when ever i go down i am always with them too. but i realy like this girl and want to be with her.
how do i make it work out?
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make time for eachothur like once a week one of yah go to tha othur house or sumpin liek that just try and talk it out!..hope i helped!..
[Jessie]
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Q: my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
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Q: hey do you have any tips on making out? how long does it usually last? will the guy usually feel you up? please answer my questions! thanks a bunch
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wow..lol wel lets see it is just like french kissing and it only lasts alil bit usually it really depends on who it is and idk if they will try or do ne thing else it really depends on tha guy i am sorry that is all i can say lol..i hope i helped alil bit!..
xO-jessie
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Q: I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.
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ok whn you love sum1 u know bcuz u r always thinking of em and you cant picture you life with out em and you just wannah spend your life with them!...and tha way yah know if they feel tha same way yah ask em lol...that is tha best way or just even how they loOk @ you sumtymes you kan just tel...i hope i helped!..
*xOx*[Jessie]*xOx*
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Q: ok in skool alotta guys notice me but its always for the wrong reason "wow she has a big butt or she has big boobs"..n skool i cant get a bf...out of skool all da older guys wanna go out wit me n stuff..but i want a bf in skool so i can c him more then once every couple of weeks ya kno?...wut can i do to get guys to notice me for the right reasons not my boobs n my butt...thanx! :-D ill rate!!
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ok hun all you need is a guy ho0 likes you for yu not jus ur butt and boobs..trust me!..and soOner or latur u will find a guy liek that mabe ur just loOkin in all tha wrong places ur just @ tha wrong guys...talk to tha guys b there friends thn mabe thye wil like yah for yu!..i dont knoe if tht helped but i tried..
xO jessie
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october.16th..hope i helped!..lol
xO jessie
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Q: When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...
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ok well ur not a killer u did what you had to do you where way to young to have a kid you just did what you had to and i am sorry bout that!...just next time you think yah love sum1 and r gonnah hav sex use protection so you dont get pregnant again..good luck ..hope i helped!..
xO-Jessie!
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Q: Well therfe is this boy that goes to my school that ik really like but one of my close friends like him also....what should i do.....my friend that likes him really thinks that they might have something togetherf......and i dont think thatg i am all that attractive.....please help!!!
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ok #1 just go for it i mean ask him if he likes your freind and if he dont then go for him but if he likes your friend..dont go after him u`ll lose tha friendship and that is never goOd..and never thynk that way about ur self...thynk highly!!!!...ur beautiful!!!..membur that!..wel good luck hope i helped!..
*xOx*Jessie~!
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Q: i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do?
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see a doctor...i really dont know what else to say sorry..but talk to sum 1..
-jessie-
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Q: ok well i got my first period almost 2 years ago and i had it some what regular for the first 6 monthes or so, but ive only had it twice in the past year and a half. what should i do?
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tell your mom and see what happens mabe if it dont show up soOn she can take yah to the doctors!.idk wht else to say..sorry...hope i helped
*[Jessie]*
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Q: Ok this is a bit...um embarassing for me to ask.. alright I'm 124 lbs and I'm trying to lose um anywhere from 5-10 pounds..my concern is that if I shave off a few pounds will my chest get smaller? ok I'm not like obsessed with my self or how big my chest is but the weight that u gain has to go somewhere and it just happens to go to ur chest so does that mean when u lose weight u'll lose ur chest size too? sry...thanks so much!
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noO..ur chest will stay tha same size...lol...thats weird to say lol but ne ways u`ll be fine!..hope i helped!..
*Jessie!*
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Q: My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back with my dad. ASt least he dont yell at us for nothing. He actually pays attention to us. My mom and Ron just pays attention to Ronnie. Grrr...
Help me plz. I dunno what to do.
signed.. Family Trouble
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well i say just tell her how yah feel and if it dont work move back with our dad i mean what else can yah do ur only a kid!...but i know what it is like i am havin tha same problems in my house and i am abbout your age and i know it is hard just try and xplain it to your mom and see what happenes!..hope i helped!..
xO Jessie
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(A)ge~14
(b)irthday~ december 4
(C)olors~pink,black,blue
(d)ream boy~ shawn.=(
(E)ducated at~ Edison Jr High
(f)avorite food~ macoroni
(G)reatest thing~ muh best friend in tha whole wide world lindsey!!!!..and boys!
(h)obbies~hangin out with friends*movies*mall*fone and alOt more!..
(I)im alwayz~busy
(j)ob~ dont got one...
(K)issed~ yup!!!..
(l)ocation~ OhiO
(m)ood~ bored and hungry!
(N)ame~ JessiE
(o)bession~guyz,n clothes
(P)erfect at~nothing
(q)uiet~sum tymes!..im *shy*
(R)ead~magazines
(s)ecret~ if i tell you then it wont be a secret now would it?
(T)alent~flirting , shopping , dance , cheerleading
(u)p 4~mainly anything, but depands
(V)ery best thing about me~ luv to help people,friendly,nice,
(w)orst thing about me~ my attitude sometimes lol
(X)treme sports~no..
(y)oga~ nooO isnt tht fir old ppl?..((cluless))
(Z)odiac~caporcorn..((kant spell lol))
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: OhiO Age: 14 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: prettylilditz9@hotmail.com Member Since: October 5, 2004 Answers: 41 Last Update: October 7, 2004 Visitors: 4313
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