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Confused


Question Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:54 pm

Ok there are this guy lets call him bob well he likes me... His nice and sweet and kinda cute in his own way but i dont want to be mean cause there is this guy in are class (all three of us have the same class) and he likes me too... Ok that might sound confusing... but Well bob is asking me out tomorrow and i dont know if i should say yes cause i dont want to hurt the other guys feelings... Well please help

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basketballgal answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 9:59 pm:
Don't base your descision based merely on who's feelings you'll hurt more, it will only hurt you in the end. Pick the guy you genuinely like- and if that's not either of them just say, "Look, you're a really great guy and you seem cool- but I don't feel like I kow you enough. Let's get to know each other better before we commit 100% to each other."

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XxemmaxX answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 8:04 pm:
If you dont like "Bob" then dont say yes, be nice about it if you do say no, and another guy shouldn't control what you do because your afraid to hurt his feelings

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sweet_x_heart answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:38 pm:
Ok..now this situation is a little bit different from my last, but here the thing..you need to figure out which guy is the right one for you..spend time with both of them..get to know them alot more. If you already do..look deep inside your heart and figure it out. Figure out which one has great times with you..which one realllyy likes you and wants to have a nice long relationship with you..figure out if they both really care for you..dont just say yes automatically..when he asks you out..think for a second..think about which one you KNOW you really like and want to be with all the time.then you may answer him..dont feel bad..just follow your heart..and if one of them gets mad at you..then thats wronge because your friend should be there for you and respect every decision youe make.

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Football74 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:28 pm:
i think you should go out with "Bob" cause hes the one who has the balls to ask you out first.

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xO_Jessie answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:23 pm:
ok if yah like "bob" thn go for it and if the othur guy says ne thing say ur sorry but u really like hym and u like hym t2 but not in tht way mabe itll work mabe not but try it!..hope i helped!..
x3-Jessie

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DirrtyItalian85 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:11 pm:
u shuld decide hoo u like more bob or the other guy..

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Sherry answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:02 pm:
Just go out with him if you want to. Even if it hurts the other guys feelings, he needs to get over it..dont turn the guy down because another guy likes you..good luck!

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