Hey everyone! My name is Callie and if you need help...ill hook you up. I am very interested in helping people and people also say i give great advice! If you need me..im here for you! Peace
Website: SwEeT_x_hEaRts WebsiTe
Gender: Female
Location: Parkland
Occupation: Student at Westglades Middle
Age: 14
Member Since: October 6, 2004
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ok well latly i have been remembering times when i was younger that i did not like at all. my family would take pictures of me when i was in the bathtub.(i was about 10 or so at the time) and i recall one time when my grandmother was scratching my back but went below my pants line and i freaked out,ran away and cryed. my mom said i was making to big of a deal out of it. again when i was about 9, my mom would suggest that i sleep topless in the summer if i got hot. i always thought that was strange. plus my family(including aunts and grandparents) spanked my butt for no reason at all. just when they passed me they would. i dont like thinking that they did that to me, but i was younger at the time and i didnt know any better because i though a lot of famlies were like that. well now i know that they're not and theres also a lot of other problems going on in my house(not sexualy). but is there something i can do about it now that im older and know it was wrong...(is it wrong?) or if i should just forget about it because its passes. oh and i have always felt that i would get raped before im 18...please help me if you can... (link)
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ok sweetie..first of all..that is wronge.its sexual harassment by your family. Yes..its wronge..but do they do it now? NEVER feel your going to get raped before your 18..a TON of people feel the same way as you..but they end up having good jobs and great lives once they got past 18..but dont feel like you would get raped..live life to the fullest..sometimes i feel the same way..but i cant worry my whole life...im just careful about where i go or who im with..dont worry i promise everything is going to be okay.
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Ok there are this guy lets call him bob well he likes me... His nice and sweet and kinda cute in his own way but i dont want to be mean cause there is this guy in are class (all three of us have the same class) and he likes me too... Ok that might sound confusing... but Well bob is asking me out tomorrow and i dont know if i should say yes cause i dont want to hurt the other guys feelings... Well please help (link)
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Ok..now this situation is a little bit different from my last, but here the thing..you need to figure out which guy is the right one for you..spend time with both of them..get to know them alot more. If you already do..look deep inside your heart and figure it out. Figure out which one has great times with you..which one realllyy likes you and wants to have a nice long relationship with you..figure out if they both really care for you..dont just say yes automatically..when he asks you out..think for a second..think about which one you KNOW you really like and want to be with all the time.then you may answer him..dont feel bad..just follow your heart..and if one of them gets mad at you..then thats wronge because your friend should be there for you and respect every decision youe make.
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