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My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back with my dad. ASt least he dont yell at us for nothing. He actually pays attention to us. My mom and Ron just pays attention to Ronnie. Grrr...
Help me plz. I dunno what to do.
signed.. Family Trouble
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I think if you will be happier with your dad then you should let your mom and dad know how you feel. you only get one life and if you dont make the best out of it you might regret it. if you dont give yourself the best teen years you might look back and wish thing would have been different. hope i helped. **TINK**
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All I can suggest is presenting your case to your mum in a logical and sound [and adult] fasion. Don't whine or yell, but tell her you feel like she doesn't love you as much as she loves this new part of her family, maybe cite a few instances where she obviously favoured ronnie over you and your sister [ie, ronnie got a new toy, but you didn't even though you'd be asking for somthing for a long time]. Also detail instances when you were blamed for somthing you didn't do. Hopefully she won't dismis these as petty concerns [and if she does, you need to make it clear that this is upsetting you so much you had to ask strangeds on the net for help ;)] or patronise you.
If that fails then, maybe you could tell your [biological] dad whats going on and ask him to speak your mum, adult to adult.
*hugs* I hope things work out for you.
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well i say just tell her how yah feel and if it dont work move back with our dad i mean what else can yah do ur only a kid!...but i know what it is like i am havin tha same problems in my house and i am abbout your age and i know it is hard just try and xplain it to your mom and see what happenes!..hope i helped!..
xO Jessie
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