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Ok there's this guy that I met a little less than a week ago at a party and he asked me for my number. The next day he called me and I invited him to come to the haunted house with me and all my friends. He lives in another town but it's really close... like he walked to my house. Anyway.. after the haunted house we all went to my house to watch scary movies and me and him were like all cuddling and shit and we wound up making out.. I feel like I've known this guy forever and we have so much in common.. So i guess what I'm tryin to say is that is it bad that we hooked up the day after we met?? he even told me he loves me already ..
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nope its not bad but just dont believe him when he says he loves you...but dont feel bad yall were both attracted to eachother and well its your desesion
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its not bad that you guys hooke up..i mean makin out is not THAT big of a deal....if u like fucked him..now that would b bad...
and dont listen to him juss quite yet when he tells u he loves you because love doenst happen juss like that...he may like u alot....but dont get all lovey back with him because then if u guys break up er hes juss sayiin that it wont b as bad
hope i helped
xO amberino Ox
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Woah. Just because he told you he loved you means absolutely nothing. Do you know how easy it is to tell someone you love them without meaning it. You dont fall in love this easily. I mean theres a 1 out of a 2billion chance hes in love with you. Not b/c he actually knows he doesnt mean it but just because hes substituting the word "REALLLLY like" for "love". But tons of people do it, so its no big deal, just letting you know for personal knowledge. It's not bad you hooked up but dont rush anything else you guys do b/c the boreder you get the more it will just be asking for sex. Honestly, i dont know you or him so i cant say that for sure but im judging by common situations.
GL!
xo x3
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well um.... if you think that he loves you then you believe it, also it's okay to have don'e that but yeah if you really like him and he likes you then everything it fine
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I don't think thats its bad but I think you guys should consider slowing down.
~*~kris~*~
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First of all, I urge you to be cautious of anyone who declares their love to you after such a short period of time. While I think it's great that he is willing to share his feelings with you, he either is not being sincere or is unclear about what it means to be "in love".
I am not, however, telling you not to enjoy your time with this boy, just to be careful not to get caught up in his "too soon" love declaration. It sounds like you two have made a connection and unless there is more to the story, I don't see any reason for you to not move forward with a relationship. As far as "hooking up" the day after you met, if you truly did just make out with him and you didn't compromise yourself or go farther than you felt comfortable with, then I don't see a problem. If you are concerned about him making assumptions about your willingness to be more physical in the near future, then just be honest with him about what you are and are not ready for physically.
The bottom line is, you found someone you enjoy being with -- so ENJOY it! Just remember to keep a rational head and not jump on the "love train" just yet. Love is something you can grow into with someone, not something that happens after one date. Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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no not @ all..for all you knoe it kulda been love @ fist sight lol..you never knoe i say if he makes yah happy go fot it!..hope i helped!..
-xOx-Jessie-xOx-
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That's deffiently too fast for me, but you are your own person. However I wouldn't hold on to tightly to the words of this boy. He is mostly likely just looking for some action if he is throwing out the "L" word so quickly. Don't beleive everything you hear, especially from an almost complete stranger. How well do you really know him?
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