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hi. well all of a sudden my life has been bad i mean im in 7th grade and when it started everything was going great! but now its like everything is goin down the drain.. i mean all the guys just think of me of "acasia" not anything else i wanna be better then i am now. like i have a great body i admit but like i was going to see my friend zack and his friends were over there so i was like wassup zack? and he was like nuthin.. so then i was like okay.. and i walked to my friends house. so he told me the other day that this guy that i had a great body but an ugly face.. i mean that really got me mad i started to cry when i got home because i havnt had a boyfriend in a year and i have ALOT of friends but for somereason everything is just going away... what does all this mean???
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it means your getting upset over one or two stupid guys! Life moves on and they're probably just rele picky with how girls look and all that. Your face is fine, love who you are, those stuck up bastards dont need none of your time, you've got better things to do. You'll soon find a guy who appreciates u for u. And it wasnt nice of Zack to repeat that to you he should have known it would make you upset.
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Ah, the 7th grade year. I'm currently in 9th. Your post brings back memories xD
6th and 7th were my most awkward years. I went through so many things. Most of all, I wanted a guy to hug and kiss and tell all of my secrets to and blah blah, ect. I became a little desperate. I went out with the cutest guy in my class, because he was there and the cutest. I would later find this was a very big mistake. It turned out I really didn't like him, we broke up after like a week or so, we became friends though.
In 6th-7th I acted very unlike myself, I memorized so many hip hop songs because my friends liked that music, and I wanted to fit in (when I was a rocker, inside anyways). I think it's just a phase we all go through.
Just remember what's really important, besides some people are the most attractive in their youth/adolescent years, while some are like the ugly duckling who grew into a swan. Besides, looks don't matter too much.
The only way looks matter is if you yourself find anything but hot in a mate unacceptable. I hate it when people (mostly guys) cry about people not liking them because of the way they look when they only go after super beautiful people.
I think you just have a lot to learn, as we all do. ^_^ You'll be fine hun. I promise =3
-Farren
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I think that u shouldn't pay attention to the boyfriend problem. I mean you'll get one you just have to wait. Its great that you have alot of friends tho. Maybe you can talk to them about it. I mean thats what friends are for right? I don't think it means anything. You shouldn't care what people think of you or some idiot boy. You should just learn how to accept your self and you'll feel alot better.
hope i helped
~*~kris~*~
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It means you are too worried about having a boyfriend. There is more to life than boys. Stop worring about what you don't have, and enjoy what you do have. Quantity of friends is not importain at all, it's the quality of the friendships. And weather of not you have a great body matters not. If you are looking for a quality relationship, it's the intillectual, the the physical that will bring you together.
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