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am i doing the rite thing
im the person that wrote about me and my boyfriend takin a break well he finally called sunday and he did cheat on me. So we broke up sunday nite. Well i really didnt talk to him at all monday in school and Monday nite i wrote him a real long letter explaining to him how i felt and all that. I even told him that i loved him in the letter and just all that. Well he read it tuesday and we talked and then today we skipped skool and we hung out all day and he told me that he thought about my letter and that even yesterday he thought about me. Im just wondering tho am i really dumb to sit there and talk to him or am i just a girl who is madly in love wit a boy. Im really sorry that this is soo long but i just need sum advice
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No I don't think you're dumb at all. You just love him a lot and that is completely understandable. I'm the kind of person who believes in second chances, so I guess that is part of my advice....maybe you should think about giving him a second chance. But, only if he admitted he was wrong, felt really bad about it, and still wants to be with you. I mean people make mistakes and they learn from them....i've given my boyfriend a second chance (only, he didn't cheat he lied about something and I hate lying lol). Since then he's straighted up a lot, matured a lot and i think developed some values.
But if he's not really feeling bad about it....then I wouldn't go for it. You'll just have to find someway to cope with the loss of your love. Watch sappy love movies, eat chocolate (not to much, just enough to comfort lol), go shopping with friends, hang out with family, workout, occupy yourself. Hopefully doing all that and crying...will get it all out of your system. It's part of the healing process. Even though it may take a while. Whatever you do though, just make sure you feel right doing it. I think either decision is fine and don't let anyone make you think you're doing the wrong thing. Just follow your heart on this one hun =) Hope I helped!
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I think you really like him and maybe you should give him a second chance BUT you have to watch out because a lot of times guys who cheat go back to their girlfriends and cheat some more. And if you do decide to give him a second chance, if you want you could talk to him about how you felt about it. I hope everything goes well between you guys! <33
Rachel
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It seems like you like him alot and hes sorry, why dont you give him a second chance and get back tougether and see what happens.
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i think that if you really love him you should give him a second chance. everyone deserves a second chance. you should ask him out. but if you do start dating again there arent any promises that he wont cheat again. but if you really love him i would go back with him. hope i helped
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ur in lOvE hun!!!!!!..go for it...nd gOod luck!..hope i helped!..
x3 always-Jessie!
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this sounds familiar to me because my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, and i even skipped school later on and he acted like we were still together, and even asked for a second chance, but i said no, because that is like you are telling him that is was okay he cheated on you. And you are giving him his way of getting you back, just what he wants. he might promise he wont do it again, but he might too! it has been about half a year and i am not even over this guy either. i think about him often, but i know it was best we split, so i wouldnt be hurt again! so just tell him you still have feelings for him and still care a lot about him, but you dont want to risk being hurt again, maybe even worde, because you gave him all your trust, once again!
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Your in love, but he cheated on you. Chances are that he will cheat on you again. If he wants to go out with you again, I suggest you dont do it. Because theres a 90% chance he'll hurt you again.
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u r a gurl tht is madly inluv wiff this guy u shuld stay wiff him cuz guys do make mistakes i havent but most guys do..stay wiff him..
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