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im not sure


Question Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 5:49 pm

I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

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Additional info, added Wednesday October 6 2004, 5:49 pm:
im 14 if that makes a difference..

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xostripped answered Sunday October 10 2004, 3:54 pm:
If you're not sure...you're not in love. That old saying about how "you just know" is very true. And, if you have to ask us how to tell, then, you aren't in love. Let your heart tell you. It doesn't lie.

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mizzthang91 answered Thursday October 7 2004, 5:06 pm:
ok . when u like someone you prob like them either for there looks or for the way they act sometimesz . but when you love someone you most likely lovew trhe way he is and the way he treats you . love doesnt just haooen in two sec'sz u kno?

hope ii helped
qood luck
AriElLa*

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Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 10:43 pm:
Aww. =)
Love is a totally amazing emotion. When you're in love, you just...know. It kinda hits you like a ton of bricks - at least, that how I felt. I first told my guy I loved him on Christmas...it kinda slipped out, but it FELT right. Love is impossible to describe. For me, it's the sort of calm ecstasy that makes me lightheaded when my guy kisses me...(*Swoon* lol). In the beginning it was a sorta drunk feeling that left me unable to stop smiling. Now I still can't think of him or talk about him without smiling. His presence relaxes me...*Shrug* I love everything about him, including his flaws. "Love is knowing everything about someone and thinking their flaws are cute." That'd be my twist on the whole "loving someone is knowing their flaws and loving them more because of them" thing.
Well, that's my opinion, anyway. Love is different for everyone. Decide for yourself....^_^
-Siren =)

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AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 8:45 pm:
How to tell that if your in love can only be answered by you. Love is indescribable. Do you think about this guy before going to sleep? Is he the first ting you think about when you wake up? When your in love, you'll just know. It'll be an amazing feeling. It's the little things the guy will do, that'll show he has feelings for you. Like for instance, stop playing sports with the guys and comes up to you to talk...Little things, like smiling at you....But it's really hard to tell if someone loves you unless they come up and say it to you! Good luck with this guy, hope everything works out!

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SwEeTLiLhUnNiE answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 8:35 pm:
you ccan tell if you in love with him if liek you dont get to spend one day with him and you miss him like crazy or god for bid but if yall broke up you would go crazy! The only true way that you could find out if he loves you is either ask him or write him a letter tellin him how u feel and see wut he says. How long have yall been dating?

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MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 7:22 pm:
When you are scared to talk to him or when you look in his eyes and you get a tingly feeling inside... That is when you love some1... like is just stuff that other ppl do and you dont really care... hope I helped!
Later

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Way2InLuvWitU answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:43 pm:
if ur not sure if u like or the love the kid then ur not in love ... you will know when its love, itll hit u right in the face out of no where but heres some signs if want
being in love:
1 you cant stop talking about him to the point that ur friends want to kill you.
2 you would prolly die for him.
3 youve cryed over him before
4 when talking to him on the fone or computer u smile at the screen
5 when ur with him u just wanna laugh even though nothing is funny
6 when he touches you, your heart beats fast
7 when u can still taste his kiss the next morning
8 when ur legs shake just talking to him
9 when sitting with his arm around u is better then saying one word
10 when u cant look him in the eyes bc its too powerful
thats just some ways u could tell ... well at least i would think ...
hope i helped

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:28 pm:
Love is complicated, but never think you're in love because your friends tell you that you are. Theres no exact answer, "if he calls you everyday he loves you." And especially if your 14, I'm not saying its impossible to fall in love, but you still have lots of growing up to do right now you know? Theres alot of stuff teens don't learn until colledge. I think it's best if you don't try to put your feelings into a category of either love or like, just let your feelings flow, do what comes natural and feels right.

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XxRockon answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:16 pm:
haha aw i don't really know if there is a real difference. only you can decide if u like him ir love him. I guess "liking" wuld mean that u just see him a friend but wen u love someone u get really happy to see them and like to talk to them n think that perseon is just really great. So even if ur friends and a teach think u love him, its only aup to u to decide if u do or not. To tell if a guy likes u back its the same way, every guy shows their liking for a girl in a differnnt way. Some guys are really outgoing about it, otheres are immautre or shy about it. Hope everythin works out between u and this guy. :)

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kristen22 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:12 pm:
Ok, first off.....How long have you felt this way about this boy?? I have always believed that if you have to question wether you love someone then chances are....you dont. However, you may really like him and have some mad feelings for him, One way to see if he likes you back is try flirting with him and see he responds back on that...

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xO_Jessie answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:10 pm:
ok whn you love sum1 u know bcuz u r always thinking of em and you cant picture you life with out em and you just wannah spend your life with them!...and tha way yah know if they feel tha same way yah ask em lol...that is tha best way or just even how they loOk @ you sumtymes you kan just tel...i hope i helped!..
*xOx*[Jessie]*xOx*

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x3MiSzaShnEe answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 6:08 pm:
kk well iim 14 also nd fer me love iz wen u cant go a day with out thinking of him or everytime u see him u get that feeling in ur stomach that just makes u want to smile with no reason at all. hez tha one who u can think of nd just smile for no reason at all nd if he doez this to you u probally r in love cuz thats how i am with my boi friend i feel like tht i never want to loose him if y0u get wut im say [?] so it dependz how u feel about him to tell if your in love or not ... if u got ne more ?z den u can im me on muh sn ditzylilacie36 ... good luck with ur troublez hun!
x3 aSh

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l3fty14 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 5:58 pm:
you know u love him when you can be almost at your worst, no make up, just woke up, and crazy self around him and he doesnt care and niether do you. if you can act like you do around your close friends with him, you might love him. but i dont know how you feel inside so its your call...

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