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Hey*
My name is Erika
and I am 14 years old
and I am now officially a Freshman at West!
I am so happy!
Any-WayZ*
There are so many different things going on during school and conflicts that I have to deal with!
I have experiance with most of the things ya'll are asking about!
I hope I can help you!
Dont be scared to ask me about anything! *Seriously!* :)


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I've been researching cell phone plans for my brother and I.
I don't want to base my decision only on price but also on service.
So my question is what cell phone company has the best service?

Well I have cingular and I Love the Rollover but sometimes I just wish I had verizon cuz its alot better at some thigs but then sometimes its cingular! One of those two.

bye!!

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Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".

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well if people say he likes you and he asks you toi the movies... well go... just dont act really intersested and all over him! I hope I helped and I bet everything weill be fine!

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okay here the thing. im making my xanga page and i have this site i go on and put cool effects on my websites. well the one design is where you can make a box pop up when the person who visits your site enters and leaves. I was just wondering when you copy the link for it, where do you put it in the xanga site? I rate 5's

hMm... I have Xanga tOo... Kandiixkissez08 is mine... and I think its either the Costom hedder box when you have a presonal layout or the Website Stats thing! I hope I kinda helped! Later*

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Okay, this may sound weird, but here it goes. I've never had a canker sore before, but recently, one grew inside my lower lip. I have always heard my friends complaining about this but they never said much about it. How do you get them and how can you make them go away/prevent them?

using alot of special lip moisturizers liek chap stick and stuff I think! Yea... pla dont rate me if that really sucks! later*

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Does anyone know of any website counters that can tell you who visited your site specifically (not just as # but like a screen name) Thanks so much. I'll rate you all.

UMm... Subprofile or buddy profile... yea... I dont really know what you are lookin for but those sites do that and the date tOo! Later*

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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?

UMm... no not that weird... its just how things go and if that is how they go then just let it flow! Later* :) that is so cute that ya'll are in love!

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Hey guys! I need some advice! Where do you get music to put on your column, and where do you insert the code? Also, I know where to get the cool looking page transitions, but where do I insert those? Somewhere where I edit my style...

Thanks everyone! =)

Love, liddylflirtx3

Starlightmks.com

That's a great site... bye*

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ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do?

Tell your friend that you really didnt like that tOo much and that you shoud really get along cuz either way sumthing is really gunna get damaged... just let your feelings out and if she was a good friend she would understnad your point of view... hope i helped at least a little!
Later*

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I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

When you are scared to talk to him or when you look in his eyes and you get a tingly feeling inside... That is when you love some1... like is just stuff that other ppl do and you dont really care... hope I helped!
Later

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Ok, I like the whole “crimp” style, but when I crimp my hair it goes all poofy. Is there any way I can still crimp my hair w/o it going poof on me? Thnx everyone!

ok... My hair does the same thing! You really need to get your hair straightend... with an iron... b4 you do crimp it... cuz the crimping doesnt really stop poofyness... well nothin does except for heat! Hope I helped!
Later

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Does anyone know a really good work-out that I could do every day? I know people are prolly always ask this but I am seriously wantin to work out and loose at least 10-15 punds at least. Thanks alot and I rate*
Later*

Ok... I dont really know a good place to get one but maybe you could try lookin at weight watchers. They give out stuff for loosing weight.
Later BabeZ*

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Okay I asked a question before about boners before. :/ Please dont delete this question, I need some opinions. When a guy gets a boner is his penis supposed to go up or straight. Somone told me its a sign of cancer. :( Is that true? Or does it have something to do with age? Help please!!!!

I dont know either but last I had heard it was supposed to stand straight up... Godd luck with that and I hope its not cancer*
Later*

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Okay, I have this friend, and he's a boy, I'm a girl. I just want to be good friends, but I know (well I guess I don't really know, but I strongly think)that he wants to be more than just friends. And I can't take that. I mean, what would happen if he asked me out and I'd have to say no? What would that do to our friendship....? Do you think I'm leading him on my being his friend? Please, I need help!

no way are you leading him on! And I am jsut tryin to be homest I think he will act weird around you for a while of he does ask you out and say no* I know this from experiance and I said no and now he like doesnt like me n e more... sorry if this is bad advice*
Later*

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im embarassed, all of my friends have had sex, and i don't wanna have sex yet, but when im older i think its gunna sound stupid. and their gunna ask me if im still a virgin and ill say yes. its jus weird.

I know it feels weird... I was like that tOo... But here is some advice. Do not give in! Just b/c thier not virgins doesnt mean you dont have to be either. And if they dont like you cuz of that then they arent really good friends... I know you didnt say that they dont like you cuz of it but it was just a little bit of heads up! O and believe me... it is really good to be a virgin cuz there is no way sum1 can call you a ho or slut or anything! Just stick through it!
Hope I helped*
Later*

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My best friend and i are really really close at home... but not at school... she kinda ignores me. Its not as bad this year as it was last year... but it makes me feel really bad. I've tried to talk to her, but she just ignores it. Maybe i'm pmsing or something.... i don't know... advice would be great though!

ok*
Some times in school friends back off of other friends becuz they want some space to make new friends and maybe her new friends dont like you or they just dont know you. You know that sort of thing. Not that your a bad person or n e thing but yea... thats might be whats goin on!
Later*

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theres this guy who really likes me n stuff and i think i like him too but one of my best friends really likes him and doesnt want me to go out with him which i can understand cuz she like loves him. but hes always like ur so much hotter than her and ur kooler than her and i like u better n stuff like that so i feel bad and i dont want to hurt my friend so im not gonna go out with him. im making the right decision right?
thanx sorry its kinda long

ok... Tell your friend how you feel but there are some things that are meant to happen. I really dont think that you should put your love life on the line b/c of one of your friends... she may be your best friend... but look at all the other ppl in your town, school or wherever... they may like him tOo... Good luck and bye*

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

Well from what my experiance with others I guess it means like make-out and other stuff. Well thats what guys say it is anyway. There are alot of other ways to say it! bye*

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does anyone know where i can get a good track jacket? like with a collar and everything. either Adidas or Puma, (not a cheap brand) without ordering it over the internet? i want one for my birthday and my parents need to know where to get it. thanks

Why dont you go to an like a shoe store that has addidas or puma accecories and stuff... like finish line? Good luck! bye*

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I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed?

Totally normal! I feel like that all the time. Even when I dont have a boyfriend and my guy friends like this guy nick or tony hug me or something it makes me feel like if they let me go I would fall and break to pieces. I love that feeling ang that feeling is totally normal!

Later*

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Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`(

I would talk to your b/f about it... but dont mention the whole flirting thing... see if you are ever going to see each other (in the flesh) again! No relationships never work when they are "long distance"... Mostly I think you should keep in touch and see how far you can go if thats what he wants tOo... most likely he is gunna start to flirt with other girls. Good luck*

Later*

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