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My Best friend
ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do?
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woah..thinking she either totally has the hotss for him or is super jealous that you have a bf. Either way...But you may have to sit them both down and tell them you care for them both so if they CARE for you..they will have to grow ups and get along!
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I think you should sit down with your friend and talk to her about this[maybe you could also talk to your BF]!! And for now, I would leave her out of your love life! If this keeps up discontinue being friends with her. -Hope I helped!-
[Emmy Boo]
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Just talk to her and see whats wrong and what she has against him.. maybe she thinks you are ditching her for your boyfriend and spending less time with her and more time with him and feels like you guys are beginnning to get distant
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i kno exactly wut yu mean .. that used to happen to me a few times .. but, i think yu should really stop letting all the little things bother yu .. i mean, yeh, if yur best friend and yur boyfriend get into a fight, then leave it up to THEM to settle it ..and NEVER EVER choose a guy over yur friend .. so when yu yelled at her for callin yur man gay, she probably got even more mad just at the fact that yu are yelling at her and basically taking yur man's side over her's...so i think that from now on, yu shuld just leave it alone and if she says nething about yur boyfriend or to him or whatever, just have a talk with her the next time it happens ..tell her how upset it makes yu and how yu dont think its fair to yu ..
..perhaps shes jealous .. and wen yu have a boyfriend she getz jealous and mad b/c she feelz as if yur new guy is taking yu away from her .. yu have to look at it from every point of view and angle .. just talk to her and get to the bottom of this b/c if shez doing this with every boyfriend yu have, then maybe its not the guy .. maybe itz her..something that is making her mad about yu having a boyfriend .. just talk to her and im sure everything will be fine ..
good luck hun .. get back to me if yu wana talk about this more .. x0x peace
-aSh
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well ur friend seems to b jealous of ur bfs cos they spend tym with u n i dnt think she wnts to share u.which is kinda sweet but tlk to her n tell her that u dnt appreciate her bein horrible to ur bfs and assure her that friends always cum furst.ask her if she can at leas try n get along wit ur bfs.
xx
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Yup, she does not want you to have a boyfriend she could be jealous. Your boyfriends probably don't want to deal with the fighting that she brings to the table. You are going to have step back from her if you are involved in a relationship that is important to you. If she is a true friend then she will come out of this act and behave. She will not keep putting a damper on your happinesses, she will give you room to grow and become. If not, give her some room to go be a jerk by herself!
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You should ask her why she doesnt like ANY of your boyfriends and explain to her that you really like this guy and U dont want her to ruin it because U never know this guy could be the one that got away And plus ask her if she could at least Try to get along with ur b/f!! It might work Hope I helped
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tell ur friend tht she needs to back off bc shes ruining ur relationships. she doesnt seem to be acting like a good friend. u 2 need t work things out. she may jus b jealous of u. hope all goes well and i hope i helped ~steph~
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just tell your friend she needs to stop acting that way. First of all, you hving a boyfriend does not mean you two cant stillb e friends. Second of all, she needs to be supportive of you, especially if you really like this guy. Tell her how you feel, but if it still isnt working out then you need to decide if having a boyfriend is more important, or your friendship with this girl.
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which is more important to you friendship or a boyfriend?
granted you could fine another boyfriend
and you could fine more friends
if you friends hate all your boyfriends maybe she is jealous of him and you
or maybe you forget about her
if you go out with your bf on a date
dont forget about your friend maybe o to the mall wih her the next night
dont bring up the date or your boyfriend until she asked
xoxo OUCH
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Tell your friend that you really didnt like that tOo much and that you shoud really get along cuz either way sumthing is really gunna get damaged... just let your feelings out and if she was a good friend she would understnad your point of view... hope i helped at least a little!
Later*
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