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Hey Im Ashley Im 14 years old and I go to Hanford High school Its a pretty fun school I am a freshman LOL Im wild Crazy and fun I have crushes.I like A guy named Devin hes a pretty kewl kid lol Bye bye TAKe my advice ask me questions


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i was reading one of your answers and you talk about a promise ring whats that is it like a purtiy ring ?(a ring that shows you wont have sex till your maried)
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Its a ring that promises that you will be together forever!


I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP! (link)
HEY be glad ur tall but ALOT of guys like short girls I dunno why but yeah if Ur pretty and nice and funny and kewl then ur height should not be a problem thats just plain stupid !!!! So dont worry what the guys say Im 5'1 so I dont know how it feels to be tall but I hope I helped anywayz!! Love Ash


i know you can practice to hit higher notes, is there any way to pracice my lower notes? i can go high, but i cant seem to hit low notes in singing. (link)
try singing really loud one day then the next day like sing really quite and work your way up to hitting low notes it Works TRUST ME lol


I like this guy named Matt and we just recently started talking but ive known him for about 2 mounths in 5th period we always talk to eachother over the internet ( the class is keyboarding) and he always says stuff like I love you and Will U marry me and stuff like that Im trying to figure out what this means
Also in 1st and 3rd he sits accross the room and he stares at me alot PLEASE dont delete this I am really confused! (link)
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I am 14 yrs old Im in a relationship and I love it!! We have been going out for 3 weeks and its been going great I dumped my other b/f for him and he seems to like me alot now! But theres a problem whenever I spend the night with his sister I hang out with him when she falls asleep and I dont seem to like him as much as I think! Whats going on ?? Please Help and PLEASE dont delete this!! (link)
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my boyfriend always calls me sayin "oh me and ____ were flirting again today"..and then the whole story like i wanna hear about that b.cz last time he did this we broke up so he could get with some girl (he didnt) then we hooked back up so i think were gunna break up so they can hook up and then when their done its back to me...whats he doin??? and then hes like "she rly rly cute but ur better"..which i dont belive bcz we dont go to the same school so i dont kno her and i wanna talk to him about this but i dont know how i mean if were gunna break up juss so he can get with sum other gurrl then i shouldnt stay with him right?? what should i do? (link)
O thats sucky U should dump him ALL Hes doing is to use u throw you away and then pick U back up to use you again!!!


My younger sister will be 18 soon, but she has a crush on a boy who is 15. He's a nice kid and they're good friends, but her self esteem is really low because he doesn't talk to her a lot and won't ask her out. I told her it was because he would be intimidated by her being older, and he doesn't seem interested in dating yet anyway so she should stop taking it personally and go find a guy her own age. She also displays some odd behaviors like buying a baby bottle to drink out of, and eating baby food. Am I being a stiff or should she grow up and move on? (link)
She might be on drugs alot of kids who do drugs buy baby bottles to calm themselfs down after taking some WEED


well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way. (link)
I think u did the right thing but U shouldnt of if U liked him well enough but If U cant trust him then U did the right thing but I think you should apologized


well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss (link)
Ok at the begining of the year I had this same exact problem with A guy I liked Named Dave and He would stare at me alot and I was to shy to just go up to him and talk to him but I did and were really really close now at first I only knew that his name was David and I didnt know anything else Now I know like 30 different things about him because I went to go talk to him>> If U dont get it LOL Im saying U should go up to him and talk to him and stuff
need more help tell me U were the one who wrote this or e-mail me at sk8rchick08@hotmail.com bye
Love Ash


well theres this guy in my class and hes like perfect for me. he doesnt do drugs .. hes really sweet .. hes kinda shy but he still talks to me .. hes like the opposite of me with personality in all ... i mean like hes shy and im not and hes really good at the guitar but the only time i ever talk to him is when we are in class or when were going to another class and i see him. hes in my lunch but he sits with other ppl that i dont know so i never go and talk to him and i really want to hang out with him or like figure out if he likes me too but im not really sure how to do all that. sorry this is so long but please help me! (link)
I think you should try to talk to him like just go up to him and talk to him be like whats up I had the same exact problem the guy I like he hung out with people I would never usually get along with and I got to know them and I hang out with most of them at school and Now me and Him like eachother ALOT because I went and talked to all his friends!!


hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
U need to talk to a couseler or something to calm you down!!


ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do? (link)
You should ask her why she doesnt like ANY of your boyfriends and explain to her that you really like this guy and U dont want her to ruin it because U never know this guy could be the one that got away And plus ask her if she could at least Try to get along with ur b/f!! It might work Hope I helped


theres a party tom. night that my friends from my old school invited me too.... see i havent seen them since lik a year ago... do u think ill be left out? Should i go? or should i hang with my friends from my school (link)
Go to see ur friend and if u dont like it you can always leave!!


Well me and this guy were "talking" or w/e. And we stopped i guess or i dunno. but the other day i told him i liked him and i asked him n what kinda way did he like me and he said "im not sure" and then i signed off. well what does this mean? and was it a mistake 2 tell him that i liked him? (link)
No it wasnt a mistake you told him ITS BETter to tell someone you like that you like them so they know and u have have to stress about it everyday and stuff Sp if he goes to ur school talk to him about it OR if he doesnt them call, or talk to him online it always helps u know lol hope I helped you
if I didnt IM me on footballbabe454
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Ash


ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
LOVE Ash (link)
Hye hun sounds like U Gots a problem to deal with butI would tell RYAN that its not working out for you and you need sometime to find out what you want!! hope I helped love ye


There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON! (link)
Hey you should tell him like right away!! because if he leaves and you tell him right before he leaves then you might start feeling bad so tell him now I mean ther is a chance he could not be moving @@ so tell him get his e-mail or something so you guys can talk while hes where ever he is this guy I liked Moved to new mexico and I live in washington and its a long ways away but we still talk and he still likes me and I still like him I hope I helped
Ash


Ok there are two really really great guys at my school who I hang out with everyday at lunch and We all walk to class together And they both like me. What They dont know is I like only one of them David! And I found out that Sean is going to ask me out! I mean Sean is a really nice guy but im just not into him and Me and David like eachother and I want to go out with him but how do I do that without hurting Seans feelings??
PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS (link)
Umm I think you should just tell Sean that ur not interested in him that way because the longer you wait the more Hes going to get into you!!


well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me.. (link)
Ok It does kinda come to you the first time I made out with someone I just knew how to do it right away I dunno once you do it the second time will be much better!! I promise and maybe he didnt notice
hope I helped
Ash


Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16 (link)
Umm ok ur 16 and U dont want to have sex what is wrong with you?>??


Okay... so I'm 14, female, a freshman in high school. At the end of last year this guy in the grade under me all of a sudden wanted to be my friend. We didn't talk all that much but he is sooo cool and I really like him. Then at the very end of last year he wrote in my yearbook that he loved me. But now I'm just confused, because (1) I don't know if he was JOKING or not! ACK! ...and (2) We hardly ever talk because we're in different classes and he never does anything but wave to me in the halls. Of course, neither do I, but....
HELP. (link)
He doesnt love you Or maybe he does in A friend kinda way!!




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