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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me..
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well it was ur first kiss its supposed to go wrong..lol...and if pplz told u wat to do then thats there strategy not urs..so juss go wit the flow...ad i heard if u se toungue write ur name in cursive in his mouth...
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Well, how do u know u did a bad job? He could have thought u did great...and neways of course u will learn it takes time!
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Ok It does kinda come to you the first time I made out with someone I just knew how to do it right away I dunno once you do it the second time will be much better!! I promise and maybe he didnt notice
hope I helped
Ash
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I know exacly how you feel! I thought the same thing when I had my first kiss but don't worry you will get better over time and you have to be relaxed! Have fun! ;0) *KrIsSy*
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You were probably scared. If you're so worried about doing it bad or not knowing how then you are probably going to freeze up and do it bad and not know how. Once you get some practice in it really does come naturally. It's not really practice it's jsut getting comfortable with the idea and becoming confident ! Good luck *Kacie*
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OK First, just relax. Don't be so nervous about it. Kissing is supposed to be fun, not stressful. It is a little strange that you didn't know what to do but don't worry, you can work around that. You can't go back and fix the last time, but you can try to be a little bit more prepared for the next time you make out with a guy. All you really need to do is relax and try not to think about what you're doing too much. You still need to pay attention but not to the point where you're stressed over it. Since you didn't really know what you were doing , just do what he does except.. you do it to him. After you do that a few times, try to add your own style to it. It's really not hard at all. Good luck hun & have fun!!
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Hey, don't worry, you probably did fine! You probably kept panicing on what to do that all you could think of was "Omg, I suck at kissing!" And it was your fist kiss! I don't think anything comes perfect the first time. 'N hey~ for all you know, what if he thought you were a great kisser?! lol You'll get better at it, so don't worry! Wish ya'll good luck! Hope I helped!
-tori
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well sometimes a first kiss is hard b/c your all like AHHHHHHHH WHAT DO I DO!! and AM I DOING THIS RIGHT!! and things like that.....well don't worrie it will come to you and you'll know how to do it......or read a cosmo magazine......lol.....but eventally it will come to you........hoped i help
~DarKAngel
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Well just say it was your first kiss he will understand and find it sweet and if he comes onto you really quickly he would think i dont think she was ready for that he would be blaming his self not you.
hope it has been good advise!
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Well, don't stress out. It's not the end of the world if you aren't the best kisser. And for the people who told you it would come naturally, maybe it did for them. Kissing is different for everyone just like everything else. Take it like sports. It comes naturally to some people, takes practice for others, and still there are some people (like me) who will just never be good at them. The same thing goes for kissing. All you can do is learn from your mistakes. If you feel self-concious about your "performance" last night, just explain to him that you'd never kissed a guy before and it's kind of new to you. You can't expect to be perfect the first time. Everybody kisses differently and different people enjoy different stlyes. There is no "right way" to kiss. Just do what feels comfortable and that's all you can do. If kissing came naturally to everyone, then it would get boring really fast.
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If he really likes you then he probably didn't mind that you aren't as experienced as him. Don't worry most people the first time they kiss someone its not perfect.
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youll "learn" its more of a "practice makes perfect" thing... lol if it didnt come to you thats ok... its doesnt come to everybody.. and how do you know you did bad? for all you know he thought you were an awesome kisser... and also may i ask... are you guys dating? well hope i helped a little!!
xoxHannah
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