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If u liked a guy so much that u were in love with him, but then u haven't seen or said anything to him in a few months, would u even take a chance to try and make it work? (o and by the way he kinda liked me too the last time i talked to him and stuff).

talk to him

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Alright my best friend and i used to fight a lot last year but we haven't fought in awhile. A few days ago, we went to a carnival and me and my other friend couldnt find her anywhere but finally we found the people she was with.I was all confused and asked them where she was and they started yelling at me for no reason telling me not to be mad! I wasn't mad at all and nothing was wrong but they were yelling at me for no reason and i tried to explain that to them but they just told me to shut up and kept yelling. I told my best friend what happened and she doesn't believe me! She says she doesnt trust me and shes positive that her other friends would never do that. I told her i would never ever lie to her, and i wouldn't, but she just said that i was making it up. I really really really dont wanna fight with her but we already are and if her other friends lie about what happened im afraid we'll never be friends again. I have a lot of other friends but she's my best friend and when shit like this happens it really really hurts. I have no idea what to do and please don't tell me to just wait till everything's forgotten, because i know thats not gonna work. Please help me..thank you so much and sorry it's so long.

Was any of your friends there that could tell your best friend the truth about them shouting at you? and if so get them to tell her.. and just have a long talk with her and say look i never did anyfink and i am not makin it up.....
hope it been good advise!

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errrrrr. ok my mom dont trust me i did something with a guy she found out end of story. we were going out at the time now we arent cuz i was grounded cuz of the other thing and cudnt see him much but we still good friends and he invited me over last weekend i asked mom said no i got wicked mad and now i he asked for this weekend if him n his dad could drive over pick me up i cud go to his house. i needa ask but im afraid cuz 1) she wont giv in wen she says no 2) i needa prove to him i can hang out so we can go out again 3) wen she says no i get so mad. like she doesnt undertsnad me. (no1 does. he does alot..he makes me happy too and i am not the happiest person) the anger builds up inside me till i wanan explode. i wanan show her she can trust me. she just wont lemme. she prob wont let me go and i need to ask soon and errrrr anyway please help if u can idk what to do or what to say thx lata

But what did you do? I am the same as you if my mom n dad say no i get so angry but you have just got to wait.... You have to show them that guy is nice and everything prove your mom wrong..
hope been good advise!!

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okay . i liek this kidd steve . . and he likes me and all but today like a hole bunch of people from my town went to this fair thing . . see the most poular gurl in my shcool likes him to and he only wants to go out with her is becvuz she hadd bigs boobs he hates her personality . . and stuff . . me and him were chillin and holding hands and i was sittin on his lap and we were makin out and stuff .. and she is one of my friends . . but she also like this other kidd jason . . and she got madd at me and then steve went up to her . . and said sry and he kissed her ryte in frount of me then he came back to me and he kissed me and i was like wtf i made this big scence and everything . . the gurl . . like that kdd jason a lot more then steve but if jason doent go out with her she going to go out with steve even though he will cheat on her with me and i always sneek out of my house to do shit with him and stuff . . i dont kno what to do becuz i really like him . . and i think he likes me or is he a playa hellpp mee pleaseee

Just go along with him for abit and if he keeps doing it just dump him. There are plenty of other people you will like he is not the only boy in the world.
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OK well here it goes....I really really wanna have a relationship with a guy....a REAL relationship....But the thing is When it somes to the kissing part....I kinda dont know what to do..... I freeze. How do i deal with this? I am 14 and everybody is like way more experienced than me. I'm afraid. Please can you give me advice! Thanx in advanced!

you just have to ask your friends they will tell you what to do and you will learn of them

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Things have been going great with my boyfriend. But I can tell my best friend is jealous. I guess I dont blame her but still, I'd like to be able to talk to her about it without feeling guilty like I'm bragging. I've tried to talk to her about like our first kiss or stuff like that but she either gets all quiet or says bad things about him.. like he's a player or something like that (which he isnt, we both really like eachother but thats besides the point). I just really want to be able to share it with her and not feel bad about it. Should I still talk to her about it or just talk to my other friends? Thanx so much.. I rate high!

If you think she gets jealous just ask her and talk about it to your other friends and see whever they would like to listen! Maybe your friend would like to have a boyfriend but doesnt get the chance it does sound like your braggin... hope this is helpful

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Sorry it's long, but it's VERY important to me.
Okay, me and a bunch of friends were at this party, and there was alcohal (i'm a freshman in high school, 13 years old.) Well anyways, my boyfriend can drive, but he decided to leave his car there(it was a friends house.) and so we decided to split the cost for a taxi ride, about 10 of us squeezed into a taxi, well my REALLY good friend, didn't seem drunk, but we offered countless times for her to ride with us, she kept saying NO, so we gave her the walk test, and she did in a strait line. So since we couldn't talk her into it, she drove home, and ended up driving off a mountain, and she died. Well I felt so bad, and guilty, and I still do. So now I'm trying to stop drinking, after what happened, I decided I better stop. Well I was wondering, I want to get over the guilt, and stop drinking. One of my teachers knows that I drink, and I was talking, with an attitude saying it's not like you can die... and the next day my friend passes away. She is the only adult that I know, but I'd feel really akward talking about it to her, and I wouldn't know how to bring it up, neither of my parents know, and I don't want to upset them, I mean I'd get my butt whooped. So does anybody have any Ideas what I can do? None of her friends besides me want to talk about it, my boyfriend will change the subject each time we bring it up. She was sort of a loner, and she didn't go to my school, niether did my bf, and I met her through him.
So if anybody has any ideas, I'm open to everything EXCEPT telling my parents, or naybers!
Thanks in advance for any help, this is VERY hard for me, so please TRY to be sympathetic.

I am very sorry! But you will always remember her as your friend and her death there wont be 1 day were you dont think of her. She was your friend so nobody could not stop thinking but in years later you will not think of the bad accident you will remeber all the goods times you had....

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

well i am boy? i will answer for you hehhehe... it dont matter what your friends think its natural to have them for girls, dont listen to them becuase 1,000,000 of women n girls would were them.....

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Tomorrow I'm meeting up with my boyfriend. It will be the first time I have seen him properly out of school since we started going out and I want to make a big impression. I need to look nice and casual. How should I do my hair/makeup and what shall I wear???!!!

PS. If this helps: My hair is dark brown and comes to around my shoulders. I have blue and eyes and pale skin.

Just be yourself and it doesnt not matter what you look like because if you wear school uniform he likes you anyway. It doesnt matter what you look like it whats inside....

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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me..

Well just say it was your first kiss he will understand and find it sweet and if he comes onto you really quickly he would think i dont think she was ready for that he would be blaming his self not you.
hope it has been good advise!

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okay so my friends and i got in a fight and well we kinda made up 2day!! i was just wondering how can i make our friendship stronger?? also we don't talk a lot does anyone have any suggestions about what we should talk about??

You can't ask people that question because your the only one who can make your friendship stronger and if you and your best friends don't argue your not actually best friends everyone argues and everyone sorts it out you should try talking to them alot more n being nicer and then you will talk alot more.....

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I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do?

Just have a word with him, and if he wont tell you what he is doin you should break up because when ure in relationship you should be honest with each other and if he don't love you anymore why are you still going out? Hope this will be a bit elpful for you!!!!!

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well me and my best friend havnt talked for a a month and a half, and im just finding out now that he is mad at me because one of my old friends and i aernt talkin now, and he doesnt like me cus i dont like his friend, so now i lost a best friend, what should i do? oh and he hasnt told me any of this, my GF had to talk to him cus he is ignoreing me

you are prob still mates with him you just need to talk to him.. say i missed ya as m8 n ddo you still wanna be close mates? you dont have to be best friends to hang about 24/7 n all day. you can go around his house n he can come round urez and u will still be talking.....

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

it can be bad for people at ure age range as im only 13 myself n i wouldnt have sex with girl in case they ent up pregnant its ure decision if u want to ave sex but u ave got to realise there is consawences...

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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni

You shud not take any notice of her if you know ure not immature its fine and if she says anymore i should say something to her because she is not a good friend if she does that is she?

hope it is helpful!!!!! thank you

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