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Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Age: 14
Member Since: October 2, 2004
Answers: 14
Last Update: December 3, 2005
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i want a new screen name ! it can have georgious, glamourous and stuff like that in it thnx i will rate !! (link)
o gorg x eous o
IxI glamorous IoI
xx glam oo
oo beautiful xx
80 hottie 08
o6 gorgeous 9o


whats freak dancing? (link)
freak dancing is grinding if you know what that means..


I got contacts a few days ago and they've worked well. The problem is that they seem to be riding on my eyes fairly low, though they still cover the colored party of my eye. I have a stigmatism, so I don't know if that has anything to do with this, because I know I have the special contacts for that conditions. I've tried puting the contacts in different eyes, so I'm positive I have the right eyes. Is this normal. (link)
yeah i have the same problem. i have a normal contact for my right eye and a stigmatism contact for my left eye. and my left contact is always riding.. so i dont know, maybe it supposed to happen? x0xo


there is this guy in my class, that i'm not too sure if he likes me...but he complimented a flower in my hair and said it looked pretty, and sometimes when i turn around i see him lookin at me. does he like me? or am i just over reactin? (link)
he could like you, or think your really pretty, or is just being nice. its hard to tell with guys sometimes.. x0xo


ok I have a problem its not a major problem but still...I have this friend shes like a sister to me i love her to death i mean we grew up together she comes over my house all the time and everything...well she came over all this past weekend and today at school me and her and all of our friends went to eat lunch and when i got through eating my taco she was done eating everything but some grapes so i asked her for one and she gave me a smooshed one but i still ate it and i asked nicely for one more because everytime i have something she wantz i give it to her but she put another smooshed up one on her fork and dropped it in my left over food which was sick so i didnt eat it and i said well that was your fault so please give me one more and she was like NO i dont have anymore and she has like 10 on her plate and then i asked for this other LITTLE one that she had and she didnt answer me or anything and then turned around and ate it and with an attitude was like oh you wanted that didnt you and i was like yea i kinda did and she was like 2 bad so i got up and walked out because i could tell she was mad at me so me and my other friend walked out and she started talkin about me to our other friend and we havent talked or anything i kno shes mad at me but why over a grape thats stupid!! What should i do?
thanx (link)
talk to her. thats the best thing to do. ask her why she is mad at you and why she gave you an attitude.. dont have someone else to do it cause thats when stories get mixed up and drama starts.

im sorry to hear what your friend did you...

x0xo hope i helped??


hey guys well my Best friend moved away a little less than a year ago and we talked every day.. until a couple weeks ago we started drifting away and its sad its like she doesnt care any more. soo im looking for some quotes that are like about best friends who drift away and its sad and you miss them or something so if you have any thank you.. (link)
I might not remember what we did those nights
or what made us laugh so hard but
I remember you were the one who was there with me
(^ that one is maybe? idk)


take out the picture,
blow off all the dust
take off the frame its starting to
rust,remember all the times we had
together ? what ever happened to
" we'd be best friends forever ? "
(^ i recremend this one)


Ok im really bad with my self-confidence like some of my friends think i just say "oh i'm so fat" just to get them to tell me im not.. but i really don't i really think of myself as fat.. like my face is pretty but i always think im fat, sometimes i think its because i have such gorgeous friends and they get all the guys i never think i can get any. I always brush by hot guys because its almost like i know they would never like me.. it's horrible but its how i feel.. like (1) i need to know how to feel better about myself and not think of myself as ugly. (2) does anyone know why i got this way. (link)
i am the same way. people always are telling me, you are gorgous and not fat.. but i never bievle them..every girl has something negative about themselves. its just part of growing up. you just have to put your best outfit on.. and look at yourself in the mirrow and just think positive. and anyways, im sure you heard this but its true, guys should like you for who you are on the inside not the outside.. corny right? but its true...hope i helped even alittle

x0xo


ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!! (link)
just tell him that what he's doing is uncomfortable.. if he really likes you he'll understand and stop



x0xo


Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!! (link)
be a good friend. get help. it might get more serious in the future. then if something does happen thats even worse, you'll regret not helping.



x0xo


There is this girl at my school and she's super sweet!She is most likely the nicest person in our grade.WE're friends and all but she's really getting on my nerves.She's always sitting with me at lunch we have to be partners for everything(she is in 4 of my classes), and she switched into band because im in it too. First i just let it go because i know she just wants to be my friend. But now she's been doing it for 3 weeks and its bugging me. I need some time with my friends and myself. I cant be with her 24/7!
So what should i do or say? I dont want to be mean cause she's really sensitive... (link)
well if she really is a sweet person and really wants to be friends with you, she'll understand that you want time alone. Just explain what is bothering you and maybe she'll realize how much of a pain she is and back off alittle bit.. x0xo


Hey guys..i am 15 and i am about to get my permit..so my first car is going to be a 2005 Chevrolet Colorado Z71 with leather, big tires, and a system..is that bad like for a first car? (link)
it is kind of alot for your first car. you'll just have to be extra careful


Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks! (link)
It sounds like he may still have a thing for you. He probly just said he likes somoene else to cover up his feelings. You should just talk to him and tell him how you feel and maybe he'll do the same. x0xo


okay well i used to be best friends with this one girl for like ever. and then we stopped talking for a little bit because we were both really busy and she got all mad and said that i was mad at her and she could never trust me again. that was a few months ago and were still not friends. well i was wondering if i should write her (she blocked me and she lives in another state so i cant call her). because i am just wondering if shes okay and maybe we can patch this thing up. should i even bother?

*i rate 5's* (link)
well since she blocked you, you should just make another sn (that would be easier then just sending her a letter) and just tell her you wanna talk.. i had this same problem. and my friend (we became really close again) made a new sn and was like. listen dont block me again i really want to talk to you. and so i listened and we figured things out.. and even though we dont live close , we are closer friends then ever.. i think you should try it. it wouldnt hurt. hope i helped


i know this is a little confusing n complicated but plz help me..ok here is the thing my bday is coming up in less then 3 weeks and for the last 2 birthday's me n my friend spent together since its the same day (March 30), for the 1st birthday was our 13th bday, we went to sports plus (for those who dk what that is its basically a place with a bunch of games n a inside roller coaster, and lazer tag n bumper cars....) then we went to the movies n then McDonald's for the 2nd time she came home on the bus with me n we hung out for a while n then when my mom came home she took the 2 of us bowling n then to friendly's...and here is the problem she moved to Pennyslvania to her dad's bc she didn't want to live in NY ne more, and well she is almost on the Ohio boarder which is 7 hours and 39 mins (as of what yahoo says) and we can't see each other this year, we may be allowed to go to Hershey since its exactly half way from both of us...and well we thought she was coming back but her dad wont drive so i cant see her till June bc of her brothers graduation (her mom n her brother still live in NY her parents r divorce) and well..i dk what i can do for my birthday since it wont be with her, and also my birthday is in 18 days which falls on a wednesday...which is the same day my mom teaches a religion class @ my church...ne ideas?? i was @ Dave & Busters (for those who dk what that is either is a smaller version of sports plus but more expensive n more adult like) last night n i was thinking that goin there with a few friends...urmmm ne ideasss??- thx (link)
.im very sorry to hear about your friend..well maybe you should just hang out with a group of other friends and have fun. Theres nothing you can do about this situation. Maybe call her that night and talk to her for a long time.




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