There is this girl at my school and she's super sweet!She is most likely the nicest person in our grade.WE're friends and all but she's really getting on my nerves.She's always sitting with me at lunch we have to be partners for everything(she is in 4 of my classes), and she switched into band because im in it too. First i just let it go because i know she just wants to be my friend. But now she's been doing it for 3 weeks and its bugging me. I need some time with my friends and myself. I cant be with her 24/7!
So what should i do or say? I dont want to be mean cause she's really sensitive...
dancinchikita answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 10:50 am: just be nice and try to talk to her. say im sorry but i kind of need space for my other friends too. i mean, u can sit with me at lunch and we can be partners sometimes but i want to be partners with my other friends too, ok? hope i helped! [ dancinchikita's advice column | Ask dancinchikita A Question ]
ac_hc14 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:47 pm: well since shes sensitive and all, maybe you should try hanging on for a little while. and if she keeps on then sit with her and try to talk to her, but dont be to mean to where your saying "get away i dont want anything to do with you" you should try telling her to get into some other social groups and try something new at your school.. [ ac_hc14's advice column | Ask ac_hc14 A Question ]
dumblonde answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:47 pm: well if she really is a sweet person and really wants to be friends with you, she'll understand that you want time alone. Just explain what is bothering you and maybe she'll realize how much of a pain she is and back off alittle bit.. x0xo [ dumblonde's advice column | Ask dumblonde A Question ]
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