ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!
happy-helper answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:16 pm: Hey, "little" things like hands up/in skirt can lead to bigger and more serious problems. Please, from experience, please don't get yourself into that mess! Either talk to him about how you're feeling or try and be more romantic rather than touchy feely. G'luck!!
x Steph x
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YeSiTsNiCoLeee answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:27 pm: Yeah.. well its not right for him to do it. People will start calling you a slut/whore etc. you dont want that, just let him know your not that kinda girlllllll !!.. unless you are but im not saying you are.. but yes let him know UR REP. COMES FIRST [ YeSiTsNiCoLeee's advice column | Ask YeSiTsNiCoLeee A Question ]
xjUiCyx answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:19 pm: just tell him that hes way too touchy feely with you...especially since its in public. if he doesnt respect then dont bother with him. you dont want to get a bad reputation [ xjUiCyx's advice column | Ask xjUiCyx A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:50 pm: I think you need to stop talking to this pervert. If hes touching you and you aren't even with him, then that should have stopped you already. And on top of that, hes trying to touch you in inappropriate places. I think he can just find a new girl that will let him touch her, because you are uncomfortable, and it's sick anyway, you just need to tell him that you don't like him doing it, but I doubt he will listen.
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:57 pm: Hey, well first you shouldn't care about the racial difference..I like black guys too! Ok well you shoulf tell the people talking bout you to **** off...you fill in the blanks lol! Then you shoudl tell the guy that you like him but you don't want him touchin you all the time...be liek geese we're not even going out...it'll give him a little hint lol! Screw what people are saying..they don't know you so w/e! Good luck! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
ac_hc14 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:55 pm: well if i were you i wouldnt let him be all touchy around me.. For one thing its kind of creepy having a guy that isnt your boyfriend touch you. and if he wont listen the first time, then tell him off the second... Even if you like this guy, its for the best( unless you know that, thats his way of saying he likes you).other then that TELL EM OFF!!!!! [ ac_hc14's advice column | Ask ac_hc14 A Question ]
dumblonde answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:54 pm: just tell him that what he's doing is uncomfortable.. if he really likes you he'll understand and stop
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