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hey my name is Sam and im just ur typical teenage girl struggling with boys, friends, school, family, and the drama of high school. dont be shy to leave on in the inbox ill answer just about anything :)
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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
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i think its fine as long as the freshman is mature. i think it may be tough sometimes because the junior prob has a lot more experiences and they prob have different friends. But if they work through that or that doesn't matter then go for it!


does anyone know where you can buy leg warmers ? like, the kind that ballerinas wear. thanks (link)
my friend recently got a pair from macy's


my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little under a year. i love him so much and care about him and i found out that he's been doing something i dont really approve of. but its not what hes doing that upsets and worries me, its that he's been lying to me about it, and then said he's never lied to me. i dont know if i can trust him anymore. i dont want him doing what hes doing, but if he's going to i want to know about it because i dont like being lied to. i want to talk to him but i have no idea what to say? any ideas? i really care about him and love him and don't want anything to happen to him. :-\ (link)
well atleast he finally told you...
but it's not good that he lied about it in the first place. I have been in his position tho. I lied to my bf about something because i was afraid he would be mad, and it wound up making everything worse. He eventually forgave me, but i still feel terrible about lying. So basically what I'm trying to say is that even though there is no excuse for lying, he prob didnt do it because he doesnt care about you, just because he was scared and didnt know what else to do.

Tell him that it hurts to be lied to, and that you only don't like what he's doing because you care about him. Tell him he has to earn your trust back. If he sounds sincere, forgive him, but if he lies to you again then im not so sure about this guy.


what are sum programs to download any type of music? (link)
limewire or bearshare


i know this is late but,i just got back from a trip...i need some ideas of what to get my boyfriend...i want to get him a bear...does anybody know where i can get him one at.... (link)
make him a build a bear and do one of the voice box things inside where you can make it say what you want! i think their so cute.


Whats a good sport for me. I like to run...a lot. But I feel like thats not enough. I am very scared of balls though. Even a Ping Pong ball...so I really dont know what to do!!

AM

P.S. something cheap...I cant really afford expensive equiptment. (link)
Track is the perfect sport for you. You love running and that's what track is. It also doesn't require balls or equitment.


my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help (link)
ugh thats what happened to me. my bf gave me a hickey and i had to put my hair up for cheering so my whole squad saw it, friends, and parents! =/. I didnt try and cover it up tho so if you have a good foundation or coverup it should cover it, just keep reapllying it. Also for cheering, after everyone saw mine i had on a fleece that i could zipper up to hide my neck if you have something like that you can do that too.


i make/embellish my own clothes.. and yes.. sometimes they look really cute!!! im afraid if i wear them people will make fun of me.. my quesion is should i wear them to school or not?
answer this question to get a 5! (link)
if you like them wear them! i think thats really cool that you make your own clothes and not just buying and wearing the same things as everyone else. It shows how creative you are and that you want to stand out, which is a total good thing. I say you should wear them especially since you say their cute! i doubt ppl would make fun of you and if they do their just jealous their not as creative as you :)


16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive) (link)
Hollister Perfume
Lilu (found in Pacsun)
-those are my favorites


Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES

.:XoXo:. (link)
i made a love cd for my bf here our the songs i included...

Only One- Yellowcard
I Dont Want To Miss a Thing- Aerosmith
Collide- Howie Day
Tiger Lily- Matchbook Romance
Best of Me- Starting Line
You and Me- Lifehouse
I Miss You- Blink 182
Back At One- Brian McKnight (i know its not rock but its a really good love song)
Amazed- Lonestar
I'll Be- Edwin McCain
One Year, Six Months- Yellowcard
The Luckiest- Ben Folds
Wonderwall- Oasis
I'll be There for you- Bon Jovi
Dreaming of you- Selena (again not rock but really good)

hope this helps :)


I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic? (link)
completely natural! i have a total crush on Seth from the OC lol i hate thinking hes not real.


My brother's birthday is coming up next week he is turning 24 and i have no clue what to get him. He doesnt play video games and he doesn't like band tee-shirts. It can cost no higher then $30. If anyone has any helpful suggestions it would be very helpful. (link)
cd,dvd, gift certificate to his favorite store, money, anything dealing with sports?

hope this helps ♥


Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen (link)
Nobody puts baby in the corner! ahh i


I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!! (link)
i think he was just trying to be funny or something .. its not that he thinks of your grandma as his grandma too.


If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette? (link)
BMW i think corvettes are pretty ugly


I have really wavy hair, and i straighten it everyday for school. does anyone have a straightener that would straighten my hair easily and not damage my hair (link)
no straightener wont damage your hair.
but CHI is deff the best! it costs like 100 something dollars tho but my natural hair is extremely curly and my hair comes out super straight.


my bf, his friend jason, my friend and her bf and some other ppl all went to the movies. my bf sat in between me and jason, and most of the movie he seemed more interested in talking to him! meanwhile my friend and her bf were making out like right next to us. and they've been going out less than a month! when jason told him (my bf) to kiss me he said "i dont want to kiss her now. i will soon" (we havnt kissed yet) the problem is tho that that was the same thing he said to his other friend when he told him to ask me out, and it took him like a year to ask me, and even then i had to bring up the subject and stuff. i dont want to wait forever just for him to make a move. like i said, its been 3 months already. i definately dont want to kiss him first tho. what should i do? (link)
you should make the first move. hes prob just nervous and someone needs to break the ice. plus, guys like it when the girl makes the first move. theres nothing to be scared of i mean its not like hes gonna pull away, he prob wants to and much as you do. if you really dont want to make the first move then you should talk to him because its really weird that he has waited so long. good luck =]


I'm a 13/f and my bday is coming up soon. My parents asked me what I want but i honestly dont know! lol What are things ($150 and under) that I could ask for?!?! (link)
clothes, jewelry, make-up, shoes, perfume, money, cds.....

hope this helps =]


I wanna show the nation my appreciation: Girl your my angel, your my darling angel. Girl your my friend when I'm in need, baby

does anyone know the name of this song...and who sings it? easy 5 (link)
its called angel by shaggy


how do tea bags help get rid of under-eye circles? (link)
idk but spoons totally do.




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