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my bf, his friend jason, my friend and her bf and some other ppl all went to the movies. my bf sat in between me and jason, and most of the movie he seemed more interested in talking to him! meanwhile my friend and her bf were making out like right next to us. and they've been going out less than a month! when jason told him (my bf) to kiss me he said "i dont want to kiss her now. i will soon" (we havnt kissed yet) the problem is tho that that was the same thing he said to his other friend when he told him to ask me out, and it took him like a year to ask me, and even then i had to bring up the subject and stuff. i dont want to wait forever just for him to make a move. like i said, its been 3 months already. i definately dont want to kiss him first tho. what should i do?
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you should make the first move. hes prob just nervous and someone needs to break the ice. plus, guys like it when the girl makes the first move. theres nothing to be scared of i mean its not like hes gonna pull away, he prob wants to and much as you do. if you really dont want to make the first move then you should talk to him because its really weird that he has waited so long. good luck =]
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okay hun, my boyfriend used to get shy with that type of stuff too, because he didnt know what would make me feel uncomfortable, if he doesn't already know you want him to kiss you, you should tell him! If he does know and he is just shy you might need to break the ice, besides if you kissed him fisrt you wouldnt be making the first move, he already did that when he asked you out. Let him know he shouldn't be shy with that stuff, let him know that you guys are goin out and that means you like being with him, and you would like to kiss him. If you just talk to him im sure he'll be alot more comfortable kissing you.
good luck hun!
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k i get that you wouldnt want to make the first move, but im sorry 3 months and not even a kiss! he is a bit of a prude, but it might be that hes really shy or really likes you or something but your gunna have to make the first move, or just ask him why ont you kiss me, or just tell him to kiss you, cuz thats just not cool!
best of luck^^
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he is obviously prude, scared, and a weaklink, when this stuff happens to me all i think about is "i got to take charge" so what i do is grab him, look him in the eye, pull on a sexy look, nd say are you going to kiss me?. it sounds hard but it's easy, either that or you could make the first move but you said you didn't want to. start looking really sexy and keep asking him to make out with you, it works with me all the time because i'm always in the same position. if you don't want to do this this might help. close your eyes and say to yourself "I am taking charge of my man!" wrks like a charm. hope i helped
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