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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
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It seems fine to me !
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It doesn't matter who you date. Just as long as they are not too old ( more then 6 years difference.)It also depends on if he likes you and if you like him. I think it's fine.
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I don't think there is a problem i think it's actualley cute !
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I don't see nothing wrong with this, at all. If you guys like eachother and care about eachother, be together. Age is just a number. When it comes to people liking one another, you should be together. You could be missing out on something really special. ♥
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i think thats cute! haha there is nothing wrong with that..its not even that big of an age difference! be careful tho with your decisions! HAVE FUN!!
♥ Kristen
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i dont think there is problem if you guys are maybe like 1-2 years apart! but thats just my opinion!
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i think its fine as long as the freshman is mature. i think it may be tough sometimes because the junior prob has a lot more experiences and they prob have different friends. But if they work through that or that doesn't matter then go for it!
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My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am. He is 19 and I am 15. Some people have a problem with it. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you are safe and mature. Age is nothing but a number and you shouldn't care what other people think.
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Not a great idea for two reasons:
1. What is he looking for that he has to be with someone that much younger than him to get it?
2. Your age puts you in a different "stage" category which will keep you *below* him in a lot of ways. And by stage I mean: you're not driving yet, you're new to highschool life, etc. There are a few upcoming age marking points that you can only reach with time but that have nothing to do with maturity levels, and to be with someone who's past those points already guarantees you'll feel behind and like a kid when hanging out with him, especially if you're with him and his friends.
That's where a lot of girls end up making painful mistakes: to feel older or to seem like they fit in more, they often do things they're not ready for yet and then don't quite know what to do with the consequences. It's not because they're dumb, it's because they just need more time to learn how the guy-game is played and that's something you learn with time.
You can be more of an adult than your teachers and still not be ready to date someone a few years older than you for the really simple reason that you just haven't been around as long to see as much of life as they have.
You should be able to wait a week or two to give him an answer (and if he won't wait that long then you know he's a "no" because why all the rush if he really likes and wants to be with you?) and by then you'll either know if it's a good idea or not, or one of the two of you will have decided to move on to someone else. And if either of you is that willing to move on so soon, then it probably wasn't "meant to be" anyway, you know?
Better to learn how to play the game from good experiences that went well than it is to learn it from bad experiences that ended up causing pain or frustration or both, right?
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I don't think that there is anything wrong with that. Age is just a number (longs as it is legal lol)
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Aw. There's nothing wrong with it. It's cute. If you guys like each other then be together. Age doesn't matter..Well it does, but freshman dating a junior isn't that extreme.
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its fine. i went to homecoming with a junior and im a freshman but we didnt go out.. just be careful with this guy and make good decisons =)
erica
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there is nothin wrong wit that.
*~Stephanie~*
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um normal. all my girls and i date seniors
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totally awesome! age is just a number remember! i always date older guys! aNd i have a friend whos bf is 2 gRades younger! haha! sO thats tHe besT! i dont like guys my own age... sooo yeah!
xOxO, aL
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i don`t think theres anything wrong with that. i dated a junior once =D !! hope i helped [♥]Lej
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I dont think theres anything wrong with it.
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theres absolutley nothing wrong with that i'm a freshman and im dating a junior its completely fine 2 years is no big deal at all
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I'm a freshman. My boyfriend's a junior. No problems. Girls are usually more mature than boys anyway, so the age gap between my boyfriend and I makes us have about the same maturity level.
-FunnyCide
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I don`t see nothing wrong with it AT ALL.. Yea theres a little age difference but so what.. Age is just a number and if you like somebody i don`t see why it matters about age or what grade you are in highschool.. Go with who you want.. ♥ Dez
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Thats really weird because my friend who is a freshman is currently dating a junior. I think its perfectly fine. Theyre only 2 years older than you. Its really NOT that much of a difference because its high school. Its also more fun to date older guys. But, in my opinion its a LITTLE more dangerous because theyre more experienced and could pressure you into things your not ready to do. :] hope this helps.
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it really depends on what kind of relationship it is. in some cases, the junior takes advantage of freshman. in other cases, its really good... my friends were like that. they were together for god-knows how long but a it took a long time for some people to accept it. (she was 15, he was 16) <3
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It depends. If you really like the person then yes but if you are doing it for other reasons then no. Look at Ashton and Demi, they are 15 years apart and are married. If you like the person and you feel comforable then yes a freshman dating a junior is just fine. It isn't the age that counts it's the person!!!!!!!!!
-Gossip_Girl-
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