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right down to it - do midnight snacks, or eating after 8 o'clock make you fat? If not, then why is it bad? what's the big fuss about?

the calories that you eat up when you have a midnight snack are really bad for ya because you don't get to burn the calories at all whatsoever, so yeah. [x] Lej

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Does anyone know any websites where i can learn more about sex, basically the whole thing from tips to actually doing it and the consequences.

thanks♥

yup !!

www.teenwire.com, [x] Lej

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The guy i like worships the devil..i think..he is into wicca and i'm totally the oposite...i love Jesus and God. But is it wrong to have feelings for someone like that?

uh that's a bit strange [x] Lej

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ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering.

in my opinion, not at all [

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what are some good job that a 16 year guy can work for? a good paying job..

p.s. in san diego california

my neighbor's 16 and he works at a nursing home , he gets paid really good too. so you can try looking for that [x] Lej

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I'm 13 years old and I reallly like this guy at my school, more than i've ever liked anyone before. he has all the qualities i like and everything. But i really cannot tel if he likes me or not. guys are so hard to read. how can i tell if he likes me and should i make my move since i am so crazy about him?

Does he act the same around you when his friends are around , as when you guys are together? does he call you reguraly ? ya just gotta ask you`reself simple questions like those, and don't set you`reself up for a dissapointment, FIND out if he lieks you, you can just ask him, write him a note or something .. [x] Lej

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Okay so i am nearly 200 pounds overweight...i know i need to lose weight but i have no motivation...does anyone know of anything that could really motivate at 15 year old girl? Thanks

you should just tell yourself you don`t wanna
be this way anymore and you need a change [x] lej

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why do they make cars that go like 300 miles per hour if the speed limit's like 75 miles per hour

because some people like that!! [♥]Lej

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ok whats like really in on fasion but not REALLY expensive?..

you can try going to forever 21 or charlotte russe. because those stores have really cute stuff for noT that much money at all` i shop there all the time!! [♥]Lej

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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?

it`s a matter of opinion . honestly i don`t think any guy would care as long as he got what he wanted no offense [♥]Lej

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Does coffee make you lose weight or gain weight? Does it have any effect at all?

coffe with sugar has alota calories, and caffine so yes it does make you gain weight a bit [♥]Lej

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How do slow down fast metabolism? Any tips or something?

you eat right and exercise [♥]Lej

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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?

In my opinion NO it most definetly is not [♥]Lej

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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?

No, giving head is ORAL sex. Anal sex. is sex in the butt [♥]Lej

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what do you do when you fall in love with your best friend (of the opposite sex of course) and they dont know and you dont want to ruin the friendship? im a girl by the way.

Take it from someone that knows. Ignore it for a while but if the feelings keep on getting stronger then act on it by telling someone. not nessicerly them. maybe a counslor or a really well trusted friend. [♥]Lej

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Ok, I'm going to go through all of this and try to not sound vain or concieted. I'm just going to be totally honest because I am the 'advisor' of our group and I am totally killing myself trying to help her.
So my friend Angela and I were fat geeks two years ago. I was the one with the sense of fashion though. Last summer, she went on vacation and came back totally transformed and in shape. She has a really nice body now. I passed on all my advice to her and she started wearing designer labels and boots and pretty much copying my "style". I didn't mind though, like it's flattering to me that she would take whatever I said to heed.
Over the last two years, I got thinner too but I a little overweight and not nearly as thin as Angela.
The problem with Angela is that she isn't the prettiest girl on the block. She has a huge forehead which she has covered up with bangs but now her face is totally square-shaped and it kind of looks like a block. She has no-lips, not thin lips, just no lips. The thing that stands out about her is her gorgeous blue eyes and her body. Anyway, she's not very attractive but she's a very nice and honest (although sometimes she annoys guys by nagging and starting arguments).
So I don't have that great of a body but I'm lucky, I inhereted good genes from my parents. I'm not as beautiful as mother but I'm fairly ok.
All my other friends are really pretty too.
So we recently found out that Angela was upset because the rest of our friends complemented me more than they complemented her. Well, I was pretty mad because I didn't think she should be that superficial. People usually commented when she went the extra mile to get ready when they do that all the time to me. Honestly, I thought it was a fair trade, I was... I guess prettier than her but she has a great body.
Now guys aren't all that interested in her. She's pretty much labeled herself desperate in fun (something no one should do even if they're joking, in my opinion). Some guys say it's becasue she comes on too strong and some say she isn't that pretty.
Recently, this guy told one of my friends that he thought I was hotter than Angela. That friend told Angela and Angela hinted that she didn't understand why. When we're all together and I talk about how so-and-so might have been hitting on me, she agrees with everyone when they say that he probably was but I can kind of -sense- that "Yeah right" is on her mind.
For example, if a guy in our class talks to me a lot, the next day, she'll wear a more revealing sexy top to the same top and try to talk to him a lot.
I'm wondering what's going on with her. Does she think I'm ugly or something? Is it jealousy? Or she thinks I'm unattractive and doesn't think guys will like me? Is she competing with me? She doesn't do it with my other friends and they're prettier than me and have better bodies. I'm afraid that this thing will escalate and I'll lose her.
I need to know how to fix this- and also try to get her a boy friend because she really wants one too. I rate 5s.

wow that was pretty long.anywho...She`s probably really self confident. going from big to skinny in a summer time is a derrassic change. you have to stop judging her. becuase if that is your friend then you should except her as her. and she should do the sam thing to you` but like you said both of you have something that the other one wants. and that`s never easy to deal with. or to think that your friend is prettier then you. just talk to her. and let her know you love her` give it to her like it is. if she`s truly you`r friend she will listen to what you have to say. Oh and don`t focus so much on trying to find her a boyfriend, the right guy will find her. hope i helped [&hearts]Lej

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Ok... im 13/f and i weigh 170lbs yes i know im fat... but ive been losing a lot of weight.. but all my friends are tiny and i feel so selfconcence(SP) around them and like i feel like they talk about my weight when im not around(but i know they dont) i just feel like really fat... is there anyway that i cant just be not selfconcense around them and i can just be me without feeling fat.... im already on a really good diet so you dont have to tell me to get on a diet.. i need mental help on this 1 ... :'(

Babe all you have to do is tell yourself that if those people truly are your friends they wont care weather you`re skinny or fat, tall or short, they should love you for the person you are on the inside and not on the outside, because beauty is only skin deep and no` one has EVERYTHING no one has the looks, the attitude, the confidence, and all that jazz. don`t let anyone bring you down, you need to be who you know you are around your friends and if you`re not then they aren`t really you`r friends sweetheart!! good luck [♥]Lej

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How old Should a child be when they start dating?

a child, should know when they are ready to start dating. But you wood be able to see it in their attitude and in the way that they are conducting themselves [♥]Lej

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

No, The sperm wood die out. [♥]Lej

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ok i have a friend thats been through a lot & i dont wanna be friends with him anymore. hes always threatening to kill himself & pushes things on me & if i juss ignore him he'll do something really stupid & i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do. please give me some ideas.

thanks

Talk To Him About It ` Let Him Know That He`s Scaring You. And If It Continues to DO that You won`t wanna be friends with him. [♥]Lej

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