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too young ?


Question Posted Saturday April 8 2006, 5:58 pm

ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering.


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erythisis answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 5:05 pm:
I think "too young" is a short version of what they meant. I suggest asking them to explain why. Even if their reasons seem silly to you, try to understand where they're standing.
Aside from the basic lower ear, most piercings have the reputation as being part of rebellion and drug use. While there honestly isn't such a strong connection, that reputation could be the root of what your parents feel.
Legally, in many places, you are indeed too young to get a piercing without parental consent. If you are sure that you want this piercing, then you will have to prove to them that you have the maturity to handle it (that means no whining fits) and that things will be done safely.
Whatever happens, don't try to pierce yourself or let a friend do it. There are real dangers for getting pierced, especially if the place and needle are unsanitary.

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ShAnDi answered Monday April 10 2006, 11:10 am:
no way, 14 is like the right age to get it done

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evil-devil12 answered Monday April 10 2006, 7:33 am:
i dont think your too young! i know a girl who is 12 years old and she has her upper ear peirced ok maby THAT is too young but i dont think you are! it really dosnt matter! if you can handle the responsebility its gonna be fine!

loads of luck :-)

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IM_SO_HARDCORE answered Sunday April 9 2006, 11:32 pm:
i think that whenever your ready to take care of your piercings yourself, then your ready to get all the piercings you want. like if your parents cleaned your ears for you that would be different, but if your willing to take responsibilty for them, then your ready.

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fish34 answered Sunday April 9 2006, 12:35 pm:
No, I personally think it's just about the right age, but it depends on you and your parents, so if you're parents think that you're too young, I'd probably just listen to them and wait a bit.

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mansfieldbabe72 answered Sunday April 9 2006, 11:37 am:
i dont think so. alot of my friends are like 12 and 13 and they have their upper part of their ear pierced. I dont know if i would get it though, because it looks like it would hurt. Its you ear and tottally up to you though.

Hope I helped!
--Michelle

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GANGSTERx4SHURE answered Sunday April 9 2006, 11:10 am:
Well, I dont think its young at all!! I got my first holes when i was like 5 .. its deff. not too young ♥

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pplperson answered Sunday April 9 2006, 10:56 am:
no I got mine done at 10

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careless-fun answered Sunday April 9 2006, 10:33 am:
No, they are your ears.

edit: I meant since they are your ears you should be able to do what you want with them, including getting your upper ear pierced.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday April 9 2006, 1:19 am:
Nopers i surely don`t..

I got mine done at 12

♥Dez

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LEjLAXMAYAXMARiE answered Saturday April 8 2006, 11:52 pm:
in my opinion, not at all [<3;] Lej

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orphans answered Saturday April 8 2006, 11:47 pm:
no getting your ear picered at 14 is not to young my mom is a super up tight mom but i pirced my toung my carlige 4 holes at the bottem of my ear and my bellibuton all when i was 12 i pirced all of that by my self and i never took it out even when my mom tried every punishiment to try to make me take the earings out but i never did and she got use to them so my advice is your not to young

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itsz_JESS answered Saturday April 8 2006, 10:05 pm:
personally i dont think your too young for that.. i got mine done when i was like 12-13. but no your not too young for it! just ask them again and tell them that many other people your age have them

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Britchellex3 answered Saturday April 8 2006, 8:09 pm:
No I think your the perfect age, when I was 14 I already had my eyebrow and tongue peirced. They should be thankful thats all your asking to peirce lol.

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karenR answered Saturday April 8 2006, 7:52 pm:
I personally think you're old enough.

If it were your nose or tongue...or an even more painful place you were wanting to pierce I might have a problem with it. Upper ear though? Tell your parents there are a lot worse places to be pierced. Lucky for them you just want one in your ear! :)

Good luck. :)

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