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Boyfriend Problems
I am a 15 year old girl who is confused. Real rare huh lol. Anyway, my boyfriend is 17. he told me, the only girl he would go to prom with would be some really close friend who is,you guessed it, another girl. he kind of has a history with her. He's told me he's known her all his life.He also told me that he wouldn't go without my permission and he wouldn't try anything with her. I wouldn't believe this in a minute.I forgot to include that 15 year olds are allowed as long as their parents approve and sign some paperwork. Well that's besides the point. The fact that he said this kind of hurts. I really don't have any idea what to say to him. I like him a lot. I want to stay with him but not if he's going to say things like this. Should I confront him on it and if I do what should I say?
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well ease it on be like you know i like you but im not sure about you.are you cheeting on me.
and see what he says yet thats not always bullet proff you will never know if he is cheeting or not he may lie.the point of likeing someone is having there trust if you dont think hes being as loyal as you .you may REALLY like him but if your not sure then i would dumo him 1 its would save you a world of hurt if he is cheeting on you 2 well you may like him more then he likes you.
i dont want to sound mean and im only giving options dont jump to conclushoins that he is cheeting
i hope i helped
katie
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if you feel very strongly and your willing to say it online then say it to him he cnat read your mind and you should tell him its his right
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Yeah you should tell him how you feel.
After all, it's not like he can read your mind.
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I love when people complain about boyfriend problems and then ask whether they should tell them how they felt. Is your boyfriend a mind reader? The only way to let your boyfriend know how you feel is to tell him. From there, the two of you would need to discuss the situation openly, instead of making him out to be the bad guy for not knowing how hurt you were by what he did. He may not know why it would even make you hurt or upset, so in conclusion...YES!!! YOU NEED TO TELL HIM IF YOU WANT HIM TO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!!
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The ONLY girl he would go to prom with would be this girl that he's good friends with?? Why not you? Yall are a couple. Hell Naw he wouldn't be going wit some other girl when I was fully capable of attending this thing with him. I'd tell him Baby, I want to go to prom with you, my mom already said that she would sign the papers for me to go. If he ended up taking that girl I'd give him the boot!
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Oh wow. I can see why your confused.
First, if 15 year olds are able to be invited, why is he not taking you? Does he consider you his girlfriend or doesn't he? He would need a good answer to that one if he were mine.
The second thing is that he has at least told you of his plans. Were he up to no good he may have tried to get away with not saying anything.
Then again, he probably knows it would have gotten back to you.
See, I'm confused too!
If you really feel he may have some feelings for this other girl, then you need to have a long talk with him. See if there is some legitimate reason he feels the need to take her to the prom.
Is she ugly or something and can't get another guy to take her and he feels sorry for her? LOL, not funny, I know. But talk and find out his reasons before you chew on him. ;)
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