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ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!

plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!

~lila

ah wow that sounds horrible! im really sorry. You should talk to him since you love him and tell him that its not right because it isnt. you should never let a guy treat you like that no matter who he thinks he is and no matter how much you love him.and if you just ignore it then things will most likely get worse and worse.

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Okay so I used to cut myself, but I've gotten somewhat better now. I have gym tomorrow and the uniform is a t-shirt. I don't want anyone to see the scars/scabs on my arms and make a big deal. Can anyone tell me how to cover my arms in gym, without being really obvious? Please don't tell me to get help for cutting myself, I am in the process of doing so. Thanks so much, I'll rate high.

aweeee im sorry but dont cut your self its bad and it hurts alot um say your cold and wear a hoodie thats what i do & dont lift up your sleeves because some one will see ( it happend to me) good luck and i hope u stop cutting is so bad!!

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lol alright well i saw the ms.new booty video by bubba sparks and does anyone know where i can get them ms.new booty shorts

Try ebay lol =D

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What are some things a girl could do for a guy to give their relationship a push?

S-E-X , Trust me it will work =D

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ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering.

Well, I dont think its young at all!! I got my first holes when i was like 5 .. its deff. not too young ♥

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can someone tell me things that people do if they DONT go to college?? im just wondering, im debating weather to go to college or not, but i have no clue what id do if i didnt go?

You could always go to a tech school while your still in high school. It's like an alternative to college.For example you can be a certified nurse and things like that if you graduate from tech.But the best thing to do is to go to college. You've gotten this far already why just throw it all away now,you know?

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I like Hollister clothing but I also like Abercrombie and Fitch and i'm a guy but I don't know which one's better.. what do you think I should do when i'm at west county next time and I can't decide between which store?

Well,personally I think Abercrombie is better but everyone has their opinions.I think you should go to both and you could like spend half of your money at Hollister and the other half at Abercrombie since you like em both. I know thats what I'd do. Have fun =]

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I'm having a problem connecting to Warez P2P Client (the music download). It takes forever to connect, it doesn't do this all the time only sometimes.

I know there is nothing wrong with my internet connection because I can sign on AIM and use websites, only it takes Warez literally forever to connect. Has this happen to anyone else before, or am I the only one?

Also, if your only advice for me is to download Limewire, please don't even answer it.

Well I had Warez and that happened to me ALOT!! The thing that worked for me was to go on file or w/e and click disconnect while its trying to connect and then just clikc connect again and it should work! or just try to restart your computer that may help also.

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well i always keep touching myself i dont know what`s wrong or anything but it doesn`t itch or anything its just a habit is there anything wrong with me?

Well no nothings wrong with you. I guess your just a very horny person.Have fun,lol. =]

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i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo?

Well I have limewire and of course all of the downloading programs will give you spyware and stuff but if you have like norton anivirus then you should be fine that is what I have.When I had bearshare it messed up my wholee computer and it didnt even let me get on to it. I personally thing that limewire is better but if you dont like either of those then you should try out Warez I had it for a while and it works really well!

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Oh I'm sorry.They just leave stupid things like that but from now on i'll just reject it.//♥\\

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around what age is okay for a teenage girl to have sex?

Uhm its personally up to the girl when she wants to she can there is no specific age. //♥\\

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I'm going to meet my boyfriends parents and im SUPER worried cause i dont know how to act around them cause his family is really proper and mine well isnt...lol..if you could help me i would be soo gratefull..ill rate you a 5

Awe well you should just be yourself. You should act differently than you usually do.I mean they should like you or not like you for who you are. So try not to worry about it as much just be your self and it'll be fine. //♥\\

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my sitter hits me what should i do

Punch her in the face a couple of times.Trust me they learn quick,Have fun. //♥\\
P.S- It's a joke. Tell her to stop or somthing I dont know sorry.

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im not sure what to do about my friend she has starting having sex alot with her bf but wont take my advice on using protection she says he "doesnt like it that way" anyways how should i tell her that its not really safe, ive already told her all about STDs and she just wont listen im starting to worry about her...

If I were you,I'd threaten to tell her parents and see what they say about the subject. But seriously you should sit her down and have a good talk with her let her know all of the consequences and tell her that it doesn't matter if he likes it that way or not because she will go through the pain and everything else. And if hes like many of the guys I know he'd probably leave her so yea just talk to her and if she still doesn't listen then I guess you can't really do anything about it except hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. Good luck //♥\\

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Ok. Today I got shocked by like a 151 V. It didn't hurt but i was shaken it was my first time getting shocked.. and im still shaking from it.. very lightly. Im not hurt or anything but i still feel wierd..


Should I just let this pass overnight?

Yes! I deffinantly think you should just let it pass overnight.When I was in Germany I was about like 5 years old and I stuck a dart into the outlet and i got shocked and I tturned out just fine LOL! So dont worry, good luck //♥\\

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my sister is 7 and she keeps telling us that everyone at school is saying santa isnt real and she keeps saying i know hes real you guys would not lie to me and my mom doesnt want her to know the real truth how do i convince my mom to tell my sister before she gets really mad at both of us for lying?

Huh? Sorry I'm confused by this question. //♥\\

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I'm gay and i'm really not being accepted. Don't people undertstand i can be their friend without being attracted to them? thanks a whole lot

Awe!Wow that must be horrible.If I were in your shoes I'd flat out tell them that you can be their friend with out being attracted to them.Good luck.//♥\\

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I'm thinking about going punk-ish style but how do i confert slowly to punk without being called a poser? thanks

Well you should just take things slowly,like dont go dressing all black and stuff (its kinda scary if you ask me) but anyways its up to you if you want to be more punk then go for it dont worry about what people will say i dont think they'll call you a poser and it shouldnt matter even if they do. //♥\\

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around what age do you normally start your period?

Usually girls get their period around the age of 12 or 13. Some girls might even get it earlier or later.//♥\\

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