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age : 15
gender : female

its me again .. the one about the ex bf and goin to a movie .. well i went and we saw the movie and we didnt fight at all .. he was actually all over me .. and i was a little shaky about things .. i mean i told him a million times.. i dont want to be his booty call but he said im not .. we are just friends with benefits .. he said i wanted him and he wanted me .. whats the problem with that? well so we didnt really do much in the movie .. i had my hand in his pants for a little bit but didnt do anything .. and i kissed him .. then he was like you should sneak out tonight .. and i wanted to .. but didnt at the same time .. so me and my friend did sneak out and we had 3 guys come pick us up then they dropped me off at my ex's house .. we were gonna have sex i guess? but he didnt have a condom .. so we didn't .. we just fooled around a little bit.. and then i left.. but now i feel like he is just using me .. i mean we are getting along now .. we havent fought lately .. and we had a really good time .. i just wish we could be more then friends.. its clear to me that he still has feelings for me .. but i think he is afraid to let them take over .. i dont know what to about this? should i continue being .. his "booty call" or tell him that its all or nothing ?

P.S. this site is pretty awesome

you should definately go all or nothing. you shouldnt let him use you as if. "oh im bored tonight let me call her up" you have standards. you can still be 'friends with benefets' if he chooses nothing, or if you want continue to be his booty call, but you shouldnt concider it like that. i hope i gave you my points. good luck and i hope it works out.

Sincerely,
Just a Girl ♥

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I have a motorala phone I just recently got and whenever I cut it on it says SIM blocked...it is a Motorola V170...does anyone know how I can get it unblocked? If so please answer this question for me...I rate High!

that happened to my old phone. i had to get a new one. you must of did something to the security, its like 20 something buck to get it fixed though. good luck

Hope I Helped
Sincerely,
Just A Girl

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my mom wont let me have a boyfriend. im 12, going on 13 in march. all of my friends have boyfriends. could you help me convince her im old enough and mature?

Ive seen these questions all the time. You need to be responsible around your mom. Dont suck up, but be responsible. Help cook dinner, or go grocery shopping. when your mom is in a good mood and you two are together, approach her with the situation. Give her examples of how you have acted responsible towards her, and that you can handle a boyfriend. I dont really know what else to say. Maybe Everything I'm Not and Your Tragidy will give you better answers.

Sincerely,
Just a Girl


Hello! The best thing not to do is DO NOT go behind your mothers back. That is the worst, expecially if she finds out. Gain trust, and do things that will show that your responsible and can be trusted. Hope I helped!
Sincerly,
Your Tragedy

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so i have this b/f... who's absolutely amazing... but i've also got feelings for someone else,(who is a girl like meee) and she likes me back...but she lives really far away and i dont really know what to do... stay with the amazing boy or be with the awesome girl..

I cant really decise this for you. Youre going to have to go with your decision. It depends who treats you better. I would personally stay with the guy, because you are already with him, and you live close to him unlike with the girl. I hope i sortakinda helped, and i hope you make the best decision
Sincerely,
Just a Girl

Yah just like, just a girl, i/we cant make decision. It is yours, and ONLY your decision. Im guessing your bi? Which is not a problem. Who are you happy with? Who do you feel MOST comfortable around? Ask yourself questions like that, it may help. Hope i helped!
Good luck.
Sincerly,
Your Tragedy

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age : 15
gender : female

ok .. so i dated this guy for a long time, almost a year. and we broke up a few months ago. we don't talk as much anymore but occasionally he calls.. he wants me to go to the mall tonight and go to a movie with him.. i want to go, but last time he asked me to i went and it was horrible .. he treated me like crap the whole time .. and yes i overreacted over some things, but i dont want tonight to end up like last time. and if i do go .. and it starts going bad .. do i flip out or what?

If you still have feelings for him, even the tiniest bit, then go for it. If he treats you like crap again, ditch him. You need to show that you can be in control and that he cant walk all over you like that. dont let him do that to you. you should enjoy your time at the mall, and maybe something good would happen this time. Good Luck!

I hope i helped

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Does anyone have any websites that offer free website hosting? I just want something simple. Thanks.

xox Lance

www.freewebs.com

i've used it many times, its really simple and easy for first timers or advanced people.

Sincerely,
Just a Girl

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My old best friend (now were just friends) is flirting like CRAZY with the guy i like. ive liked him for just about forever. She knows i like him and i know that she doesnt like him more than a friend. I dont mind if she does it al little bit but shes just totally crossing the line. What do i do? i cant confront her with out me sounding like im jealous!! what do i do?

If you arent toally head over heels with him, then try to let it go. On the other hand if you dont want to let either go, then confront your friend about it, yes. and if you sound jealous, it is definately okay because if she was your real friend she would be sorry for making you jealous. Another thing you could do, which would make you sound less jealous, would be to say a little white lie. Such as, 'ugh you shouldnt hang out with him, he's not even nice.' don't go too over board, and dont start sounding mean.

I hope i gave some options that helped.
Good Luck!
Sincerely, Just A Girl

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can you think of a screenname i can use that has the word 'star' or 'wish' in it... please?

i'll rate 5s

STAR x
xx STAR
whis upon a star
wishinqSTARS x
STAR
STARS
shooting stars x

hope i helped!
sincerly,
your tragidy

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Hey everyone. For Christmas, I got the Sims 2 Computer Game. I was just wondering, do any of you have cheat codes so I can get more money? That'd be great, thanks.

Merry Christmas!

1. you can search online, theres TONS.
2. motherload helped, and rosebud

hope i helped.
sincerly,
your tragidy

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Your Tragidy, it is motherlode, not motherload, but its okay. this cheat gives you money, i think 50,000 at a time? im not sure. i also found this site;
http://www.gamespot.com/pc/strategy/thesims2/hints.html
hope i helped too
Sincerely,
Just a Girl

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okay so im 16 and iv had discharge ever since i got my period as a freshman. and i know its always sopose to be clear, but sometimes mine is more of a cream color, and sometimes brown. is that bad? and if you have a infection wat is the "smell?" thank you!

the brownish color is just discharge from after your period. your vagina is cleaning itself out, and thats the left over blood. the creamish color is normal.
hope i helped.
sincerly,
your tragidy

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Okay...i want some really good love songs. It would be best if they were by current artists, but if it's older thats fine. If anyone can give me this list quick and with good selections, i'll rate high

ahh okay, i have some. hope i helped.

always be my babe - mariah carey
L.O.V.E - ashlee simpson
let me hold you - bow wow
beautiful soal - jessie mcartney
with you - jessica simpson
you and i collide - howie day
i love you - martina mcbride
you and me - life house
stick with you - pussy cat dolls
if its lovin that you want - rihanna
shine on - ryan cabrera
my boo - usher and alicia keys


love,
your tragidy

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

well, you could do more things that will show your mom that you should be trusted. show her that you wont do anything bad and that she can trust you. maybe you have done something in the past that now she doesnt trust you because of it, and you need to gain your trust back by showing her that your responsible.
hope i helped!

Sincerely,
Your Tragidy


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I agree with your Tragidy. Show your mom that she can trust you. Also show her pros and cons of the situation, show her you know the benifets and consiquences of your situation, it will show your maturity. When you think she is pretty trusting of you, and she is in a good mood, approach her and tell her. (add in the pros and cons) tell her it has been going on for a little bit, and that nothing bad has happened. but try not to get too into that part, because she might get mad that you went behind her back. just go with the flow, and see what happens. Good luck!

Sincerely,
Just a Girl

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