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follow up... on boyss
age : 15
gender : female
its me again .. the one about the ex bf and goin to a movie .. well i went and we saw the movie and we didnt fight at all .. he was actually all over me .. and i was a little shaky about things .. i mean i told him a million times.. i dont want to be his booty call but he said im not .. we are just friends with benefits .. he said i wanted him and he wanted me .. whats the problem with that? well so we didnt really do much in the movie .. i had my hand in his pants for a little bit but didnt do anything .. and i kissed him .. then he was like you should sneak out tonight .. and i wanted to .. but didnt at the same time .. so me and my friend did sneak out and we had 3 guys come pick us up then they dropped me off at my ex's house .. we were gonna have sex i guess? but he didnt have a condom .. so we didn't .. we just fooled around a little bit.. and then i left.. but now i feel like he is just using me .. i mean we are getting along now .. we havent fought lately .. and we had a really good time .. i just wish we could be more then friends.. its clear to me that he still has feelings for me .. but i think he is afraid to let them take over .. i dont know what to about this? should i continue being .. his "booty call" or tell him that its all or nothing ?
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you should definately go all or nothing. you shouldnt let him use you as if. "oh im bored tonight let me call her up" you have standards. you can still be 'friends with benefets' if he chooses nothing, or if you want continue to be his booty call, but you shouldnt concider it like that. i hope i gave you my points. good luck and i hope it works out.
Sincerely,
Just a Girl ♥
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