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I love to help people. I would love to give you all advice but first you have to ask me a question!!!!!!!!!!! I might just be 13 but I do have a lot of wisdom because wierd and common things happen to me all the time. I know you are thinking that i am not good enough but if you ask a question and don't like the answer you get just email me and I will try to improve. Thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, I am from Spokane, WA and am a girl (duh)AND YOU CAN TELL ME ANYTHING. I want to become a fashion designer but it isn't just because it sounds cool but because i love to be unique and I know everything about fashion. Sure, go ahead, ask me something and you will be satisfied!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Topic: Colors
Try to put complimentary colors together when you are layering, such as:
Pink-Lime Green
Purple-Yellow
Blue-Orange
Red-Green
White-Black
I get lots of compliments when i wear colors like that because they look so good together
That is my weekly advice. Hope it helps!!!!!

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My parents won’t let me go out at night or with my guy friends. And this is what all my friends are doing so night after night I’m finding myself at home playing chess with my little brother. This is not how 10th grade is supposed to be. How do I get my parents to loosen up? Also they won’t let teenagers drive me places. How do I convince them that this is ok? And how do I get them to trust me with more freedom? (link)
I think that you shouldn't argue and do the things they ask and if they start saying that you are reponsible then you can type up a little note and present it to them after dinner. I tried it with my independence and my parents trust me completely now but if you screw up you won't have their trust for very long

Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!


14/f
Hi, my name is Ali. My mom is taking me to a hair salon to get my highlights touched up. I have dirty blonde hair and blonde highlights. Could someone please give me ideas on what else I could do to my hair. Like maybe dye it or add different color highlights. If you want a picture of me just ask.

thanks in advance =) (link)
sure you can send me your picture at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com but from the sound of it i think you should go with light blonde and brown highlights that contrast your natural color. Pleaz send me your pic. Thanx

Hope that helped!!!


I want my hair to be less frizzy and big..what can I do?
I have to get a hair cut and get more layers since parts of my hair are dead. I've tried using gel and hairspray but it makes my hair curly.. And that just makes it more frizzier than it was before. I dont know what to use. Is there some product or hair treatment that I can do? It seems like if I try to straighten my hair..it'll poof up. >__ (link)
THere is this system that i use called SILKY, SEXY HAIR and it is really really good....great!!!!If you buy the whole system then it comes with conditioner and shampoo and another things that makes you hair frizz-free and shiny and smooth. I thought that there would be no hope for me until my mom bought that for me. you should try.


Lauren O'Shea
Spokane, WA
Salk Middle School


I don't know if anyone could possibly give me any tips but .. everytime I curl my hair, I part my hair into two parts on each side of my neck. The right side always looks perfect but, for some reason, the left side always comes out flat with a little bit of curl to it - not like the ringlets that come out on the right side. Is there anything special I can do to prevent this? (link)
If you part you hair to the right then it is b/c it is the underlayer and there isn't enough hair to look as full as the other side. If you part it in the middle then i am not quite sure what the problem is. Sorry i couldn't help that much but i hope i did ok. Thanks

Gossip_Girl


My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He always compliments me and is very good to me. My problem is that I feel funny undressing in front of him and I can't wear sexy nighties in front of him. I have a very low self-esteem. When I look in the mirror, I see fat. I want to be able to wear sexy things for my boyfriend and feel good about myself. What can I do??

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YOu just have to remember that he loves you and he will love if you wore nighties. He won't care. He loves you if you have been together for 2 years. I say, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!! I hope that helped.


Does anyone know where I could find some comforters for a teenager? My moms been bugging me for so long about this and I've already seen MACYS.COM, JCPENNYS.COM AND SEARS.COM and i cant find anything that i like! Help please? (link)
I have good luck at Wal-Mart, Target, and Bed Bath and Beyond!!!!


My parents never let me, nor take me to get my hair cut. I want bangs so bad, so im thinking about cutting them myself. I have the proper scissors for it, I just need like on strand. But i dont know how to do it and i dont want to screw my hair up. Any tips on how to do it nicely? (link)
Listen to your parents but if you think it is ok then you just need to cut them a little at a time b/c you can always cut more but you can't add hair so be careful. Don't cut a ways back just a little in the front and if you part your hair to the side do it at a slant and on one side only the side that the hair is brushed over to. If you want your bangs in front across your forhead then don't cut them too short. Rate me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening
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I am being serious here so don't feel offended. you might be a lesbian or just want to feel intense and want things. Lots of girls at your age feel this way but i haven't felt that at all but you are not alone. It is really hard to admit it and about 75% of all 13-15 year olds feel that way. So don't worry and please rate me


i know it's early to be worrying about this, but having an idea will help me sleep at night. really. haha.

i've been with my boyfriend for two months now. i've never had a boyfriend for valentine's day. do i give him anything? if so, what?

also, what would you expect to get FROM a guy?

thanks so much. (link)
It is always different what a guy gives but they give really sweet gifts. Try to get him something like a chocolate bar or a box of chocolate or maybe a teddy bear. You can't go wrong with any of those. He will get you jewelery or chocolate or a teddy bear or flowers most likely. But it is the thought that counts!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I like my best friend more than a friend...is this bad?
P.S.-were both girls... (link)
Tell her and if she freaks out then that is good b/c you know how she feels but if she doesn't freak out then just talk through it. THis isn't bad. Are you a lesbian or are you not sure.


alright i didnt know what to put this under. But im going back to school tomorrow and vacations over :-(....for the past week i have been staying up late and sleeping in late like...like id go to bed at 1:30 and than wake up at 12..well now that schools starting i need to go to bed early but im not going to be tired...what are some good tips to fall asleep earilier?

ILL RATEE ! (link)
i think about shopping and having live 10,00 dollars to spend and i fall aspleep surprisingly fast.


i have a boyfriend right now for a month [in 3 days] and i feel like i like him a lot more than he likes me. the other day he broke up with me and i was like 'fine you never liked me anyway' and he said 'yes i did and i still do but whatever' after talking for like 2 seconds he called it off and we are still together. I hate being the one to like give-in in a relationship. I dont want to always worry that hes going to break up with me. I dont want to wrry about it all the time i want him to like me more than i like him!

any advice? i mena i know i/you cant change how he thinks but i dont know. thank you! (link)
I think that you should just tell him how much you like him and try to get him to open up. If not tell him how you feel again and maybe he will change.


I have a HUGE problem it all started on New Years.....well my mom and aunts and cousins all went out for new years eve and me amanda and a girl named katie from Iowa stayed at my cousin kristies house and she didnt tell her mom (my aunt) she bought some vodka for us and us all three got wasted and stoned off our asses and katie called some of her GUY friends to come over to my cousins house and one of our girls was left out (amanda) and katie and i got the two guys and i got the 17 year old and she got the 16 year old and they were sooo hott especially the 17 year old and i feel really bad because i cheated on my boyfriend but the thing is we barely even talk or communicate so it doesnt even feel like we are going out......i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him because i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE the 17 year old and he asked me to be his girl and i said YES....Please anyone tell me what i should do..because i did stuff with the 17 year old.......

P.S. im 15 1/2 (female) (link)
I think you should tell your boyfriend that you don't like him that much anymore and tell him why and then he won't worry and you won't feel guilty. Only dump him if you are sure that you like the 17 year old more. Rate me!!!!!! I hope that i helped.


*Gossip_Girl*


What hair color do you think looks best with pale white skin and freckles? (link)
I think that all colors look good but with pale skin than i wouldn't go for dark brown or black. I would either say a light brown a dark blonde or a strawberry blonde. No other colors look hot with freckles and pale skin. Thanx


I am a boy and i am not sure if cooking is gay or not because i love to cook but my friends tease me but not the mean kind of tease but i still don't know. Do you?????????? (link)
No, you love something than you go all the way. If doesn't matter what people think about that b/c sooner or later they are going to forget about it.


i have a brother and he tells me what he thinks and like when i am running home from school then he says that i don't have to do that and i look stupid but he is nice he just wants me to be normal and he is really shy. Is that normal for an older brother?????? (link)
That is normal they just think that their way is the best way but that is completely normail i have a brother JUST like that!!!!!!!


My friend got the Pussycat Dolls cd this x-mas and she said it is good but would you recommend it. Does it have like a lot of bad words. Like 50 in the whole cd b/c otherwise i will get it????? (link)
Well i am listening to the cd right now and it is awesome. It has some bad words but not even 20 so it is a really good cd. Try it and you will love it!!!!!!!


So basicly sense I was little ive been vergbaly and physicly abused.. and I really cant take it anymore I have gotten to the point i feel so low about myself I could crawl in a corner and hide for ever. I have reported my parents and so have other people but nothing has happend. What should I do now?

Someday something will happen and no one will be able to fix it. Im scared (link)
Report them as much as you can because you can't do anything else. Just keep trying. If you stop trying then nothing will ever happen. Try and Try again because it would be better then what you are going through right now. Rate me please and when you get a response on the abuse please email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com

Thanx- *Gossip_Girl*


I get really bad headaches all the time..i take advil and they go away..should i go to a doctor and see if there is anything wrong with me?


14/f is that helps (link)
if you haven't had your period then maybe because of that you are getting it. IF you have it maybe that is just a symptom. Also stress causing bad headaches. You should go to the doctor if you can and just tell him that stuff. Hope that helped and please rate me.


i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
Yes you need to tell your mom and get help because life gets you down a lot and sometimes for a long period of time but it will be the end of the world for you. You should think about what would happen if you did die. your friend would be so sad and miserable herself and your bf would be miserable too. Your parents and siblings (if you have any) will be depressed and their lives would be ruined. So you aren't just ruining your life you are ruinging it for the ones you love. YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR MOM AND GET HELP RIGHT AWAY. Otherwise it is not happy times from here on out!! You did a good thing getting advice!!! I hope that helped and don't do it. That isn't worth ruining everyone's life , but most importantly yours. Think about the results and effects. Email me with your desision whatever it is. I would like to know email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com

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