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Desires to feel more confident and sexy about self
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He always compliments me and is very good to me. My problem is that I feel funny undressing in front of him and I can't wear sexy nighties in front of him. I have a very low self-esteem. When I look in the mirror, I see fat. I want to be able to wear sexy things for my boyfriend and feel good about myself. What can I do??
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♥ Babe, d on't worry too much about this. Your Obviously beautiful if your boyfriend has been with you for 2 years and is treating you like the best since the begining. Beauty comes within. There are not many girls like that around. All girls are fake with all the makeup they wear and the starving they do. lol You have come across a very lucky guy and keep hold of that! The last person you should be worried about is your boyfirend judging you. He obviously loves you then cares about what you wear at night.
Reply and tell me if this makes you feel any better about everything!
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YOu just have to remember that he loves you and he will love if you wore nighties. He won't care. He loves you if you have been together for 2 years. I say, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!! I hope that helped.
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My girlfriend can sometimes feel that way..take it from me, I love every part of her body, and I find it difficult to keep my hands off of her..Most men feel the same way about their girlfriends, especially after dating 2 years like in your case..dont believe? take your pants off in fron of him, take a look at his crotch, and you will notice that he does indeed find you hot as hell
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You see what he doesn't. Where you see fat, maybe he sees, "Goddamn, I love her ass." If he's been with you for two years and DOES compliment you, he's a good boy. Go shopping with him and have HIM pick out something HE thinks is sexy on you. That way when you put it on, you're guaranteed to have him reassure you.
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I think that you should buy sexy underwear or a sexy nightie and look at yourself in it. I mean really look at yourself, be truthful! Your obviously not fat and if you are then your boyfriend totaly digs it so just go for it. Sexy underwear is designed to make you feel and look sexy, and it works. Don't worry about your weight though, you just need to find a way to be confident with yourself. Get your boyfriend to help you by sexy underwear shopping! Its a great thing and you never know, it could make your self-esteem much higher!
Good Luck hun... your gorgeous so make the most of it!
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Well you could try putting on a sexy nighty without him being there. Do this for awhile until you feel comfortable doing it in front of him. Take a little time and soon you'll be able to to undress in front of him and wear sexy nighties. I hope I helped.
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