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I cheated
I have a HUGE problem it all started on New Years.....well my mom and aunts and cousins all went out for new years eve and me amanda and a girl named katie from Iowa stayed at my cousin kristies house and she didnt tell her mom (my aunt) she bought some vodka for us and us all three got wasted and stoned off our asses and katie called some of her GUY friends to come over to my cousins house and one of our girls was left out (amanda) and katie and i got the two guys and i got the 17 year old and she got the 16 year old and they were sooo hott especially the 17 year old and i feel really bad because i cheated on my boyfriend but the thing is we barely even talk or communicate so it doesnt even feel like we are going out......i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him because i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE the 17 year old and he asked me to be his girl and i said YES....Please anyone tell me what i should do..because i did stuff with the 17 year old.......
P.S. im 15 1/2 (female)
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i think you should go out w/ the 17 year old because like you said you dont talk much with your real boyfriend
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dreamist16
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Okay. First off, please dont do that again. I'm sure no one wants to see you dead, including me (and I don't even know you.) Second of all, you are in a toughy that has an easy solution. Since you are now dating this 17 year old, you are stuck with him and have to break up with your old boyfreind. Unless you break up with the 17 year old and continue going out with your old boyfriend. Or.. you could break up with both of them (I suggest that one)
You need to decide who you like better. And then go out with that one and break up with the other one.
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Well, the first question you gotta ask yourself is...who do you wanna be with? It sounds to me like the 17 year old, so if that's the case then break up with your boyfriend. And you better hope that if you stay with your boyfriend you a)hope he never finds out you cheated and b)don't talk to the 17 year old. But if you stay with your boyfriend, you will have to tell him sooner or later that you cheated. Your better off breaking up with your boyfriend, and being with the 17 year old. Also, if you do that, you have a choice either tell your boyfriend you cheated or not. Cause you guys could still be friends or whatever, but it really sucks when your boyfriend finds out 5 months later that you cheated...yea I SHOULD KNOW!!!! So, I really hope my advice helps you! RATE PLEASE!
*~*XOXO*Becky aKa Lil QT*XOXO*~*
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I'd say that you should break up with your bf. If he ever found out that you cheated on him, I think that it'd hurt him much more if you two were still going out than if he found out after it was all over. He doesn't even pay attention to you, so I'd say dump him.
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I think you should tell your boyfriend that you don't like him that much anymore and tell him why and then he won't worry and you won't feel guilty. Only dump him if you are sure that you like the 17 year old more. Rate me!!!!!! I hope that i helped.
*Gossip_Girl*
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hey! well if you hardly ever talk to your current boyfriend... then you should break up! and if you reaaaaaaaally like the 17 year old (which it sounds like you do) then go for it! what a relatioship if you never talk to your boyfriend anyways! and does your bf know you cheated on hiM?! would he want to be togther after you cheated on him anyways! since you dId hook up with him the first night you met him... be careful.. sometimes when you hook up with a guy right away.. they think your skanky or do that all the time.. which is definately not yOu! so make sure he wants to be with you for all of the rifht reasonS! bUuUT haha.. anyways... go for tHe 17 year oLd! older guys are the best! ;) hahah!
good luck!
xOxO, aL
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it sounds like you would rather be with the 17 year old so i say go out with him...if you and your current boyfriend barely talk there really isnt a point to be going out with him anyways...i say move on to the 17 year old, but it wasnt too great to cheat
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