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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo
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I want to start of with the fact that you are not invisable, but you are making yourself seem that way. I bet that your family, friends, and boyfriend love you very much and would suffer the pain of loss if you did commit suicide. Please tell your parents or even a school counselor so you can get help. Instead of cutting yourself, try writing in a journal or drawing those pictures. It seems as if you draw the pictures your stress is a little relieved and it helps a little. Tell someone and tell them everything. Don't be shy about what you should say. Sit down with the parent/guardian that you talk to more and explain to them what is going on. Say, " Mom, I have been feeling very deperessed lately. I feel as if death is the only way out and I am asking for your help." I know that it will be hard because I had to do the same thing but thankfully I am now happy and relieved that someone on here saved my life and I hope i can do the same for you.
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Yes you need to tell your mom and get help because life gets you down a lot and sometimes for a long period of time but it will be the end of the world for you. You should think about what would happen if you did die. your friend would be so sad and miserable herself and your bf would be miserable too. Your parents and siblings (if you have any) will be depressed and their lives would be ruined. So you aren't just ruining your life you are ruinging it for the ones you love. YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR MOM AND GET HELP RIGHT AWAY. Otherwise it is not happy times from here on out!! You did a good thing getting advice!!! I hope that helped and don't do it. That isn't worth ruining everyone's life , but most importantly yours. Think about the results and effects. Email me with your desision whatever it is. I would like to know email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com
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"do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help?"
Come on now, don't jerk me around. You already know the answers to those questions. If you honestly didn't know, you wouldn't be on this site. Cliche but true, this is a cry for attention. Hopefully you can realize that and do something positive for yourself by seeking for help.
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Your situation really depends on how you view life. Why should you bother getting an education or a job if no matter what you do, you're only going to die in the end?
The way I see it, after you die, there is absolute nothingness. Your mind will no longer function, and any "soul" you may or may not have will cease to exist. There is no heaven or hell. There is nothing but an eternity of unconsiousness. So why not utilize the time you have on Earth to get to know people, to experience new things, to have fun, and just to live life.
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ok.. You reely should talk to your mom and if you don't fell comfortable talking to her maybe you can ask her to bring you to a therapist. I went to one once but it was because of my parents devorce. it really helped. Its someone who you can just talk to. you realy shouldnt let a weapon ruin your life. suicide sucks!!! one of my friends commited suicide and i really miss her. you said you have a boyfriend. dont u think i would miss you? your mother , your family? if you think your life should end what about theres when your gone? i really think you should talkk 2 someone so you can straighten your life up. good luck and think about the ones you love.
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ok ok stop!!! you have to think about other people for a second ok your mom your dad your boyfriend people who are innocent ...they will see u dead and look back at every mean thing they ever said to you and think"this is my fault" some people might even kill themselves after you...you will reuin their lives on the way ...you seem thatt you have a great life why throw it away when people who have horriable lives are being strong to keep themselves alive...you said that u drew nice well what you have to do know is...draw instead of pictures of death pictures of your true talent you never know you can be the next leonardo di vinci(im not calling you a dude dont worry) ..just stay strong because people like me who have worse then you will ever get it are surviving by their own selves be independent...you have only one true friend doent take tht for granted and be a true friend back...hope i helped..
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Dear invisable girl,
According to my health book, the concept of health requires a balance of five components: physical health, meantal health, emotional health, social health and spiritual health.
I am not a psychiatrist so I cannot judge whether there's something wrong with you or it's just a phase.
Many teens, including myself, have dark thoughts every once in a while. Some thoughts include suicide.
So I want you to ask yourself: Am I really healthy?
Killing yourself won't solve anything. Maybe you think it's gonna rid you of any suffering, but it would be selfish because a lot of people love you and care about you and it would hurt them deeply. In my religion, we believe that people who take their own lives end up in hell.
So do you really want to end your suffering on Earth and suffer in the afterlife instead?
My cousin is taking these pills that renew the skin layers (she has ACNE), and one of the side effects is depression.
So here's another question for you: are you taking any pills? If you are, you should read the paper that comes with it, because maybe these pills are the cause of all this.
This is either an excess in some hormone OR you're not mentally and emotionally healthy.
Having a friend you can depend on is worth millions, so you can talk to your friend, or your mother or your boyfriend. I believe your mother would be the best person to talk to at this stage.
I really recommend you try chocolate, as in, pure chocolate. Chocolate is every woman's best friend.
And spiritually, I recommend yoga classes. Trust me, meditating helps a lot.
If you think none of this would help, I suggest you pay a visit to a psychiatrist.
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Don't kill yourself. My uncle did, and ALL his familyy/friends think it's their fault. and it's notttt. you have WAYYYY more life to live. and you should live it to the fullesttttt. id you ever neeed to talk IM me hunn. xkissmefast orrrrr just call mee. 4845574892 just dont kill yourself. please?
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Life is good and there's nothing in life worth killing yourself over. Just take big deep breaths, lay down, be calm, and get everything off your mind. Just think that you love your family and boyfriend. Don't kill youself. You have to much to live for. Just think about all the people that love you and care about you and will cry when you die. You will feel better about yourself when you are happy with your family and have fun almost everyday. By the way, I am 8 years old and LIFE IS GOOD!!!!!!
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i know what your going through i have the same problem i have been cutting for almost 3 years but i got help at first i felt like no one understood what i was going through but now i have talked to peaple that went through the same thing i still think about death alot but recently stopped cutting maybe you should talk to someone that is going through the same thing as you
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its okay everybody feels this way sometimes i do the same thing i will just cry and nothing is really wrong except for im unhappy... its just emotions but cutting is serious and counciling isnt a bad option... maybe you're just feeling like nothing in the world is worth living for and there's no reason for you to be on earth because i've felt the same way before the best way to handle it is counciling and maybe talking to somebody like a close friend and if you're mom is understanding then talk to her about it she will try to help you out and im sure your friends and boyfriend and family will support you and try to figure out why you're so upset with yourself but you have to talk to somebody hope i helped
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it sounds to me like you suffer from a pretty significant form of depresion. i kno what that is like i have it also. what you need to do is consult this with your parents or if your comfortable with it. a doctor, so you can get the help you need . if you have a TRUSTWORTHY! (cant stress that enough) friend talk it all out with them, it helps to getit out of your system and if all else fails, ask you parents about medication, i no it sounds weird...like the "happy pill" but this might be needed since some peoples brains dont generate enough ....ummm..forgot that the hell they are called and they make you happy bt some people dont make enough of them and that is how depression sits in. well i really hope this helps you ! bye
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What you need is help like talking to a therapist or a psychiatrist they will ask you questions like how do you feel,how do you see yourself,why do you think of that yourself,jut the things you tell them on paper, and this will help you a lot.But before you need to tell this to your mom first and you need all the support right now from the people that love you such as your family.Don't think of killing yourself if you were born it's for a reason, to be alive,have a good health is great, and think of those who will suffer if you suicide yourself.
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Hey, I'm sorry to hear that you feel this way and im sure that all you've heard so far is DON"T. Im here to tell you the same thing but i also want to tell you a story. My friend killed himself on the 5th and it has been the hardest month EVER for me. Not only was his taking his life selfish, it was a waste. Much like you, he was an excellent artist and also used. It hurt EVERYONE who ever knew him. Think of how your mother would feel. OR how your father would feel. Would your younger siblings feel abandoned and afraid? YES, they would. Don't think about "why not?". Every one has these feelings and its okay to feel that way. I went thru a phase like that. In the end i realized that its all worth it. JUst because you have a bad day or things aren't going your way its not an excuse to kill your self. I think that you should tell your mom. At least ask for her advice and if she thinks you need professional help she will help you. If she loves you as much as you make it sound then she will be scared for you but she will be your backbone in this great time of need and stick by your side the whole time. Please don't feel like all hope is gone or that no one needs you. If you EVER need to talk do not hesitate to email me at caitlin9129008@aim.com. Im always here if no one else is. Okay? Stay strong sweetie and don't give up. ITS ALL WORTH IT. At my friends funeral they said something that has touched my heart. It was,
Moving on is simple;
Its what you leave behind thats hard.
Do you want those who care for you to go thru that kind of pain and struggle?
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Invisible girl,
I think you do need help... cutting is an addiction that is VERY hard to stop... to try to stop yourself from cutting use the rubberband trick.. That is when you have a rubberband on your wrist and when you want to cut yourself just snap the rubberband...But that might not help so...If you like drawing.. draw pictures every time you want to cut ... i mean i could scare you loookiing at these pictures of death but it might keep you from cutting.. btu it will keep the thought of death on your head.... you need to tlak to your 1 true friend about this... try to find a hobby... you can also try to write poetry when you are depressed... BUT!! i do think that if your situation gets worse you need to tell an adult and they will help you.. i kno telling an adult is the last thing you want to do so i owuld try ti tlak to a friend first .. tell her what has been going through your head and mabey she can work ti all out with you... btu i do advice you to only tell the 1 dependable friend because if word getsout about all of this then oit will only get worst.. but if you really feel that one of these days you will try to kill yourself i will not wait for that day i would tell someone ASAP!! PLEASE BE CARFUL
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I think you have an addiction to cutting. It's something that some people just can't help, or stop. If I were you, I'd just say to my mom "I'd like to talk to a psychologist or counselor. I think there's something wrong with me." It's something that only you can control. No one else can make you stop, they can only help. Try throwing razors, knives, etc. away and keeping pills out of your reach. Once you get control of your actions, you should be able to control your emotions. Sorry if this isn't enough help for you. If there's anything else you are concerned about, you can ask me other questions. If friends can't help you, I'm here for you to talk to. Hope things get better for you.
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