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Every month when I get my period I never know when its coming so I almost ALWAYS stain my underwear. Is there anyway I can stop this or figure out when its going to come?

-Thanks. (link)
Maybe you should keep track of how many days goes between you period each month. You know like count the days from your last period to the one that is coming and take it from there. Then make an estimated week or 3 days or so that you don't stain your underwear. Wear light panty liners around that time.


so there is this guy, and he had liked me for 3 years. I never really cared and just went to a bunch of diffrent guys and would always go back to him when things went wrong (so i kinda took advantage of him) then we all went to Jr.high, and now he has all these new freinds who all hate me. we didnt talk for a while but now we talk more and im starting to really like him but he doesnt like me and says i made him hurt somuch and now he just doesnt htink it will work out, but now i really want him back and stuff and i dont know how to change what happend before..any ideas on to sorta make it work between us? (link)
You really hurt him and expect him to take you back. That is not going to work out. Maybe you should pull him aside and ask him and try to convince him that you really love him. Tell him you made a mistake in the past and that you want to change that. Tell him you understand that you hurt him but it hurt you as well.


I have liked this boy off and on for about 3 years. The thing is he lives in another state, i see him almost every holiday because he is my neighbors nephew. We were going to date until we got into an argument and he called me some horrible names. I really like him again but i dont know if he likes me, he kept staring at me at my neighbors new years party but im really confused. Whats your advice?? (link)
He likes you, my opinion. The reason he was staring at you is because he might have felt bad for calling you those names and he is trying to figure out a way to appologize and get you're attention. I am not sure ife he knows that you like him or not but if he doesn't say so. The arguement thing is normal, try to forget about that and just come up and talk to him about something random.



Im 98 pounds, but Im small, too. Im about 5'0. So thats normal right? But, I feel like I look overweight. Everyone in my school makes fun of me (in a nice way?) and is like "omg, you get everything because your a stick." or they'll be like "did you eat today?" I eat ALL the time. But I feel like I look fat. When I look in the mirror, I see a pudgy face, big stomach and huge thighs. I dont know WHAT to do. Ive never acted on it but today in math (I was bored, lol) I pushed my tongue to a point below my moler. It made me throw up a little but i swallow & no one noticed. Then, when I got home I did it again. Im afraid of it spiraling into something more serious what do i do!? (link)
For some strange reason the "pushing your tongue to a point below your moler" sounds gross and funny at the same time but it's bad so don't do it. You're not fat so somehow tell yourself your not. You are normal weight. I think I am fat but like you my peers seem to think otherwise. I am 5'2 and I weigh 105 lbs. Typical teen weight. People are telling you that you look great and you should take that as a compliment.



i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......

plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...

siqned,
love sick puppy (link)
If you don't tell him, you will end up doing something you are not ready for. If you don't tell him, how will he know how you feel. Also, if you don't tell him there is no trust in your relationship which is hard to deal with later on when you two get into arguements. I believe you should tell him what is on your mind and if he loves you he will understand and try to space the things you do out so he is not rushing.



why does everyone look at a teen having a baby like the end of the world for them. i mean i know its hard but I've seen tons of people work through it,and live successful lives. so its a challenge. but worse can happen. i mean if the person can be a good monther and somehow support herself and her child isnt that enough? (link)
That has always been a question that bothered me. When a girl is youn (under 21) she is not mature and smart enough to know what is good for her let alone baby. I am not saying that she does not or will not love her baby, I am saying she has to figure out what decisions are right for her and work on that before rushing into making her childs life miserable.


im into rock music. fall out boy, taking back sunday, halifax, hellogoodbye, panic! at the disco, etc. and i just got a new ipod. can someone suggest songs? thanks! (link)
Bands I like and you might too.

-->> Afi
Atreyu
Avenged Sevenfold
Beastie Boys
Blink 182
Branw New
Breaking Benjamin
Chevelle Silverstein
Shadows Fall
Cake
Dashboard Confessional
Disturbed
Eve 6
Godsmack
Greenday
Good Charlotte
Hawthorne Heights
Hoobastank
Incubus
Interpol
Jack of Jill
Jet
Jimmy eat world
Jimmy Fallon
Korn
Linkin Park
Red Hot Chilli Peppers
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Slipknot
Story of the year
Stray Cats
Stray Light run
Sonic youth
Sugar cult
Switchfoot
Taking Back Sunday
The Killers
The offspring
The White Stripes
The Used
Three Days Grace
Thursday
Trapt
Weezer
Smile Empty Soul
Sum 41
Yellowcard
Sublime
System of a Down
Lost Prophets
Metallica
Maudvayne
Muse
New Found Glory
Papa Roach
Nirvana


what exactly does corny mean?
my friends say all the time oooh he's so corny, thats so corny.
what is corny???

also can you give examples

thanks (link)
corny can mean geeky like some one can say wow his pants r so corny or skeet or something like that



I like this one guy, & he flirts with me. But he is also a huge flirt with other girls. [ He has alot of girl friends] & Everytime he says something sweet to me, I fall harder for him.Does he like me ,or is he just being nice?
I know this may sound stupid, but advice would be nice (link)
I am sorry to say this, he does not like you. If he has mutiple girlfriends then he doesn't care about them he just likes hurting other girls and have all attention on him. You should try ignoring him and forget about him. It will be hard but he is not worth your heart being broken.



I'm friends with a married couple. We've been friends for about 3 years. I am single but a christian who is saving herself for marriage. Well recently I had ran into the husband of this married couple and he told me that he struggles with pornography. I was pretty shocked and thought that it should be something he should be telling his wife before me. He also told me what bad taste his wife had and that he wished he were single.
Other people who are friends with him have told me that he is always yelling at his wife and saying she's "a stupid woman" behind her back. I have another female friend who's told me that he's come on to other woman and even asked someone to bed. She refused because she knew he was married. I've also heard he's really wild with some of his friends and frequents the porn shops, gets stoned AND drunk then roars around on his motorbike.
I'm pretty disgusted with him, and really don't want to be his friend anymore. But the problem is what is his wife going to think? What should I tell her when she asks why I don't want to do things with them anymore? When I first met him he said he was a born again christian and that he hated porn and drugs. What a lyer.
from confused (link)
Tell his wife what is going on. If she does not believe you, gather a few people who have said those things to you. It is a horrible thing for a husband to be cheating on his wife, and I think that he is begining to do this. His wife deserves to know. So one day sit down with them and ask him to tell her the truth, if someone doesn't do this she will suspect something is going on between you and her husband. Then it will become a bigger problem.



How do you get rid of blackheads? (link)
Buy the Black head scrub thing.


hello everyone for collage i have to read a short story called the buffaloes. I honetsly do not understand the meaning of the story in order to wrote the conclusion let alone the whole easy i have to write! I have the story saved so if anyone has ever read the story or wants to read it and give it a try please give me your sn and i will im you! Thank you. This is very important (link)
Mkay, I think i want to read this story. My screen name is Xx Dina OOXX.


does anyone know haw much a punching bag costs. the kind on a heavy stand thing, like a ball on a stick. thankies (link)
http://www.9thstreetgym.com/jump.jsp?itemID=694&itemType=HOME_PAGE

http://www.karatedepot.com/punchingbags.html

http://store.titleboxing.com/punching-bags.html

Try that.


There's this guy that works with me at the store and I'm worried that he has a crush on me. I'm flattered but I'm worried because he is only 17 and I'm 28.

I don't think he knows I'm that old, everyone at the store thinks I'm still a student, or under 20. I have a very young looking face.

He's a nice boy and I like talking with him but I'm worried it may cause a problem, like what if he really falls for me? The other thing is I don't flirt with him like some of the girls, I'm just friendly and helpful, which is maybe why he likes me because I'm different from the other younger girls. Today there was a problem with an item not scanning and he came up to me. he's a price checker and I work in the clothing. I fixed the problem and after he said to me "oh you REALLY helped us out", with a shy smile on his face. I've also noticed other times he's looked at me or was extra nice to me.

What should I do? I want him to like me but not THAT much. (link)
You are being too nice and if you talk to him too much he will think that you have feeling for him too. Get into the conversation of age and tell him how old you are. Ask him if he could see any of the ladies at the store as girlfriends.



what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks (link)
Friends with benefits don't have any more feeling then friendship but they do flirt and show sexual affection. A boyfriend and a girlfriend is a couple who intrest in each other and wish to know each other more.


hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx (link)
Your boyfriend should always know what is going on in the relationship. If you don't then your trust is broken and if you don't have trust in your relationship your boat is sinking. If he loves you he will understand and appriciate you telling him.



whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye (link)
It doesn't matter who you date. Just as long as they are not too old ( more then 6 years difference.)It also depends on if he likes you and if you like him. I think it's fine.



i picked this out to show a girl how much i care what do you think?

I'm not sure if you know or not
But I really do love you a lot.
You still hold a special place in my heart
And you did, right from the start.
But when he came along and took your breath away,
I was devastated and didn't know what to say.
I spend my nights crying, time after time,
I spent my days lying, saying I was fine.
Little did you know, my heart was crushed inside,
And on that day, a little of me died.
But with her, you look so in love
'Cause you are an angel from above.
I now have to teach my heart to move on,
For, you are now forever gone.
But about one thing I am unsure:
Why it can't be me, and not him?
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Wow. That is really touching. I am guessing you liked a girl and someone else got her instead of you and she took a piece of your heart. I think that it's really, extremely good.


So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
Meeting someone is also good at school if you don't go to the mall much, or maybe set up a party at a friends house and ask them to invite their friends. You should probably wait longer then a week before you start flirting because it will hurt your ex-boyfriend. Look for someone who will make you happy and wont hurt you.



I have a boyfriend who I am quite happy with, although he lives miles away because he just went off to uni. However I also fancy my best mate and vice versa (we are both bi) and last night, we kissed. Its not like we have never kissed before, but its usually been more... arranged or friendly, but this was because we really wanted to, little alcohol involved.

I dont know what to do now, because I kindof want to be with my best friend, but i dont want to split up with my boyfriend. And i feel like shit because I dont even feel bad that I cheated on him, more that i feel bad because i have so little concience.

Help me! What do I do?

Sorry its so long. (link)
If you didn't feel bad about cheating on your boyfriend your feelings for him have changed and they are stronger towards your best friend. You cannont stay with both of them because one way or another they will find out and you will end up alone and hurt, so will they. I think you should tell your boyfriend what happened and take it from there. Tell him exactly what you felt and what took place. Sometimes it is best to talk it over.





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