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love sick puppy
i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......
plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...
siqned,
love sick puppy
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if your not ready your not ready i mean that shouldnt be a problem i mean if he loves you enough he should be willing to wait! hope i helped!!
all the love
kylee shae
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If you really aren't ready, tell him that. If he loves you as much as you love him he will understand. Just know this, you are going to have to kiss someone like that anyway. Even if you are scared, conquer your fears. Making out isn't that bad. He might get fed up if you guys are still going out in months and you still don't want to kiss like that. Don't be afraid and just try it.
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Pup,
If you're not ready, explain that to your boyfriend. I can't promise that he'll like it ... but if he really likes / loves you, he'll accept it and allow you more time.
Ask him to hold off a little, that you're new to tihs and don't want to go too fast.
Just because everyone is doing it, or losing it, doesn't make it cool.
In fact, I think the exact opposite.
If everyone is doing it, or losing it, it can't be good.
Think this way : You could ALWAYS lose your virginity, but you can't ever get it back.
Sure, it's just a kiss, with a little tounge, but nonetheless, it could grow more and more if you don't explain that you're simply not ready.
-FunnyCide
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Dear love sick puppy,
He sounds like he likes you alot, and by wanting to do more than you think you're ready, he's trying to show it, which means if you just tell him that you feel he's rushing it, he will probably understand.
Remember be gentle when you tell him, like if he's trying to kiss you in a way you aren't comfortable, stop him gently and tell him you're uncomfortable and ask him if for right now at least you guys can take it a little slower.
And remember it's your relationship with him, it's not anyone else's relationship so what they do has nothing to do with what you do. You should never feel pressured to do what you don't want to.
If they was to mess up their bodies (not saying they will) that's their desicion and their body not yours.
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If you have to ask an advice forum if you should have sex or not, then you are not ready to.
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If you don't tell him, you will end up doing something you are not ready for. If you don't tell him, how will he know how you feel. Also, if you don't tell him there is no trust in your relationship which is hard to deal with later on when you two get into arguements. I believe you should tell him what is on your mind and if he loves you he will understand and try to space the things you do out so he is not rushing.
<3 Good Luck. Hope I helped.
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