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E-mail: xoxobrunnette044@aim.com
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Location: Tennessee
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Member Since: January 3, 2006
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14/f
Hi, my name is Ali. My mom is taking me to a hair salon to get my highlights touched up. I have dirty blonde hair and blonde highlights. Could someone please give me ideas on what else I could do to my hair. Like maybe dye it or add different color highlights. If you want a picture of me just ask.

thanks in advance =) (link)
ok i would keep you hair blonde and keep the dirty blonde highlites and then put light carmel brown ones it would look really cute!


could someone give me the steps to successfully scrunching your hair? i always try it and can't do it right (link)
wash hair
put gel in it and scrunch ya know
blowdry
more gel
Done!


15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.

we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.

I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!

Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??

thank you so much in advance!!

-Kelsey-
k2204 (link)
thats just how brothers are they try to have their own life and they think that they're cool and you're not and they try to get on your nerves b.c. they think its funny dont let it get you down he'll grow up and ya'll will h ave y our i love you moments!!! hope i helped

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kylee shae


hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep** (link)
NO! think about it if he lives in Flordia and you live in Tennessee you would never be able so see him just talk to him when yall are on the internet you would never know what hes truly like or even what his voice sounds like or he might be cheating on you and you would never know!!! but its your decision im just saying lol! hope i helped

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kylee shae


I'm trying to eat healthy, and I wanted to know some foods you recommend for the following catagories that are healthy. Please be specific, I need all the guidelines I can get (and I am pairing it with exercise). Thank you!
Breakfast-
Lunch-
Snack-
Dinner- (link)
i would deff. eat fruit and vegetables milk and water help to so for break fast a beagal and fruit or somethin lunch a salad and with vegetables and eggs and stuff in it or w.e. then for a snack fruit anything and dinner chicken or somethin and then excercise alot!!!!! hope i helped

p.s. give yourself some calories just not to many

all the love
kylee shae


i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......

plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...

siqned,
love sick puppy (link)
if your not ready your not ready i mean that shouldnt be a problem i mean if he loves you enough he should be willing to wait! hope i helped!!

all the love
kylee shae


this will be kind of long but i really need help and will rate high. i basically have no life. i have friends but they all live so far and it's hard to make plans. someone always cancels, or i lose my ride, or something happens. i live in the middle of nowhere and attend a school outside my district. i spend my days and nights alone and i actually got a job so i could feel like i was out for at least a few hours every week. to be honest, i was hoping to make friends at the job but they gave me a job in the back of the store all by myself and that doesn't help either. i try to talk to people at my school and most of them just really don't care what i have to say. i guess i'm just not interesting. three of my friends i have not seen since they left my school and the two i do see are completely disappointing in the sense that they do nothing but emotionally harm me. i need to know how to meet people, and make more friends... i have no idea how to get out and socialize if i can't do that at work and school. i just need some advice because i feel like giving up on life. all i really want is someone i can hang out with when i'm not working to escape my pathetic excuse of a life... i don't understand why it's so hard. :-/ please help me. (link)
sweetie what i think you should do is just talk to the people at work ask them to hang out sometime talk to the people at school try to find someone like you theres not to much you can do but im almost positive that you'll make friends and you'll do fine because i was really interested in what you had to say and im sure theres other people that are too. hang in there and email me if you want to at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com hope i helped!!!!!

all the love
kylee shae


Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do? (link)
This is just my opinion but i think that you should NOT get rid of your g/f trust me been down the road you will miss her soo much plus shes just going with a FRIEND it will be ok i promise and if she likes him better shes not good enough for you and not worth your while and plus you can call her every day and make sure shes ok!!! i really hope i helped


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I am a 14 female so I don't know if that is going to help. I have a little sister who is 8. Me and her usually get along great, we don't fight unless we mess around with each other. I love messing with her and she likes it too because that is the only time we have to be together and act stupid. I don't have much time now that school started, so we don't talk too much. I don't play with her as much. I am not allowed to get on the computer when my parents are home so I get on when they go somewhere. My sister never really minded this but lately she has been telling on me on a lot of things that I do wrong. Sometimes she even makes up lies up about what I do. My parents are really getting annoyed. They think I am changing in a bad way. I don't know what to do anymore. My sister is always telling me how she hates me and wants me to die. She doesn't even want to be in the same room as me or eat the same food as me. What is her problem? Can someone help me please.What do I do? (link)
i think she just wants you to hang out with her more and things to be like they used to even if she doesnt show it, its down inside trust me! So i think you should just talk to her!

all the love
kylee shae


I wear makeup to hide ugly scars on my face. With my makeup on no one ever knows that I have them. Only my family has ever seen me without my makeup. My boyfriend of one year is getting fed up with me. He cant accept the fact that he cant see me as sporadically as he'd like. When he comes over unannounced I make him wait 10 or 20 mins while I fix myself up. He says that he loves me no matter what.. and yet he is always saying the best thing about me is my beauty. Should I reveal to him how I truly look and risk losing him? Or save face and let him be upset? (link)
honey if he really likes you then i doesnt matter how you look im sure you're beautiful and he probably wont care but if he does hes not good of enough for you!!! ITS THE INSIDE THAT COUNTS!!

email me at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com and rate HOPE I HELPED!

all the love
kylee shae


okay, whenever i get a grade ike a "B", my parents yell at me! i'm used to it, but why dothey have to yell when i only get a "B"? i mean, what's up with that? i know this seems like a small situation, but please help me!!

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if i were you i would go to my parents and say i tried my best its not like im not trying i pay attention and a B is above average thats really good so im sorry but im realaly trying

hope i helped rate me

all the love
kylee shae


my mom knows i have a boyfriend she does her best to split us up alot like when she knows im talking to him on the phone she will yell at me for no apparent reason, she won't let me go to sleep overs, movies, no where with anybody and she knows i like my boyfriend alot, i feel were growing apart because we never spend time together at all unless he sneaks over my house while my moms at work. its basically like she is jealous. what should i do? what should i say? my momma be trippin' alot i cant go nowhere me or my sister without her and this relationship im in now i never was surer about love than this one relationship i feel different its not like the others im sure of it but my momma doesn't think so because she think she knows every d#*# thang which she doesn't i won't break up with my boyfriend even if i have to sneak and do things that is very wrong and im not really a sneaky person but my momma just dont want us to get closer at all as a matter of fact i believe she wants us to break up even if she claims she likes my baby. (link)
i think she likes you being your little girl and she doesnt you two to grow apart and that she doesnt want you to get hurt emotionally or phiscally so i think you should sit down and have a nice long talk with her and tell her how you feel have a curfew but be able to go out be able to talk on the phone without interuptions :)

rate me and i hope i helped and email me at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com

all the love
kylee shae


i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help (link)
i like these names....

aubrey
morgan
shelby
caroline
laci
sarah
tiffani
keylee
madison
renne

hope i helped
rate me
and email me when you decide at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com


all the love
kylee


right now i have light brown hair thats about 3 inches past my shoulders. i have a round/oval face. i was wondering if a shorter hairstyle would look ok on me... not too short. i want it to be layered with just a little bit of "spikeyness" and the last layer should just tounch my shoulders. does anyone have any good websites for this type of haircut? (link)
ok for one i think that would look REALLY CUTE i think you should go for it but i dont know any hair cut websites hope i helped

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kylee shae


my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.

thanks. i rate 5's (link)
well first of all a good shampoo and conditioner product is biolage and when you straighten your hair use a comb and briolage hair spray!!!


hope i help and please rate
all the love
kylee shae


i need some make up tips. 13/f and i love makeup but want some other ways to put it on but not look like i tried to hard because i am going to where it to school every day. If this helps * 13/f light brown hair brown eyes long oval face big nose perfect shaped eyebrown thin upper lip lower lip normal size great attitude i want to shine* and be noticed *much love i rate!!!
p.s. websited helpful!!!!***** (link)
ok i would light brown eye shadow and smoky looking bronw eyeliner 9 if wanted ) no lip liner but light pink lipglosses or no really brown but almost or clear looking colors and then sheer cover works really good for powder!!

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kylee shae


so my boyfriend who is really afectionate never calls. he used to call, but ever since we started going out he has stoped. i no he stil likes me but i feel liek i dont ahve a boyfriend because he never makes much of an effort to contact me. so anyadvice on what i shoudl do or why he is doing this.
and yes i no hes buisy, but it doesnt take much time to quickly check p on someone if u really care for them (link)
i would call him everyday and i would also tell him how you feel if he tells you hes busy everyday ( i mean every once in a while i understand ) tell him well i dont wana break up but if your to busy to talk to me why do u like me??? please email me i like to know wat if done worng/right at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com or IM me at xoxobrunnette044!

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kylee shae


Well, my best friend died exactly a year ago as of yesterday. I'm not sure if many of you are familiar with my question I posted last year about her death, but so you can hear the whole story here's the link: http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=248637

I've had a hard time dealing with her death, mentally and physically and I've been really depressed. I still blame myself for her death every day because I still feel that if I were there it wouldn't have happened.

I really need help coping with it... I've tried to keep myself busy with fencing, my boyfriend, my friends and schoolwork.. But nothing really seems to keep my mind fully off of what happened.

This past week, when her anniversary came up was when I really started to get depressed. I've gone to therapy because of her death and also because of other problems and my therapist keeps telling me that it wasn't my fault and that I couldn't have prevented it from happening. But if you really think about it, I COULD saved her. She kept begging me to go to the party with her but I said no because I wanted to be with my boyfriend. I think that if I wasn't being so selfish in wanting to spend so much time with my boyfriend, then I WOULD have gone to the party. My ex boyfriend WOULDN'T have slipped X in her drink he WOULDN'T have raped her and she WOULDN'T be dead.

I talk to her family almost every day and they always tell me that it's not my fault... But I still feel like it is.


How can I stop feeling like this is my fault? And how can I finally get closure on her death? (link)
sweetie you told her not to drink it its not your fault if you would of been at the party with her you would be dead right now too theres NOTHING you could've done so dont blame yourself you have no right to do that and if you want to i would love to talk to you anytime you want to and i am soo sorry! email me at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com!

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P.S. I HOPE I HELPED!


My names "Ali" and i met my friend, joe in grade 7. I am now in grade 12 and hes in University. He has gay tactics which are not attractive for a girl. So i went to prom with him because we were friends and such. I think hes starting to like me though because hes overprotective and never wants me to like anyone even if their his best friends, (who are so sweet). His mom put our prom picture in her kitchen where his whole Italian family can see it. It is so annoying and i will never EVER like him more than just a friend. How should I tell him?
Sorry this is long (link)
i agree with ronda she gives great advice i think that you should wait till your are positvie but i will admite it does sound like he likes you so i would just tell him how you feel just try not to take away the friendship!

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all the love
kylee shae


Okay theres these two girls at school that I was BEST friends with until this year, they decided to believe that I lie and spread rumors about them. Ill admit theres some things that I regret but Ive apologized 10 times.. its like all they wanna do is fight.but now theyre hanging out with this girl and shes just really mean and theyve turned into her.. thats why I dont like them anymore.But its hard cuz theyre really immature about it (throwing volleyballs at me in gym, looking at me while they talk to people about me, obviously, dirty looks) and i have to deal with it every day. I only have 1 friend at school because they turned everybody against me. What do I do?? (link)
thats just immature if they throw volley balls at you throw it back give you a dirty look do i straight back and hey a friend is a friend it doesnt matter how many you have it matters if you have that one good one and true friends stay together through thick and thin, through all the rumors and the grins, through all the pain and all the tears! email me at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com and please rate me!




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